Uthando luvakalelo olunzima. Kwaye ngamnye kuthi, uthando luqulethwe ezininzi zeentlobo. Uhlobo oluthe wafumana amanqaku amaninzi luya kuba yintloko: le ndlela uqala ngayo kwaye ukhetha ukuthanda. Ulindele uhlobo olufanayo lomthando oluvela kumntu. Ukuba awudibana nomntu onokulawula ukuqonda indlela yakho yokuthanda, ulwalamano lwakho kunye nomlingane luya kuba lukhuni, yintoni enye enokuyifumana, kunye nokuphikisana, okubi kakhulu.
Ezinye iintlobo zothando - ngokuqhelekileyo okwesibini, okungafanekiyo-okwesithathu, ngokukhawuleza kuza kuqala, ngexesha elithile bahlala kwindawo eyona ndawo, bahlukane nobudlelwane bakho kunye nabathandekayo bakho, benze ixesha elide kwaye banikezele ubomi bakho bugcwele kunye nobuqili.
Uthando oluncedo
Kwakhona kuthiwa "uthando ngokubalwa" - lwakhiwe ngovelwano kunye nokuqonda ngokucacileyo: lo mntu uyangifanele, ngokuba unamandla, unomusa, nemfundo ephakamileyo, unelungelo elihle lokukhonza, kwaye yena, njengam, uthanda i-cinema, iincwadi malunga neentlobo kunye nezinja. Yaye ukuba uthe wavuka ebusuku, wena amehlo akho avaliwe, unokuluhlula ngokulula zonke izidima kunye nokungahambi kakuhle kweqabane.
Iinkonzo . I-Flares ihamba kancane, ihlala ixesha elide. Isiseko esihle somtshato.
Umxhasi . Kubuhlungu.
Umzekelo . UMongameli waseMelika uBarack Obama nomkakhe uMichelle.
Umdlalo wothando
Kuwe, iimpawu zangaphandle eziziqakathekileyo zentliziyo zibalulekile: ukumbuyisela intloko, ukuya kwindawo ethile kunye, ukudansa, ukudlala ngothando. Ngokunomdla. Kodwa awufuni ukuhambelana nomhlobo wakho, njengokuba unokungena ngaphakathi kwiimvakalelo zakhe. Ukwabelana ngokuzithandela kunye nabathandekayo bakho, kodwa kungekhona intlungu, inhlanhla, kodwa ayinangxaki. Uyakwazi ukutshintsha xa udibana nomntu onokuzonwabisa. Isazela sakho asinakukuthukumeza, uthando lomlingani osisigxina aluyi kunciphisa.
Iinkonzo . Okuvelisa uvuyo oluninzi, kulula, alugcini, aluyi kunika.
Umxhasi . Akahlali ixesha elide. Ukuze umtshato upheleleke, umtshato onokuhlala kuwo awukwazi ukwakha.
Umzekelo . Umongameli weFransi uNicolas Sarkozy kunye nomkakhe uCarla Bruni.
Uthando oluthandana
Eyona nto, inamandla, inzulu. Ngamanye amaxesha, ingqondo igxilile, ithatha yonke into ehlazo, kwaye unokwenza ulungelelanisa esidlangalaleni umona, ukuxhomekeka kuye - kwaye awukhathaleli ukuba abanye bakuphi na bacinge ngako.
Iinkonzo . Unika uvuyo olukhulu.
Umxhasi . Ixesha elide alikuvumeli ukuba uqonde ukuba umntu uyithandayo. Kwaye ngokusoloko ikhokelela ekudakaleni kuye emva kweminyaka embalwa yomtshato.
Umzekelo . Abadlali uAntonio Banderas noMelanie Griffith.
Uthando-ubuhlobo
Unomdla onomdla, uneenjongo eziqhelekileyo kunye neempawu. Ukulungele ukuxhasana, uhlalutye iingxaki kunye nemisebenzi. Ukhenketwa ngokwesondo kuyingqinelana. Ngokuqhelekileyo ayibonakali ngokukhawuleza: unyaka wenziwa ngumbutho omnye, uxoxe, wenza abahlobo - waza walala kunye kunye novakalelo olunzulu kunye nomhlobo.
Iinkonzo . Hlalani kunye kunye kwaye ningabi mnandi. Le mvakalelo kukuba ubomi bam bonke.
Umxhasi . Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, isondo sisoloko sichithwa ngokweminyaka - akukho nto yayininzi ukususela ekuqaleni. Uthando luguqulwa lugxininiso olungabonakaliyo lwabantu ababini abahlobene.
Umzekelo . Abadlali be-Angelina Jolie noBrad Pitt.
Uthande u mnikelo
Isisusa saso siwukunika yonke into kwaye singabuzi nto into ekubuyayo. Kuwe kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufumane ukuphakama kokuziphatha ngaphezu kwentanda yakho, ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Ukuze ube mkhulu kwaye kuyimfuneko, kuyimfuneko ukubopha enye indlela enokwethenjelwa kakhulu - ukumzisa umnikelo. Uhlobo oluthandekayo luthando Ngamanye amaxesha uthando olunjalo lukhokelela kwintlekele: ibhinqa liye labingelela yonke into eluhlaza kwaye ilungile ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba umtshato. Kulula ukumbulala.
Iinkonzo . Ikuvumela ukuba uzive ubaluleka kunye nokubaluleka.
Umxhasi . Izisa uvuyo oluncinane. Ngokusoloko unakho ubulili obuhle kuwe. Enyanisweni, yena-nakuba enomdla, kodwa enengqiqo. Ngokungaqhelekanga: uyazivumela ukuba amthande kwaye azixabise, kodwa akazithandi.
Umzekelo . Umculi uMaria Callas ngu-Aristotle Onassis ongumphambukeli weentlanga.