Ndingathanda njani umntu, ukuba uyingozi?

Umnqweno wokutsala iimbono zamadoda ngumpawu wabasetyhini-oku kuyisidingo esisisiseko sokukhathazeka, uthando nokukhuselwa. Kwaye ukuba ngaba bafazi abanokubonakala kwamehlo, ekuboneni kuqala, kwenza kube lula, ngoko ke abafazi ababi baya kufuneka basebenze ngokwabo ixesha elide ukukhangela umntu ngenye into ngaphandle kokubonakala.

Yile ndlela umntu asebenza ngayo - uyayithanda amehlo akhe. Kwaye umboniso wokuqala wokubonakalisa umfazi, uyifumana ukubonakala - ukuvavanya ubuso bakhe bombala, umbala kunye nomfanekiso, unquma ukuba uyaqhubeka nokumazi okanye ukumisa.

Nangona kunjalo, njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, abantu abaninzi abanokuzikhethela bazikhethela bona bonke abafazi bomphefumlo ababuhle. Yintoni eyimfihlo? Masizame ukuqonda.


Umfanekiso omhle ubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa kuphela kwisigaba sokuqala. Ulwalamano olunzulu lusekelwe ekuqondeni, ukuhlonipha, ukukwazi ukuphazamisa, ukunyamekela kunye novelwano kunye neqabane. Yaye akukho buhle obuhle buyakwazi ukuxhasa ingxoxo enengqiqo, ukupheka inkukhu echaphazelekayo okanye ukuphulaphula umbono womntu.


Okwangoku, amadoda axabisa ubulumko bentombi kunye nobuchule, ukukwazi ukulawula ubomi bemihla ngemihla, ukubonelela ngenduduzo ekhaya. Yaye ukuba inenekazi inamandla okuphulaphula, ngoko ayiyi kuba nexabiso - indoda ifuna ukunakekelwa kunye nenkxaso engaphantsi komfazi. Ngako oko, ukuba awukwazi ukuziqhayisa ukubonakala okubonakalayo, kodwa unamanye amancedo, ngoko uVass unelungelo lokuba yedwa yindoda.


Kwimfazwe kufuneka ibe yinto ebalaseleyo - kufuneka ibe yinto ekhangayo, isicatshulwa, inomdla. Impazamo enkulu yamantombazana amabi kukutshintshwa kwezakhiwo zabo zangaphakathi kwizinto zangaphandle. Ungazami ukufihla iqela lakho phantsi kwee-oda ezingenamsebenzi, ungayihoyi i-cosmetics kunye nezixhobo.


Ngeenwele ezilula kunazo zonke - nawuphi na umbala we-nondescript ungatshintshwa, nayiphi na isakhiwo esilula okanye somelezwa. Isikhumba, iinwele kunye nezipikili kufuneka zihlale zingenasiphako - akukho zizathu ezivunyelweyo. Kanye ngeveki, tyelela i-beautician, yenza i-manicure kunye ne-pedicure, kanye kanye ngenyanga ukuya kwikhenki.


Owesifazane olungele kakuhle akanakubi. Ufanele ukhethe isitayela sakho - ukuba awukwazi ukuyisebenzisa, uze ucele abacwangcisi ukuba bancede. Inketho ekhethekileyo yinkalo yeklasi, ehlala ihle, ihlambuluke, ihle kwaye ilula. Ukubeka ngokufanelekileyo izikhalazo kunye nezixhobo ezikhethiweyo ezifanelekileyo ziyakunceda ukufihla oko ufuna ukukufihla. Khumbula ukuba iimpahla zakho kufuneka zihlale zicocekile kwaye zichanekile (kwisithuba esikhethiweyo). Amanzi kunye nezindlu zangasese zibhekwa njengenye yezona ndlela zinamandla kakhulu zokuthonya amadoda - thabatha iphunga elimnandi kunye neenkcukacha ze-musky, ezonwabisayo nezikhenkisayo.


Funda ukuthetha kunye namadoda - wena lo buchule luncedo ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Akukho manqaku angenangqiqo, engathandekiyo kwizwi, impetuosity. Kufuneka ujonge kuwe, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uvumelekile ukuba ubuthathaka-umntu kufuneka uzive ungenakunceda, mnike ithuba lokuba "udonga lwamatye". Ukumamisa kunye nokuchaphazeleka ngaba ngabadibeneyo bakho. Funda ubugcisa bokudlala ngothando - funda indlela yokutsala ingqalelo kwaye uyibambe, uyigcine kwaye uyithembise.


Ukuze ufunde ukuhambela kakuhle kunye novuyo, hamba izifundo ze-natantsevalnye - i-waltzes ze-classical kunye nemidaniso yase-oriental engenayo ingenza umzimba wakho uplastiki ube lula. Musa ukulibala ukuba umsebenzi ophezulu wowesifazane ukuzithoba ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye ukubonakala apha akuyona ndawo yokuqala - kufuneka ube yingcali yeengqondo, uqonde iimfuno zabantu kwaye uwanelise. Kumele ube ngumfazi, onomzuko omkhulu kumntu.