Iholide yothando

Kwabaninzi kuthi, i-resort ayikho nje ibhishi, iindawo zokuhamba kunye neefowuni zakwiizwe, kodwa kunye noluntu olungenakulibaleka, noluthandwayo. Kodwa kukho enye imbono: "Fi! Kutheni na? Kum! Ngaba inoveli? Ayaziwaphi na? Ayaziwa bani na? "- ngokufanelekileyo ucele amanye amantombazana. Kodwa baya kugcina le ntshutshiso de ukuba bawele kwi-resort. Eyona nto yodwa, ingenasiphelo kunye nomoya odlala. Yona ke ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo banomdla: kwaye bonke bafumana ntoni kule mizuzu emfutshane, ebuthakathaka, bungozi emzimbeni nasemoyeni?


KUYINI I-CHIP?

Ingqungquthela yencwadana yeholide ekhosini lenene le-ego yakho. Wena unkosikazi wale meko. Ukhetha kunye nani, kuphi na ixesha elingakanani ukuchitha. Akukho ubomi, akukho mbopheleleko. Ufumana uvuyo kuphela kwaye uzibonga kunye nehlabathi elijikelezile, apho iqhawe lakho lokuthandana kweholide liyingxenye.

Kwaye ngokungafaniyo kunye nobudlelwane bakho obuqhelekileyo "obuqhelekileyo", i-holiday romance ikunceda ukuba uzive ukhangelekile, unqwenela umnqweno, ufanelekele inkundla enhle kakhulu. Ukongezelela, "kwintlango" ungacinga nangayiphi na imifanekiso: i-vamp yebhinqa, i-whimical nymphet, amantombazana "kwindawo ephulileyo ye-whirlpool" okanye i-coquette eyonwabileyo. Kwaye ukuba iimaski ezisesikweni zanele ngokweziveki zentsuku, ungaya kwi-luxury luxress: yiba yedwa. Ngaba akunjalo inkululeko?

Uthando lweeholide luya kukunika ithuba lokuba uzame kuphela ekudaleni umfanekiso wakho, kodwa nakwizesondo. Uza kuthatha nini isigqibo sokuzalisekisa zonke iingcamango zakho ezingavumelekanga? Kwaye akukho bani uya kukuhlambalaza nangona kuziphatha kakubi kakhulu.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-holiday romance iyinto yokulwa noxinzelelo. Emva kwakho konke, ngenxa yoko, ufumana iimvakalelo ezintle! Kwaye lo buncwane bempilo yakho kwaye bugqwetshwe ngumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla.

ZINTONI IIMISEBENZI?

Ukuqalisa ukutshatisa isithandabuzo kulula. Yaye iya kuba yintoni - iya kukhetha nawe. Nazi ezinye zezona "ziganeko" ezithandwa kakhulu - kuwe nangenxa yakhe.

Ubuhlobo Babantu

YINYE: Emva koko baya kwiindawo ezikude ukuze baqhelane ngokukhawuleza. Kunokwenzeka - kwaye ngendlela yamehlo enqabileyo yendawo. Abemi baseGrisi, iSpeyin, iTurkey, iCyprus kunye neYiputa bajonge kakhulu. Kwaye bakulungele ukunika uthando abantu bezinye iintlanga abanomdla. Ngoko kula mazwe awunakwenzeka ukuba uhambe unganeliseki.

OH: Ewe, unabantwana abathandekayo, abaluhlaza obumnyama nabafazi abathathu abathobelayo, abahle. Kodwa INDLELA yokuhlala ngayo le mihla yobomi bemihla ngemihla, ucamngca bonke abanye abafazi abangabamhlophe abamhlophe, bekhululekile kwaye banemihlali, enjalo - ngokwemigangatho yamazwe asempuma - angenakuzithoba!

Siphinde sithandeke kubo. Isiqhamo esinqatshelwe kakhulu. Yingakho basithwala ngezandla zabo baze bavuthe iinqumba zothuli. Kwaye ebusuku - nje ngqwithi yethando!

Ubumnandi bumnandi

NAKHO: Ukuba sele ufune ukufumana amava amatsha, indawo yokutyelela iyindawo yokukhetha ilungelo "utitshala". Ewe, kwaye iiparameters zeqabane elizayo elunxwemeni liyabonakala ngeso iso. Yaye ukuba uthe wagqiba, jolisa kwaye ungaziva uzisola, nokuba umntu ukulindele ekhaya. Okokuqala, ngomhlobo omtsha unokuzama into enamahloni okuyenza kwiingalo zomlingane osisigxina. Okwesibini, ngoko unako ukusebenzisa isicelo sakho esitsha. Kwaye okwesithathu, uya kuqinisekisa ubungqina bakho hhayi kuphela kuye, kodwa kwabanye abantu. Emehlweni kuya kubakho ukukhanya okuqhakazileyo kwindoda eyanelisayo, kwaye ukuzithemba kuya kuphakama esibhakabhakeni!

