Ingqungquthela yolwazi.
Ngexesha elizayo ekubizayo, tshela ukuba ucinga ngaye, okanye uya kumbiza. Kwaye, kunjalo, okanye akunjalo, akunandaba. Into ephambili kukuvumela umntu ukuba unolwazi oluthile lokuxhamla naye. Uninzi lwabantu, kuquka namadoda, lukholelwa enkolelo kwaye bakholelwa kwiimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo, ubuxoki kunye nezinye izinto "zobumnyama" zobomi bethu. Ngako oko, ngenxa yoluhlu lwezinto "ezihambelanayo", okhethiweyo unokuqiniseka ukuba unesidiselwano esikhethekileyo, uxhulumano lwengqondo.
Thetha nje ngo kwenjenjalo!
Ngaba unomnye osebenza naye osebenza naye kwintsimi enye, uthanda umculo ofanayo, kodwa ingxoxo yakho ayidlulanga ngaphezu kwemizuzu elishumi? Kutheni kunjalo? Into ephambili ayikho into othetha ngayo, kodwa INDLELA oyenza ngayo. Unxibelelwano kaninzi alusebenzi kubantu abanemilinganiselo eyahlukeneyo yencoko. Le ngcamango yafika kuthi kwiprogram ye-neurolinguistic. Kukho iintlobo ezintathu: i-kinesthetic, auditory and visual. Ukuze ube mnxibelelwano othakazelisayo nonomdla, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba uluphi uhlobo lwesimo somntu umntu. IiVuzuals zihlala zisebenzisa amagama-imifanekiso ("yibona kwenzeka ntoni") kwingxoxo. Umntu onxulumene nabaphulaphuli uya kuthetha malunga noko akuvayo ("kuyavakala kungavamile, kodwa"). Iimpawu zezilwanyana zisebenza ngeengqondo zabo, uya kuvava kubo: "Ndive ngelo xesha." Ngokukhawuleza, kuyacaca ukuba ungubani umntu onxibelelana naye, uya kukwazi ukulungelelanisa, kwaye iingxoxo zakho ziza kuchitha iiyure. Uya kuba nomdla kumntu.
Usuvele uqabane!
Qalisa ukusebenzisa inkulumo yakho isigamazwi "us", "thina". Ukuhlala kwibhar, mbuze: "Ngaba sinokuyilungisa iwayini?". Ukubeka le ngcamango entloko yomntu, udala kuye umfanekiso wesibini. Ши Cши C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Nangona kunjalo, ungadluli ngexabiso elithi "thina", khumbula, yonke into ifanele ibe ngokumodareyitha. Ibinzana elithi "nto esiya kuyenza ngeeholide" kwinyanga yokuqala yobudlelwane bakho inokumothukisa indoda.
Adrenaline!
Yiba ngumbutho kunye neemvakalelo eziqaqambileyo ezinamandla, kunye ne-adrenaline. Thenga ithikithi kwikhonti yebhendi yakho oyintandokazi, ukusuka kumculo apho intanda yakho ethandeka ngayo i-goosebumps, inika ukuxhoma ngeparachute. Ngelinye igama, yakha imeko apho intliziyo yomntu wakho iya kulwela nzima, iya kuba nemvakalelo eqaqambileyo. Khumbula ukuba ukuvusa okugqithiseleyo kunye ngokwesondo kuyafana kakhulu: intliziyo iphinda ibethe ngokukhawuleza, iphefumula ngokukhawuleza, imvakalelo ecacileyo efanayo kunye nemibono emihle. Ukumbiza ngokuba ngumanyano oqinileyo kunye neemeko ezigqithiseleyo, uya kumnxulumanisa ngeemvakalelo ezimnandi.
Umbala.
Unjani umbala ukuqonda ngesondo. Akusiyo nto into yokuba umbala obomvu umbala wesini kunye nokukhwabanisa. Ngakuphi ixesha lokugqibela owabeka ngalo obomvu, obomvu, isityebi kunye nobunzulu? Ngomhla olandelayo, qiniseka ukuba ugqoke i-blouse ebomvu okanye isketi. Uluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye nohlaza, ngokuchaseneyo, kunomphumela wokuthoba. Ukuba ufuna ukuba nobusuku obumnandi nobumnandi, gqoka enye yezi ntyatyambo.
Mirror.
Iengqondo, xa sikopisha iminyango yomnxibelelwano, sisondela kuye, njengaye. Ngengqiqo, oku kuqondwa njengentsebenziswano. Kopisha ukuziphatha kunye nokuhamba komntu wakho, umzekelo, ukuba ubeka unyawo lwakhe emlenzeni wakhe, yenza okufanayo. Oku kuya kukusondeza kuye.
Igama lokuqala.
Ngomntu, igama lakhe lithetha kakhulu. Shayela indoda ngokuqhelekileyo ngegama lakhe. Xa ubiza iileta zegama lakhe, usondela kuye. Ukwenza uxhumano olusondeleyo noluntu. Into ephambili ayiyikuyidlula. Isiqingatha seyure yoqhagamshelwano lwakho ngokwaneleyo ukumbiza ngokuphindwe kathathu ngegama, ukuba wenza njalo ngoku, kwaye unokubangela ukukrokra.
Chukumisa
Iimvakalelo zentsimbi zihlala zimnandi. Ши Cши C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C H C C C C C C C C C C C Isandla esingenacala ehlombe lakhe okanye ukuthintela ngokungathinteka kunokukuzisa wena nomntu.