Uloyiko 1. Ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi .
Uloyiko lwesibini lwentombi luhlala lubandakanywa nokuhlambalaza. Ngokuphathelele ukulahlekelwa kobungqina kubangelwa amahemuhemu kunye neengongoma, kwakhona, igazi, kwaye yiyiphi ibhinqa engesabi igazi? Nanku kuyimfuneko ukubonisa imimangaliso yokunyamezela nesibindi - ukugqiba, ukuthembela kumntu, ungenzi iphutha kuyo, unxungule kuye, unyamezele intlungu kwaye ulondoloze ubuso.
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Ukoyika 2. Ukukhulelwa.
Ukuqhaqhazela kwesoyika, mhlawumbi, ngaphezu kokuhlambalaza. Ngethuba lokuqala kukho ixesha elilodwa ebomini kwaye kungekhona ixesha elide, kwaye ukukhulelwa kukude kwiinyanga ezili-9. Ngeli xesha, unako ukwanda, ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi wakho, uphume ngaphandle kweziko, uhlale ungenalo inkxaso yabantu, kodwa yintoni enokwenzeka ntoni kwiinyanga ezili-9 xa umfazi engenakukhuseleka ngokupheleleyo?
Ukoyika 3. Ukuzala.
Apha le fantasy ihamba ngeenxa zonke. Ukuzalwa komntwana kuyatshatyalaza , kuyabuhlungu, kuthiwa, bayafa. Ngokucacileyo ecacileyo entloko yiyo yonke into ebaluleke kakhulu yokubeleka, eyayivalela bonke ubomi babo, izaliswe iinkcukacha zamagazi kwaye iphelisa yonke into, isiphumo esibulalayo.
Ngokwamanye amaziko ophando, indoda ayikwazi ukunyamekela ukuba yintoni into ebhinqileyo ehlala nayo ngexesha eliqhelekileyo, ukuzalwa ngokuphumelelayo. Ukusuka entlungu leyo, amadoda angafa njengomntu onobubele.
Ukwesaba 4. Ukungabikho.
Ukuba umfazi akayikwesaba ukukhulelwa, ngoko uyesaba ukungabikho kwakhe - oku kuyinto engokwemvelo. Abasetyhini abangenabantwana babonakala bengaqhelekanga kwimvelaphi yabanye. Kwintlalo, imbono yokuba ibhinqa elingakaze lizalwe lingazange liphunyezwe ngokupheleleyo. Ukongezelela, isiko soomama siqala ukuthukuthela kwangaphambili kwaye asihlaliseli ukuya kwiminyaka ephakamileyo, kunzima ukulwa nalo.
Ukwesaba 5. I-Crown of celibacy.
Ukuba uhlala engenabantwana - kuyatshwenyeka, kodwa unokuyicombulula, kuba unokuhlala uthabatha umntwana kwintandane kwaye uzenzele eyakho, ke uhlale ungenaye indoda - yinto eyingozi kakhulu. Ngaphandle koko, akunakwenzeka ukuthatha indoda kwindlu yokukhusela. Abasetyhini bakulungele ukutshata ukusuka kwisikolo esiphakamileyo esikolweni kwaye musa ukulahlekelwa yithemba, ukuba baphume umhlalaphantsi. Le ngcamango yokulungisa kwaye ukwesaba ukushiywa ngaphandle komyeni kukhulu kakhulu kangangokuthi kulula ukuchazwa kweencwadi malunga ne-100 neyoku-1 indlela yokutshata .
Ukoyika 6. Ukuguga.
Uloyiko olubi kakhulu luloyiko lokuguga, kuba akunakwenzeka. Abasetyhini benza imizamo emininzi yokuhlala emncinane kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kuba bakholelwa ukuba ulutsha luyodwa yinto ebalulekileyo abanayo. Kule ndawo isibingelelo esichithwa kwii-salons, kunye namawaka amaninzi, achithe ama-creams ahlukeneyo, amayeza kunye neenkqubo zenzeke.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abantu bathini, ukuba owesifazane uyatshiswa. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, siyazi kakuhle ukuba akusiyo yonke into embi njengoko kubonakala ngathi ukuqala. Siyakwazi ukulwa nokuloyiko lwethu kwaye siwunqobe, sikwazi ukuphuma nesidima kwiimeko ezininzi, kwaye siyaqeqeshwa ukunqoba naluphi na ubunzima. Ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukuvumelana namadoda, kuba ngumfazi ongcono.