INTLOKO: Inxalenye yesilisa yoluntu inomdla kwiindawo zokungcebeleka "ngaphandle kwe-samovar yazo" ngezizathu ezifanayo. Phula kude nobomi bemihla ngemihla embalwa ukulahlekelwa intloko ... Ewe, ukuba umfazi uphishekela umgangatho, ngoko ngamadoda, ngamanye amaxesha, kunye nobungakanani. Ukuqokelela imilenze ende kunazo zonke, iibhotshi ezininzi kakhulu, ezona zivuya kakhulu - umdlalo wesintu oqhelekileyo. Kodwa loo ntlanzi kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo abe nekhono kwimicimbi emnandi.

Ukulila kwisiqwenga

Wena: kwenzeka kwaye kunjalo. Kwiholide bazama abantu abahlala kwiiofisi ezihamba ngeeveki, basebenza ukususela kusasa kuze kube sebusuku bengenazo iintsuku kunye neeholide, kwaye bebancitshiswe ithuba lokuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo kwizihloko ezingabonakaliyo nomntu onomdla.

Ngomntu onjalo, uhleka, uxoxe ngezinto ezincinane, uxoxe ngokutya kwendawo kunye nenqanaba lenkonzo. Kwaye-kwakhona ukuvula nayiphi na imfihlelo yakho kwaye uthetha nje. Akuyingozi, ngenxa yoko awuyi kuphinda ubonane. Musa nje ukuxanduva ngeengxaki zakho zemihla ngemihla, ngenxa yokuba engazange eze kwi-resort ukuze aphulaphule "yintoni into enommelwane ovela phezulu" okanye indlela ovuyayo ngayo ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngenxa yemithi ye-herbal.

OH: Njengoko kunzima ukukholelwa, amadoda awanalo iirobhothi zesondo, kwaye ngaphandle kwezinto ezithandekayo zenyama zifuna nje ingxoxo ehle. Kodwa ukuba uva iibinzana ezinjengalezi: "Umama akavumelani nokuthetha kwam kunye namantombazana" okanye "Ndibalekele kum umfazi, unyanzelekile kum", sigijime kuye! Fumana udibaniselwano, obani ufuna ngokwenene ukubonelela "i-vest" yakho. Emva koko, kuyinto enomdla kakhulu ukuphulaphula izenzo zangempela, nangona ukuba zincincile, kunokuba luhlobo luni lokutshiza umfazi wakhe onqabileyo.

Ulutsha lwesibini

NI: Hlalani kude nembono yokuba ukutshatisa isithandabuzo kulula ukufumana intombazana enomfanekiso omhle. Wonke umntu unenjongo yakhe. Yaye ukuba ungekho 20 kwaye nangona (asivumelani nabani na!) - asikho ngaphezulu kwe-30, ke kuwe kukho abahloniphekileyo abanobuchule abasoloko bakwazi ukufumana imfundo emhle kunye nombono "wokuhlonipha umfaniswano," ukuziphatha ngobumnene kunye nokuba lo mfazi - le yindoda enhle, kwaye ayikho "inkukhu", "zenka" kunye "nantombazane, inkunzi enhle!". Ngaba awucingi ukuba iimbono zakho ziyavumelana?

OH: Amadoda angaphezu kwama-50 anokukhetha okukhulu. Ngekghono elifanayo baya kukwazi ukukhazimulisa umfazi owaziwayo kunye nesidalwa esincinane. Uhambo oluya kwidlophu ebeninzi kubo lufana nethuba lokuphunyuka kwakhona njengelutsha kunye nokuzibonakalisa ukuba kusekho i-powder kwiiflasks. Kwaye kuba - nokuba iqabane lakhe lenye i-lolita okanye inenekazi yeminyaka yakhe-uya kuzama ukuhambisa ubuninzi. Kuye, ukuba ufuna, uvavanyo lwamandla. Unomntu - usengumntu kakhulu - umzimba.

Manic-macho

NAKHO: Kwenzeka ukuba abafazi kwiholide baqwalasele inxalenye egcweleyo yenkonzo kungekhona kuphela kwigumbi leenkwenkwezi ezingama-5 kunye neyeza zonyango, kodwa neenkonzo zesini. Yaye ke, yintoni enye, ukuba awukho apha, unokwazi ukwenza isenzo esinjalo? Ngokukodwa kuba akukho mntu uyazi! Zivale wena umninimzi wolu meko, ubeka ibhilikhwe ngqo kwiingubo ezilula zomdlali. I-adventure enjalo iya kwandisa i-drive encinci ebomini bakho, ngakumbi ukuba ekhaya uyahlala "intombazana entle".

