Ukuhlukaniswa ngothando, ukufunda ukuhlala


Yintoni abantu abangayi kucinga ngayo ukuba bafumane ntoni kwixesha elizayo. Abantu babesoloko bekwesaba ngenxa yokungaqiniseki nokungazi. Yintoni ongayilindela kusasa ebomini, kwaye ukuba kubi, ndingakuphepha njani? Omnye uthi le nto ibhalwa yimikhosi ephezulu, kwaye ayikwazi ukunqandwa, nantoni na oyenzayo, kwaye umntu uthi "ukupheka kusezandleni zakho," njengoko ufuna, kunjalo. Ngaphantsi kwamagama, njengoko ufuna kwaye uphile, ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba iminqweno yethu iyabuzwa ngumntu ophakamileyo kwaye sicinga ukuba sifuna oko, kungekhona omnye umntu ozama ukuzama ukuqonda umnqweno wethu. Mhlawumbi oku kuthetha ukuba inyaniso yethu isitywina? Yaye ithi "ukufa kukulindele, kodwa unokuyiphepha," ezi zizinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka sihambe ngazo ukuze sifinyelele kwinqanaba lekhaya. Ukuhlanjululwa kwenzelwe ukukhusela okubi. Ukubikezela ikusasa, sinako ukulawula ubomi bethu, sifumane iziqu ezimbi nezibi. Kodwa kukho abo bangenakho ukukhungathekisa oku, kwaye omnye umntu uyamoyika imimoya kunye nezidalwa, ukholelwa kwiimpawu, kwaye uchitha yonke imizuzu emihlanu ehlombe lakhe lasekhohlo.

Kwiinkulungwane ezidlulileyo, abo babesazi ukuxela kwangaphambili ikamva baqhutywe kwiindlela eziphambuke kakhulu. Abantu abanjalo babizwa ngokuba ngabathakathi, kwaye babengaziwa ngabantu abemi. Ngokuchanekileyo, babenandipha ukuthandwa, kodwa kungekhona okulungileyo kakhulu. Kwakukholelwa ukuba abantu abanjalo banokuthetha kunye nezinye ihlabathi, kunokukhokelela ekufeni, kwaye zonke iingxaki kunye nezifo zazingenaso isazela.

Kuza kube namhlanje, ukubhula luhlobo oludumileyo lokufumana imali. Ukuba bebengayazi indlela yokufihla ubuchule babo ngaphambili, abazi ukuba baxelele njani umntu ngokukhubazeka kwakhe. Kwaye kwirediyo, nakwiTV, nakwiimaphephandaba - onke amajelo athatyathwa zizibhengezo zamandla ommangaliso abantu abanommangaliso. Kwakukho ininzi yama-charlatans, i-fortunetelling salons, ezenzelwa iinkonzo zabo zifuna imali eninzi, ethembisa ukuba uphilise, uphinde ufumane, uthanda ukupela, i-lapel. Kwaye ukusuka kwii-reception ukuya kulaba bantu, abantu abafumani nayiphi na ingxaki, kuphela silahlekelwa yimali ngaphandle. Kulo mkhakha wezorhwebo kwiinkonzo zangaphandle, ngelanga akukho ukubuyiselwa kwemali yabo kwaye akukho mithetho kumalungelo wabathengi. Kwaye nangona uqala ukuxolisa abathandana ngelishwa ngelanga kunzima ukubonakalisa unetyala, kwaye kunzima ukubuyisela imali yakho. Yaye imali kule ndawo ayiyincinci. Abaphili bokwenene abazange basebenzise uluhlu lwexabiso, basebenzela inzuzo yoluntu, kwaye bamkele oko abantu banika ukubulela.

Emazweni ahlukeneyo, iindlela zabo zokubhula, wonke umntu ophezulu kakhulu unendlela yakhe yokubonakalisa amandla akhe. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyakholwa, kwinto yokuba kuwo wonke umntu kukho ubuchule obukhulu, kukuba nje banokuphuhlisa ngamandla kumntu, kwaye umntu ubuthathaka. Emva koko, izazinzulu ziye zabonisa ukuba umntu usebenzisa ubuchopho bakhe kuphela ngo-3% kwi-100.


