Emva kwakho konke, nangona uvuyo olunokuthi ukhululekile unokufumana umntu ophumelele kwaye uphumelele.
Ndingazibona zonke izigaba zokuphuhlisa umhlobo wam. Ukususela kwimincili yomnye umntu, ingqondo yakhe yayingahle ibe yinto ephucukileyo, yaba yintlonelo kwaye yaxhamla, wabuya waqala ukukhangela umntu onetyala kunomntu ongcono kunabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umyeni wakhe unetyala, ngenxa yokuba wayekufutshane. Nangona kudlulileyo lweminyaka, umona wakhe, njengesifo sesifo sokuzalwa, ungasondla ixesha elithile, uze uhlawule kwakhona. Kwaye ngoko unyaka unyaka.
Ndandisoloko ndiba nomsindo kuye, kuba ndabona kwaye ndayiqonda into awayenayo. Kunzima kangakanani ukuba aphile phakathi kwabantu. Ngokomgaqo, ubomi bakhe bukhula kakuhle, kodwa, ngokusobala, kwakungenako ngokwaneleyo. Ndandifuna ngakumbi nangakumbi, kodwa ukuba le "hayi" ayikho, indoda yam inetyala. Nantsi njalo.
Ukuqhathanisa wena kunye nesimo sakho kunye nempumelelo yabanye abantu, ukuhlalutya oku kunye nezigqibo ezingenakukukhokelela ekubukeleni le nkcitho yabantu abalahlekileyo abacebileyo, abantu ababenokuthi naziphi na izizathu ezingafaniyo zenzeke ebomini. Bacinga ukuba abanelisekanga ngento ethile, abazange bajonge, abazange baqaphele amandla abo. Nangona umnqweno wokuba ocebile kwaye uphumelele kakhulu, unobuchule kwaye unentliziyo enomona, abantu abanomona abafuduki kwindawo yabo, baqhubeka bevalelwa ngumona odlayo. Ngenxa yintoni na? Ukufezekisa oludweliswe ngaphambili, kufuneka uhlale uphucula. Njalo ukwenza imizamo, ukusebenza kunye nokufezekisa-ngamanye amazwi, musa ukuhlala uhleli, kodwa uhlale usebenza ngokwakho kwaye ujongane neengxaki ezivela. Nangona kulula kakhulu ukuhamba kunye nokuguqula nantoni na ebomini.
Yaye yintoni ebomini kubantu abanomona? Ngokwemvelo, ukuba yisizathu sokucaphukisa komnye umntu ungaphantsi kwesantya sokuzonwabisa. Abantu abanobugwenxa bahlekisayo emva kwabo, bakhala kunye nokuhleba, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bangcolile kwiindawo zabo ezintle nezakhono zabo.
Ukuphelelwa lithemba akufanele kubekho, mayeke ukutshaya umtyhefu emva kwakho, kodwa bayakukhwele! Impumelelo yakho, sele iwaxabisile. Inani labantu abanomona lingabonwa njengomqondiso wempumelelo yobomi bakho. Kodwa ekuboniseni ngamabomu impumelelo yabo, akufanelekanga ukuwachukumisa kubo, yindlela eqondekileyo yokuzidla nokuzihlamba.
Umntu onengqiqo kwaye uyazi ukuba nomona ngeengqondi. Omnye uya kuthi: "Wanikwa njani yena, kwaye mna andiyi?" Omnye - onengqiqo, uya kucinga: - "Wakwazi ukufezekisa, kodwa kutheni ndingenayo? Ndiyintoni embi kakhulu? "Oku kubizwa ngumona omhlophe, usebenza njengentuthuko yokuphuhlisa nokuziphucula. Umntu owaziyo ukukhwele umona omhlophe angatsho ngokucacileyo ukuthi: "Ewe, ndiyamona, kodwa ndiyakwazi ukufezekisa enye, okanye ngaphezulu." Yaye uya kwenza njalo.
Umona omnyama kunye nobuthi bawo ubuthiza umphefumlo wakho, kwaye umona omhlophe unceda ukuqhubela phambili, ukuqhubela phambili. Ungesabi ukuba nomona. Into ephambili kukuba ukwazi ukwenza oko ukuze ungabi nomsindo nomntu ophumelele impumelelo, kwaye uvakalise ukunyaniseka kwakhe. Yenze njalo entliziyweni.
Umona omnyama nomhlophe uhlala kuthi kufuphi nathi kwaye kaninzi kuthi. Omnye kufuneka akwazi ukwahlula omnye komnye aze angabi nomona omnyama. Ukuba unomona, umona umona omhlophe, kwaye kungcono ukuba ungabi namona kubo bonke, kungcono ukuthatha enye i-vertex ngaphandle kokujonga emva kwabanye.