HE: Ulungele ukuhlawula ukuzonwabisa kwakho? Ukubuyisela, indoda enombulelo iya kudlala indima yothando lomthandayo, ilungele ukumbathisa intombi yakhe ethandekayo ezandleni zakhe. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, kungcono ukuba ube nomncedisi "ozoncedisayo" oza kuzalisekisa yonke iminqweno yakho aze apheleke ebomini bakho ngonaphakade kunokuba uyayigcina "ukulibala" ukuhlawula kuwe kwivenkile yokudlela, uye kwi-akhawunti yakho kwi-excursion eyindleko kwaye, ngendlela, ufumane kunye nawe uninzi lweminye imihlali. Yiyiphi yala mabini onyanisekileyo - ukhethe.

Yaye ukuba lo lu thando?

NAKHO: Awuyi kukholelwa kwiindalana. Kodwa olu lwazi olutsha lufana nelo lifanelekileyo! Mhle, onobuqili, onenkathalo, engenazo iingxaki zemali, kodwa indlela yokunyamekela! Kwaye uye wasondela kangakanani na kule mihla embalwa! Kodwa xa ulwimi luqala ukubuza: "Ndiza kudibana nini na nonyoko?" - ngcono ukuthula. Ubuncinane ukwenzela ukuba ungayifuni i-jinx yolonwabo olungalindelekanga. Kuya kuzaliseka-kakuhle, kodwa ayinakwenzeka-kodwa awuyi kubuya uyisidenge.

Yena: Indoda yesini ibukeka ngokukhawuleza kwihlabathi, ukukhangela kwabo akunakuyiqhayisa ngisho noshushu olushushu. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba, ethanda ngothando, uqala ukucinga ngokukhawuleza: uya kuhlala njani? Ngubani oza kufuneka anikezele indlu, abahlobo kunye nomsebenzi aze aqale yonke into ukususela ekuqaleni? Ingaba kukho imali eyaneleyo yonke le nto? Ngoko ungakhathazeki ukuba okokuthandayo kuqala kukunika "ngelixa uxoxa kwi-ICQ, kwaye ngoko siza kucinga ngento ethile". Ufuna ngokwenene ixesha: ukuqonda oko kwakunjani-uthando okanye iimvakalelo zangempela. Kwaye ukuba, nangona kunjalo, wakwazi ukuthandana, ke ulungiselele umhlaba wokuhlala kwakho.

FUNDA

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba unomdla kangakanani umnqweno wolwandle olumnene, ilanga elithandekayo kunye neengqungquthela ezingathandekiyo zabalandeli, kukho izinto omele uzikhumbule nakweyiphi na imeko.

UKUPHATHWA

Ukuqokelela izinto ezisemgangathweni, musa ukulibala malunga neikhondom. Thenga izinto ezinokuqineka kwaye uzibeke kuzo zonke iipokethi kunye nezikhwama. Emva koko uya kukhuselwa nakwiimeko ezininzi.

UKUQALISWA

Yinto enye yokwenza uthando kumfokazi ontle kwigumbi lakho lehotele, kwaye unomnye - ukugqiba ukuya kumtyelela (kungekude, iiyure ezimbalwa emotweni yakhe) okanye kwimimbulelo yemarike enkulu enkulu empuma, apho uyazi yonke into, kwaye awazi akukho ndlela, akukho ulwimi. Kodwa kunjalo: ungavumeli umntu ongaqhelekanga ukuba abone apho ugcina khona izinto ezixabisekileyo, kwaye nangakumbi ungatshintshi iidilesi kunye neetowuni kunye naye.

U-Nedetsky wayengalindelekanga

Vuka, kunye nendawo-engumhambi? Ngoko, iqela lezolo lalingenanto. Musa ukuzihlambalaza wena okanye wakhe. Ukuba uthanda umntu olala nawe phantsi kweengubo enye, qhelana kwaye uqhubeke ulala ngokuthula uze ufumane isifundo esithakazelisayo, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, phatha ummelwane wakho kwasekuseni uze uye ekhaya. Ngomzuzu uya kulibala malunga nalo, kwaye "kwintombazana embi" ukudlala ngisho nokuhle!

UKUZIPHATHA UKUBHALA

Ukuqhathaniswa ngumsebenzi wonke. Kwaye xa umntu ezama "ukuthula" inxalenye, ngokuhlwa kusihlwa, ukulungiselela isidlo sothando kunye nokunikezela ngezipho zokungahambisani - oku akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, abantu abaninzi banokwenza okungakumbi - banxila "kwintlungu" okanye ngokuqhelekileyo basinda. Ziqhayisa ngeenani-manani: kuphela iipesenti ezi-5 zothando zeholide ziphela emtshatweni. Kodwa nawuphi na umphumo wakho, into ephambili - ungazisoli. Kungcono ukubonisa ubulumko bowesifazana, vumela uhambe ngokulula kwaye ujabule - ube nexesha elihle kunye.

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