Ukuhlukaniswa ngothando, nayiphi na intombazana inokufunda ukufunda , kwaye ngoku ndiya kukunceda namhlanje. Nantsi indlela yendabuko kwaye kulula ukuyicinga nayiphi na intombazana. Kufuneka uqale ugxininise kwaye ubuze ngengqondo, uze uvule incwadi uze ufunde umhlathi okhethiweyo. Ngenye indlela, unokuqikelela ukuba inombolo yephepha kunye nomgca phezulu okanye ngaphantsi. Okanye uvule incwadi kwaye uyivule ngomnwe. Ngokwemvelo, ukuxela okunjalo kungenakusetyenziswa nayiphi na incwadi yohlobo lwe-biology okanye i-physics. Kuba le ncwadi ye-" bibliomania " efana neBhayibhile, iVangeli, i-Psalter yayisetyenziswa. Kamva kamva, amantombazana aqala ukuqagela kwiingoma zikaHomer, iPushkin, uShakespeare - kunye nenkolelo ekuthiwa imisebenzi ibizwa ngokuthi " rhapsodism ."

Olunye uhlobo oluthandwayo lokuxoxwa ngenhlanhla kukuqiqa ngokubalulekileyo. Isitshixo sagqitywa ngomtya omde kwaye esinye isiphelo silimala ngomnwe. Isihluthulelo sinokujikeleza ngokukhululekile okanye ukuguqula, okanye sisenokuhlala singashenxiseki. Kwaye ke, ukuguqulwa komnqophiso osisigxina kumisele impendulo kumbuzo oceliwe. Umbuzo unokubuzwa ngokuvakalayo okanye ngengqondo. Esikhundleni sentshixo, ungasebenzisa ibhola ye-amber, ngokukhethekileyo umtshini womtshato. Le ndlela yokuqagela ibizwa ngokuthi " iphenyo yophando ". Kwaye ukuba i-pendulum yayijikeleza kwisangqa, impendulo yayinokuthi, kwaye ukuba i-pendulum iguqa ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala, impendulo yayingalunganga. Ngokude kubekho iqhosha linikezwa iipropati zeempawu, kuba isitshixo singavulwa nayiphi na ingxowa, ngoko ke abantu bakholelwa ukuba inqakrazo inokuvula i-veyili eyimfihlo yesikhathi esizayo.

Kwakhona kwimihla yakudala, kwakudume ukuhlukanisa ngamasilane- " Akumantiya ". Ukuba ngokukhawuleza ucinga ngokuqagela kwiinaliti, ke wena akufanele uqikelele, okanye ayiyi kuza kwenzeka. Ngaphambili, amantombazana abuza ama-nannies abo okanye iintlunkulu. UVorozheyka uthatha inaliti ezimbini kwaye uyayiphonsa ngesantya kwaye ahlahlele kwiglasi yamanzi. Yaye ukuba izilingo zidibeneyo, ke le nto ibonakaliso olubi, kodwa ukuba inaliti ihlangene-ke oku kungumtshato wokuqala, kwaye ukuba inaliti ihlakazekile enye - oko kuthetha ukuba kukho imingcipheko evela kubantu abafuna ukungafuni-nto, ukuba bahluke kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo - ngoko uxela ubungatshatanga ubomi.

Bazibuza kwaye kwelinye ngeenaliti. Sithatha izilingo ezingama-25, zibeka ngokucophelela kwisitya semvula yamanzi kwaye saqaphela: ukuba iinaliti zihamba ngokukhululekileyo, ngoko umlenze wawuza kwenzeka ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, ukuba iinaliti zidibanisa iziqendu ezimbini komnye nomnye, ke le nto yabangela iingxaki xa kukho ubunzima obunzima.

Ukuba ngoku usela itiye okanye ikhofi kwaye ufunde le nqaku, ngoko ndicinga ukuba uyazi ukuvumisa itiye okanye ikhofi. Ngokomzekelo, kwimihla endala kwafunyanwa ukuba amaqabunga eti ehamba etiwe anesimo esithile, kwaye ukuba ukhangelelene, ungabona imifanekiso. Tassiomantiya - okubizwa ngokuba yi-fortune-telling kwiziko lekhofi kunye namaqabunga etiyi. Ukuqagela kumaqabunga weeyi, kufuneka ufeze i-teaspoon yamaqabunga eti ngaphakathi kwendebe. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba indebe ibonakale, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukugubungela indebe ngesiqhekeza imizuzu eyi-10. Nangona itiye iphungulwa, kufuneka ugxininise kwiingxaki, usebenzisa ukuvumisa ofuna ukuyixazulula. Ukuhluka kweendawo zamakhishi etiyi kwindebe kunokufikelela kuma-60, kodwa qwa lasele.

