Isiseko semvelo somntu kunye nempembelelo yakhe kwiintsebenziswano

Indlela yokukhetha abahlobo kunye neentombi, umyeni kunye nomphathi, indawo yomsebenzi, isifundo kunye nobugcisa - yonke le micimbi ihambelana nomnye ubalulekileyo obuntwini bomntu. Sinobukhethi, siyingqayizivele, kwaye akukho namnye oza kuthethana nesitatimende sokuba akukho babini "abafana" nabantu. Ngelo xesha, kukho ezinye iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezichonga oko umntu akuthandayo kunye noko akunjalo. Ngoko, isiseko sezinto eziphilayo zomntu kunye nempembelelo yakhe kwiintsebenziswano zintsebenziswano sihloko esibucayi kakhulu kokuthetha kunye nokucingwa yedwa ngokwakho.

Ngaba uthanda imisebenzi yangaphandle kunye nenkampani enomsindo? Okanye ngokuphambene noko, ekupheleni komsebenzi ovuyayo ukuba uya ekhaya, apho kuphela indoda yakho kunye nekati yakho ethandekayo elinde kuwe? Ngaba "i-owl", "lark" okanye "ihobe" -arhythmic? Uninzi lwezinto zethu zibophelelwe kakhulu kwizinto eziphilayo.

Iimpawu eziphambili ezichangela isiseko sezinto eziphilayo kunye nomthelela wakhe ekubudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu-ukuziphatha, ubulili kunye nobudala.

Umda wobudala

Xa sincinane senza abahlobo, kulula ukuthetha neenkampani ezinkulu, sisekela abaninzi oonxibelelwano. Emva koko, ihlabathi linomdla kakhulu! Kwaye kuninzi ukufunda! Ngoko ke, ubudlelwane obunxulumene nabo kunye neempembelelo zabo kwizinto eziphilayo ezifana nesiseko somntu, lukhulu.

Xa sinobudala, sithatha ngokukhethekileyo malunga nabo bobabini abasandulana nabo kunye nolwalamano olusele lusekwe. Sivame ukukhetha ukuba ngubani ozakuthetha naye kunye nendlela. Ngamanye osebenza nabo - baqaphele ukuba, xa bevela kwigama elingenakwenzeka baya kuxhomekeka kumsebenzi wethu. Ngabahlobo bamandulo abaye batshintsha isimo sabo sezenhlalakahle - ngokukhetha, ukuba ngokwenene kukho into yokuthetha ngayo.

Ukuba sikhulile, asifumani nje ngamava kunye nobulumko, kodwa, ngelishwa, silahlekelwa lijubane lokuphendula. Kwaye iingcali zeengqondo kwibudlelwane nazo zazikhethela "uhlobo lwesetyhini" kunye "noluntu" lokuphendula kwisigijimi.

Amakhosikazi namadoda

I-biology yesini, ngokuqinisekileyo, ichaphazela kakhulu indlela esinxibelelana ngayo. Indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Kule ntetho, ukuqhagamshelana "kwindoda" kunye "nabesifazane" kubonisa. Ukuba umhlobo akazange abize iinyanga ezintandathu - ngokuba indoda ayiyisisizathu sokuba "imfazwe" kunye "neengqungquthela." Kwaye ibhinqa - uphawu lweengxaki ezikhoyo kulwalamano kunye nesizathu sokuthi "ukuphazamiseka" ngelizwi, ukuba intombi isasaza.

"Ndiyaphule isikhonkwane ngenxa yakho!" - uyakhalaza loo mfazi ngokuhlambalaza ngezwi lakhe. Indoda iya kumnika ukuba ityekele lonke ubude bephukile okanye (ngokukwesaba) kuya kunika imali ukutyelela i-manicurist. Intombazana iya kuthukuthela "ngaphandle kokubambisana", i-pohahat okanye i-vice versa - ivakalekile ngamazwi athi "Yenza oku kube yentlekele eyona nto iya kwenzeka kuwe kuleveki!"

Iingcali zengqondo zisebenzisana nabaxhasi bobabini zesini sele ziqonda ukuba isiseko semvelo somntu kunye nempembelelo yakhe kwiintsebenziswano eziphambili. Ngobudlelwane nomntu, kulungele ukusebenzisa izicatshulwa ezichanekileyo, ukusebenzisa izicatshulwa ezicacileyo. Ukucaca ngokubhekiselele kwiingcinga zakho kunye nomyalezo wakho.

Ngoko ke, abantu basabela ngokubuhlungu "kwiingcebiso ezicacileyo" ezibhekiswe ngumfazi. Kwaye kunzima kubafazi ukuqonda ukungabikho koxanduva oluninzi kubo - kungekhona kwishishini (ukuzisa, ukufumana, ukulungisa, ukulungisa), kodwa ngamazwi. Abasetyhini abanalo iimvakalelo ezivela kumadoda abo, inkxaso echazwe ngamazwi, imiqondiso, iitoni, iimvakalelo malunga neemeko zabasetyhini ...

Ewe, kunye neentlobo zobudlelwano bobudlelwane obuhlukeneyo bahluke ngokuhambelana nesiseko sezinto eziphilayo, kwaye impembelelo yakhe inkulu. Uhlobo lwabantu "abesilisa" kunye "nabasetyhini" basabela kwiingqondo zeengqondo - kungekhona ukungaziboni, kwaye kwanokukholisa ukukhululwa kwezi ngcamango, akukho mntu utshintshile.

I-choleric ne-melancholic, i-sanguine kunye ne-phlegmatic. Kwaye "iinqununu", "u-Yesenin" kunye nezinye iimpawu zobuntu

Umntu uyingqayizivele ukulinganisa. Ukucacisa ngokucacileyo umahluko phakathi kwabantu kulula kakhulu ngoncedo lwazo zonke iintlobo zokuhlelwa. Ngoko kwakukho abantu beempawu ezihlukeneyo, abantu bexesha elihlukeneyo losuku njalonjalo. Kodwa ukucacisa ukuba kutheni abahlobo bethu bavuya kuthiya kwiifilimu, kodwa sifuna ukuba sisodwa, kutheni omnye umlingane ehlazileyo kunye nokuzonwabisa, kanti enye idabukisayo, kusenzima.

Yintoni eyona nto ephambili - isimo sengqondo esenza "ukulandela" izinto kunye neziganeko zezinto eziphilayo, okanye iimeko ezenza isimo sengqondo? Kunzima ukusho ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Kodwa jonga abantwana. Ngona ngexesha apho kuphela umzimba wabo ukhona kubo kunye noMama - indalo exhasa ubomi bakhe, ezinye zicinga, ezinye zizinzulu, ezinye zizinzileyo. Ngoko, i-biology yenza umsebenzi wayo, kwaye thina ngokwahlukileyo sihluke - ukususela ekuzalweni okanye nangaphambili.

Zihlukana njani "iintlobo"?

Ukuhlala kunye kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abaneempembelelo ezahlukeneyo maxa wambi kunzima. Ingakumbi ukuba yintsapho enye, kwaye iyanyanzelekile ukuba isebenzisane imihla ngemihla. Kodwa ngokuqwalasela ngokufanelekileyo omnye nomnye, imihla ngemihla eqwalasela i-biological, ngoko ke ukungafani okubalulekileyo komnye nomnye, sikwazi ngokupheleleyo ukusebenzisana ngokufanelekileyo. Ngaphandle kokungena kwi "intandokazi" kunye nokuhlonipha umntu ngamnye, sinokukwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane bethu imihla ngemihla - ukuze sizuze kunye nokuzonwabisa.