Kutheni uphupha xa inja ihlasela kwaye ihlaba?
Inqobo yokuqala kunye nengqiqo, oku kungcatshiswa, njengoko kuchazwe ngasentla. Kwaye, ukubetha okungalindelekanga kunokubetha umntu osondeleyo: umhlobo, othandekayo okanye umntwana. Ngoko ke, emva kokulala okufanayo, jonga ulunge ngileyo kwaye uzame ukukhubekisa nabani abathandekayo bakho ukuze bangenaso isifiso esingalindelekanga sokuziphindezela.
Xa ephupheni uhlaselwa ngumhlambi wonke wezinja ezimbi, ngoko kufuneka uqaphele xa uhamba okanye uqhuba imoto, ngenxa yokuba la maphupha athembisa ukulimala kwiingozi ezitratweni.
Ukubona kwiphupha indlela izinja ezilumayo kwaye ziphonsana ngayo zingekho uphawu oluhle kakhulu kumlophu. Ulindele ubunzima kunye novavanyo kwiimeko zesithandane. Ziyakwazi ukukhutshwa kuphela xa ephupheni ukwazi ukuhlula izilwanyana ezilwa.
Ukuba uyalunywa yinja yombala omnyama, ngoko kufuneka ulungiselelwe ngengqondo ukuba kukho iingxaki ezinkulu phambi kwakho. Baya kuba banzulu kangangokuthi ubona eli xesha lobomi njengeqela langomnyama lomnyama. Ukujamelana nale mngeni mngeni we-destiny, unokukwazi kuphela ukuba uzibambe ngesandla kwaye uzama ukulungisa ingxaki ngokukhawuleza.
Inja ibetha isandla okanye ezinye iindawo zomzimba
Ngokuqhelekileyo iphupha elinjalo lichazwa njengezonyango zeentshaba okanye zitshutshiso zabathandekayo. Ukuze uqonde kakuhle intsingiselo yombono, kufuneka uqwalasele kuphela indawo oye wanyunyuzwa ngayo, kodwa kunye nemvakalelo eyenziwa ngokwenza njalo.
- Ukuba inja ifuna ukukuluma, kodwa ingalindelanga, omnye wabahlobo bakho abasondeleyo unolwazi olubalulekileyo kuwe. Kodwa ekubeni inxulumene nesigaba esithandana kakhulu, abaqhiphuli ukukwazisa malunga nayo. Mhlawumbi isigxina sakho sesibini sinxibelelwano kwicala okanye esinye sezihlobo zakho sifumane ityala.
- Ukulunywa inja emnyama kuthi ngokukhawuleza uya kudana kuhlobo lwabahlobo bakho. Ngoko ingqondo yakho engqondweni iyazama ukukulungisela ukuziphatha ngenxa yokuba umhlobo obonakala uyinyani, ngokwenene kuya kuba yintliziyo kwaye uyakhohlisa.
- Xa inja ibetha ngomnwe ephupheni, imbono isebenza njengesilumkiso. Ngokuchasene nawe, umntu okhohlakeleyo uceba, ozama ukumnika inkxaso kunye noxa uncedisa kwezinye iimeko. UDreambook uncoma ukuba ukhangele ngakumbi lo mntu kwaye ukuba isazela sakho singakuvumeli ukuyeka ukuncedisa, ngoko ke ungalindelanga ukubonga ngezibonelelo zakho.
- Bite kwigazi uthi ufanele ulindele ukubethelwa ngumntu kwizalamane zegazi, kuba ulwalamano olunjalo lwentsapho lusekho kwixesha lokungathembeki ngokuthembulukileyo kunye nokuthetha ngokusondelene kakhulu. Isizathu sale mpawu siyakwenza isikhalazo, sihlaselwe ngengozi kwintetho ephosakeleyo. Ngaphezu koko, unokuphephelela imiphumo emibi, ukuba uyakhumbula ukuba ubani onokucaphukisa uze umlethele uxolo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi into engafanelekiyo ukuba ungayichazi iphupha elinjalo, ungakhathazeki. Emva kokuba ufumene isilumkiso esivela kwi-subconscious ngexesha, awukwazi nje ukulungiselela ukuziphatha ngokukhawuleza kwexesha elizayo, kodwa uthathe amanyathelo okunciphisa imiphumo emibi.