Intlupheko kunye nobutyebi yimo yengqondo kunye nendlela yokucinga. Ubutyebi buhlala bunxulumene nolonwabo, impumelelo, indlela engakhathaliyo yobomi, kunye nentlupheko - ngokunganeliseki nentlungu. Kodwa oku akunjalo njalo ...
Ngoku abaninzi iingcaphephe-iingcali zeengqondo kunye neentlalo-zentlalo ziqinisekisa ingcamango yokuba wonke umntu angaba nesityebi. Umbuzo wukuthi akuyena wonke umntu ofuna le nto. Ngomlinganiselo, ngamnye wethu ubuncinci ubonisa: "Kodwa ukuba ndicebile ...", kodwa yintoni kanye efunekayo kule nto kunye nantoni na iinjongo zokusebenzisa - asiyazi. Ingxaki ebalulekileyo ayikho imeko ephathekayo yabantu abaninzi njengokuba besenqwenela ukwenza imizamo yokuba benze utshintsho. Abantu bafumana oko bakulungele ukuchitha amandla abo nexesha, apho banenkalipho nethemba. Abantu abampofu nangomzuzwana abakwazi ukucinga ukuba banokufumana imali engaphezulu. Nantsi i-psychology yabantu abanjalo: bayakhalaza ngesimo esibi kwaye bathabathe intlupheko njengesigwebo sempilo. Kulula kubo ukuba bagxeke bonke abantu kwiimeko zabo ezibuhlungu kunokuba basukuma benze into yokuphucula isimo sabo kunye nokukhula kobutyebi bendalo.
Iimpawu zabampofu, ezibonakaliswe ukungabi naluphi na umnqweno wokutshintsha. Abantu abanjalo bathanda ukudlala ngokukhuselekileyo-vumela umsebenzi ohlawulwa phantsi, kodwa ukhuselekile. Ubomi babo bendalo "bubungcono kuneentaka ezandleni zabo ..." Kwaye nangengcinga zabo bakhetha ukungenzi nasiphi na isigqibo esichengile kakhulu, ngaba ingqesho entsha okanye utyalo-mali.
Abantu abaninzi abazizityebi bashiya "imiqamelo". Benza njani loo nto? Wonke umntu onokholo kwengqondo lomntu ohluphekileyo uya kuthi: "Kakade, unamathele!" Okanye "Umama-ocebileyo, wanceda." Ngoko kulula ukuba amahlwempu adibanise kunye nokuba umntu ofanayo nabo bakwazi ukuphumelela ebomini, kwaye bahlala behluphekile. Kodwa izityebi azizona zonke izigwenxa okanye abantwana babazali abazizityebi. Baye nje ngabantu abaqhelekileyo abangenako ukutshintsha utshintsho, bashiya umsebenzi wabo okhuselekileyo baze bavumela ukuba bacinge ukuba yonke into ingahluka. Baqala ishishini labo kwaye abazange bazizisole. Nangona uhlwempu, unokuba ngumrhwebi ophumelelayo. Kwaye oku akukho imfuneko yokuba neengqondo ezigqwesileyo - kufuneka ube neengcamango ezibalulekileyo uze ukwazi ukuphumeza. Okanye njengento yokugqibela yokukwazi ukukhuthaza abantu abanokukwenza oko. Abantu abahluphekayo abahlala bekrokrela ukuba iimbono zingaba njani kunye nokuba zeziphi iimpumelelo eziya kufumaneka. Abemi be "imingxuma" abakholelwa ekusebenzeni kwabo, ekubeni banokutshintsha indlela yabo yobomi.
Indoda ehlwempu ihamba ngeendlela ezikhoyo, engafuni ukukhula, ayifuni kubalulekile ukuba ufunde izinto ezintsha. Uyingcipheko kuzo zonke iindawo. Kwaye esinye sezizathu eziphambili zentlupheko yakhe. Abantu abahluphekayo abafundanga ngemali. Bacinga ukuba kulungile ukuthenga izinto ezincinci, nangona zihlala ziphangiwe kwaye, ngenxa yoko, imali isetyenziswe ekuhlaziyeni. Kwaye kwizinto ezinzulu ezifana nokuthi, ukuthenga imoto, le nto ingaba yingxaki yangempela. Indoda ehlwempu icinga ukuba: "Andiyinayo imoto enhle. Ndingcono ukuthenga imoto esincinci - ngokwaneleyo kum. " Kwaye iingxaki zokulungiswa, ukugcinwa kweso siqala, kuyo yonke imali yamahhala kwaye loo mntu uphinde uxhomeke ekudakaleni aze aqale ukuzizisola. Uqalekisa "isisityebi" sokuba banethuba lokukhwela imoto enotyebileyo, ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba yena ngokwakhe unokuba yityebi. Ewe, aba bantu banako ukufumana okufanayo. Kungaba ngcono ukwenza imizamo kwaye ugcine imali encinane, okanye uthathe mboleko, kodwa uthenge imoto enhle kanye. Oku ekupheleni bekuya kuba kubi kakhulu kubhajethi yentsapho.
Ingxaki kukuba umntu ohluphekileyo uya kuhlala ehlwempu nangemva kokuphumelela izigidi kwiLotter. Akayi kukwazi indlela yokuyisebenzisa ngokuhlakanipha, ukwandisa, kungekhona nje ukuyeka umoya. Imali yomntu oyimpofu iya kutshabalala zingaphantsi kweenyanga ezintandathu.
Umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwabantu abazizityebi nabampofu indlela yabo yokucinga. Indoda ehlwempu ifuna ukuba nemali eninzi, ukuze "iwele" kuye kwenye indawo. Kwaye izityebi ziya kufunda iindlela zokuphindaphinda kwazo, ukuba zikhona kunye neengeniso, ukuba zingekho.
Ihlwempu zihlala ziloyiko. Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa. Nangona, ngokubanzi, akukho nto yokulahlekelwa. Abantu abaphumelele kakhulu bahlala bebeka ubomi babo engozini ukuze bathathe into kuyo. Bafunda ukulahlekelwa, kodwa bafunda ukuqonda ukunqotshwa kwabo njengenkuthazo yokunqoba.
Iityebi ziye zaba zizityebi kuba zibhabha ngoku. Banobeka ingozi, ngelixa bengasoloko behlala ekuphumeleleni, kodwa ayikayeki ukuzama ukuphucula imeko yabo. Kodwa wonke umntu unokuba ngumcebisi. Ngokomzekelo, yintoni na umntu ohluphekileyo uza kwenza ukuba ngokukhawuleza unokufumana ii-real estate? Baya kuwuthengisa ngokuchitha imali ngeze, okanye bavumele izihlobo, abahlobo okanye abahlobo baya khona mahhala. Ngenxa yokuba abahlwempuzekile banentloni ukuba bathathe imali nantoni na, bayicinga njengento ehlazo kwaye bengenakufaneleka. Isityebi siya kuqala ukutyalisa le propati, uzuze kuyo. Ngoko kwiminyaka engama-2-3 uya kuba nethuba lokuthenga enye indlu.
Abantu abazizityebi banomdla kakhulu, banomdla ekuphuhliseni amathuba amashishini amatsha, ukudala ixabiso elitsha abangazithenga. Iityebi zihlala zikwaziswa kwaye zinemisebenzi kwiindawo ezininzi zezemali, ishishini, njl. Iityebi zisebenza kwaye zihlala zikhangele amathuba okuthatha ingozi, zihlala zikulungele ukuphuhlisa.