Imfundiso yokuziphatha.
Chaza injongo. Kubalulekile ukwazi oko ufuna ngokwenene, kwimihla ngemihla, kwaye unako ukuphatha abantu ngokulula. Kule nqanaba, kufuneka uzinze umgomo ochanekileyo. Umzekelo, umhlobo wakumema ukuba utyelele ngokuhlala ubusuku, kwaye awukwazi ukwenza ixesha le, kuba ufuna ukulungiselela ukuhlolwa, okuya kuba ngumhla emva kwendibano yobusuku. Okanye ngomso unomhla wokuqala kunye nomntu wamaphupha akho, kwaye umfana ubalulekile nje ukuba uziqinisekise ukuba uyona mhle.
Ukufumana inhloli.
Ewe, uyazi ngubani oza ku funeka uthethe naye. Ngoku kuhleli ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi malunga nalo mntu ngokusemandleni, ngoko kuya kuba lula ukusetyenziswa. Ngokomzekelo, iimfuno kunye nomnqweno womntu onokukwazi ukufunda kumntu oqhelekileyo, ujonge kwiphepha leVkontakte, LJ okanye ICQ; ulwazi malunga nekhampani, apho ulindele intlanganiso yodliwano-ndlebe, nje uqokelele kwi-intanethi, kufuneka ukwazi ngokubanzi ngabantu. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa nantoni na into enomdla ngayo - ke ingqalelo kumntu uya kuba yinyani, kwaye oku kuhlanganiswa okukhulu. Wonke umntu uyavuya ukwazi ukuba ungumntu onomdla. Kodwa kuya kuba bhetele xa uyazi iimfuno zomnxibelelisi kungekhona nje "ngegama".
Utshintsho lweendawo.
Uyazi into oyifunayo, kodwa oku akwanele, nokuba kunjalo. Zibeke endaweni yomfana, abazali, utitshala okanye umlawuli wenhlangano, apho ufuna ukuya emsebenzini, kwaye uzame ukuphendula umbuzo abafuna kuwe. Umfana ufuna ukubona intombazana enhle (ihlala icinga nje ukuba icinga njani); abazali - ukuba unyanisekile kwaye uzimele, ukuze kube lula ukuthetha nawe; utitshala - abafuni ukukubeka 5, ukuba ukhumbule iintetho ezine kwi-minus.
Sebenza kumfanekiso.
Amanqaku okupapasha ukuba umfanekiso awunanto, kodwa ubulumko obuninzi buchasene: badibana neengubo. Kwaye ukuphatha abantu ngokulula, kufuneka uhlale uphezulu. I-80% yolwazi olubonakalayo malunga nomnxibelelwano esiyifumanayo, ekhangele ubuso bakhe, i-20% yolwazi inika iimpahla. Ubonakala buza kuthi malunga nawe phantse yonke into ngaphambi kokuba unethuba lokuvula umlomo wakho. Impembelelo yokuqala ibeka itoni yokunxibelelana, yonke into iya kubonakala iyancipha - ngokufanelekileyo okanye ngokungafanelekanga. Xa kuqeshwe kungcono ukuphepha iingubo zobomi obomvu okanye obunamdaka - bengazi kakuhle ukuba zixhasi, nokuba zilungile kakhulu kuwe. Kwi-intanethi zama ukuyenza ngaphandle kokuhlanganiswa kombala oqaqambileyo, i-decollete ejulile kunye nokwenza okubalulekileyo-ezi nkcukacha, ngokuqinisekileyo, ziya kutsala ingqalelo, kodwa kungekhona kuwe, kodwa wena xa ufuna enye.
Intetho ngqo.
Zama ukungasebenzisi amagama "ukufakwa" ("ukuba ufuna", "ngandlela-thile", "ndiza kuthi") - baya kuphazamisa ngokukhawuleza. Nangona amazwi athi "mkhulu", "ngokuqinisekileyo," "njenjalo" kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu, kuba baya kudala isimo sengqondo esihle. Gwema ukudibanisa: "Ndingathanda ....", "Kubonakala kunomdla kum ...", "Ndiza kufikelela kwisiphetho ...", "Awaziyo malunga naso ...." Batshintshe nabo "Ufuna ...", "Uya kuba nomdla ukwazi .... "," Mhlawumbi sele uvile ngeli ... ". Oku kukubonakalisa intlonipho, eya kuba mnandi kuwo wonke umntu, ngoko ke kuya kuba lula ukuphatha abantu. Ngaphezu koko, umnxibelelwano uya kuqala ukucinga ukuba "umbhali" wesigqibo, apho ufuna ukumkholisa kuye, akunjalo nawe.
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Ksenia Ivanova , ngakumbi kwisiza