1. Ukuba lonke ulwaphulo lulele kwicala, kwaye kwicala lasekhohlo kuphezulu kukho enye iqabunga lamaqabunga, kwaye kwicala lasekunene lembini, lo luphawu oluhle. Ulindele impumelelo kuyo yonke imicimbi yakho.

2. Ukuba amaqabunga ama-tea avela emacaleni amabini ahlukeneyo, kwaye ngasezantsi kwiqabunga elincinci elincinci litshiza, lona luphawu olubi. Ukulindela ukuxabana nomntu ongokoqobo, ngoko-ke makube ngaphezulu.

3. Ukuba amaqabunga amaqabunga ama-tea we-oblong ifom kufuphi nomgangatho ongakwesokudla, kwaye amaqabunga amabini amaqabunga amaqabunga angakabikho emanzini ngakwesobunxele, oku kuthetha ukuba awuhambanga kakuhle kuzo zonke iimeko, kodwa ukuhlangana nomntu osondeleyo kuya kukhupha zonke iingxaki.

4. Ukuba onke amaqabunga weeyi aphantsi, kwaye kwicala lasekhohlo, amaqabunga ama-tea aya phezulu, ngoko oku kuwuphawu lobuninzi, mhlawumbi kokulungileyo nokubi. Ngalo mqondiso, thintela ukuhamba. Kodwa lo mqondiso uthembisa utshintsho oluhle kubundlelwane bakho bobuqu.

5. Ukuba onke amaqabunga weeyi asele phezu komhlaba, oku kuwuphawu lokuba awukwazi ukwenza itiye. Ubilise amanzi ngendlela efanele.

6. Ukuba enye itiye ikhuphe iindawo, kunye nezinye ezimbini okanye ezintathu ziphakame ukusuka ezantsi, ke oku kuwuphawu lokuba njalo kwaye nonke unenhlanhla.

Le ntsilelo ibizwa ngokuba yiTshayina kunye neYurophu. Ahluke kwinto yokuba eYurophu ukuvumisa basebenzisa amaqabunga eti, kungekhona itiye. Umntu oxelelwe ukuba aphuze kufuneka agxininiswe kwisindululo esisetyhula kwaye ucinezele ukuba umtyhili. Umphathi wekomiti ngumntu ndicinga ukuba, kwaye indawo ejikelezileyo yindawo yomntu. Umgca wendebe yikho, kwaye izantsi lizayo.

Unokuqiqa into - into ephambili kukukholelwa. Kwixesha elidala, nayiphi na into eyenziwe yinto engavamile. Isifundo ngasinye sanikwa amandla akhethekileyo, kwaye abantu bakholelwa kuyo. Mhlawumbi, ngumcimbi wokucebisa okanye ukuzithiba. Konke le miqondiso emininzi ngamakati amnyama, athatha iimbandezelo, asebenzi nhlobo. Mna, umzekelo, ndiyamthanda amakati amnyama, kwaye andiyikholelwa ukuba bayazihlawulela, kwaye akukho zityholo ezenzeke kum. Njengale ngoma:

"bathi, akukho nhlanhla,

ukuba ikati elimnyama liwela indlela,

kodwa ngoku, ngokuchaseneyo,

kuphela ikati elimnyama kwaye akukho nhlanhla. "

Kwaye okholelwa kuyo yonke into, uloyiko, kwaye ukwesaba kwakhe kukutsala into ayenayo. Fortune, kwaye ukholelwa kuphela entle, ukuqhuba ukuhamba okubi. Ndiyakholwa ukuba yonke into isezandleni zethu, kwaye ubomi bethu bunokuba mhlophe mnye, ngaphandle kwemigca emnyama kunye namachaphaza, kholelwa kuphela ezintweni ezintle, kwaye akukho nto iyakwenzeka kuwe!