Le ndlela ungayichaza ngayo namhlanje isitatimende esidumileyo ngenkululeko. Emva kwakho konke, impumelelo idla ngokudibanisa nobomi bobugcisa, yinto enje ilitye lokukhupha inkululeko-yangaphakathi nangaphandle. Indlela yokwenza ngayo ukuze ixesha lokusebenza, eliyingxenye yesithathu yobomi bethu, lingabonakali lihle okanye lilahlekelwe kuthi? Indlela yokwenza "uphelele" impumelelo, ukwenzela ukuba le ntlu yobomi ibonakale?
NGANI UKUBA BONKE BENZA?
Isitatimende esinqabileyo sombuzo - utsho. Emva koko, impendulo phantse yonke inika okufanayo. Umsebenzi - umthombo wobukho, ukuzinzisa kwaye, ngokwenene, ithuba lokuphila ubomi obonwabisayo. Kuye kwavela ukuba isethi esingaphandle, esicacileyo sesigqibo sethu somsebenzi kubo bonke abantu sinokufana, kodwa nantsi ingcambu okanye okanye, njengokuba izazi zengqondo zithi, abagqugquzeli beenjongo bahluke kakhulu.
Kwaye ekubeni isibambiso salo naluphi na umsebenzi (kulo mzekelo umsebenzi ophumelelayo) kukuqulunqwa ngokuchanekileyo kwengxaki, makhe sihlale kulaba bashukumisayo basasazeka rhoqo kwiinkcukacha zemihla ngemihla. Ekugqibeleni, baqulunqa iinjongo eziyinyaniso zokuziphatha kwethu kuzo zonke iimeko zobomi, ngaphandle kokungafani. Kwaye (njengazo zonke izalathisi ezifihlakeleyo zentente) zisebenza ngendlela engabonakaliyo kwaye zifihlakele, zihlala zifihla kwi-subconscious yethu. Ngoko ke, inyathelo lokuqala ukuya empumelelweni ebomini kukuqonda ukuba iinjongo zi ...
Unolwazi kwaye ungazi
Singabokuqala ukulawula, kunjalo, thina. Okwesibini, njengoko sele uqikelele, silawula. Ngokomzekelo, thabatha uvavanyo oluthile oluxhomekeke, xa abantu beburhulumenteni baxelelwa ukuba i-muscle yayiza kujojozwa, ngoko bayathintela kuphela ngesandla sandla sabo. Okwangoku, ulusu lwabonisa indlela ecacileyo esuka kwiliti. Oko kukuthi, ukuqonda kwakho akunakho ukukholelwa kwisirinji, kodwa i-subconscious ithatha yonke into eyamxelayo, ngobunzima bomntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuphikisa ukuba awuxhomekekanga kuwo onke. Kaloku ke, i-subconscious yakho ifihliwe ngokujulileyo, ikhuphe ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye, njengokuba uyazi, inokuphumelela ngempumelelo iinjongo zokuziphatha zakho, kuquka ukuhlenga iinjongo zakho zokusebenza ngendlela ekhethekileyo.
Cinga, mzekelo, le meko: ubhalise kwizifundo zaseSpeyin, eziyimfuneko kakhulu ekuqhubekeni emsebenzini. Kodwa ukuba uye emva koko emva kosuku olunzima, kuwo wonke umzi, kwiindawo zokuhamba ngeemoto, kubanda kunye nemvula, ngandlela-thile ndonwabile. Kunomtsalane ngakumbi kuneengcinga zeesokisi ezifudumeleyo, i-armchair esithambileyo kunye ne sandwich ezintathu. Ubumnandi bakhala malunga nesidingo sokuvula i-ambulera kwaye kusasaza ukukhanya; I-subconscious, esiyidla ngokuba ngumsila, idibanisa kwiekesekiti kwaye zikhohlakele. Ngelishwa, kunzima ukuxoxisana kunye nomncedisi njengomhlobo, ngokuqhelekileyo uphila ngokwemithetho yomntwana omncinci angenakulawula. Kungcono ukuthetha "umchasi ongabonakaliyo" njengolu hlobo: "Ndibancede ndifike kwiikhosi (bhala ingxelo engama-quarter, bamba ingxoxo enzulu kunye nomthengi) - abafazi be-chocolate (ndiya kuthenga ingubo, ndiza kusela i-cocktail kunye nabathandayo)." Kodwa nje nge-subconscious ingakwazi ukuphumelela lo mhla wokuvula umjikelezo wokuqonda, xa wena, uqaphela ngokupheleleyo ukunqoba kweyokuqala ngaphezu kweyesibini, ukuhamba ngokukhululekile ekhaya, inokukwazi ukudibanisa kunye nakwizinga leenjongo ezinzulu. Oku kuthetha into ebaluleke kakhulu: mhlawumbi injongo (kuyo yonke isilingo sayo) ayiphutha. Oko kukuthi, kaninzi sithetha kwaye siyaqonda into enye, ngelixa sivakalelwa kwaye sithetha into ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Ukuqaphela iminqweno yakho yokwenene sele isiqingatha sempumelelo. Nangona kunjalo, siya kubuya kule kamva. Okwangoku, masithethe ngezinye iinjongo. Ngokuthi ...
Ubuntu kunye noluntu olujoliswe kuyo
Khawucinge ukuba ngokukhawuleza ucwangcise ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho ophucukileyo kwiofisi yakho yasekhaya kwaye wenze oko ukude uphuphayo, umzekelo, ufundisa ukudilika eLwandle Olubomvu. Okanye ubugcisa bukaFeng Shui. Okanye ukuvulwa kwesibhakabhaka esincinci, kodwa ingaba ayinomdla okwaneleyo ukongezelela kumsebenzi wakho (efanelekileyo emehlweni enkqonge yakho, kodwa udala kakhulu ixesha elide). Kwaye ngoku undixelele ngesigqibo sakho somama kunye neentombi, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ufumana uxolo oluthethayo okanye ukuqinisekiswa ukuba lo msebenzi omtsha awunanto nje engakuchukumisa kwi-stest life life and let it go around the world. Njengeengxabano, unako ukukhupha ibhetri yonke yeengxoxo "ezilungileyo", ingakumbi xa usapho usuxanduva lomnye umntu. Masithi, nguwe oza kubonisa imimangaliso yokuzithiba kwaye awuyi kukhanyela kwisicwangciso esicwangcisiweyo sokuvuselela ubomi. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi, i-alas, bengayifumana inkxaso evela ngaphandle, uhlobo "lokuhlaselwa kwintlalo", kwaye liya kufakelwa endaweni. Ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yokuba ingqondo engacatshulwayo, yokwesaba, "icinezela umsila," kwaye ukuqonda okunesibindi nokuqinileyo kuyiphumelela ukuyiphosa. Ngaloo ndlela, njengoko ubonayo, iinjongo zethu zibini kunye noluntu olujoliswe kuyo, oko kukuthi, ngokuhambelanayo nokulindelwe ubuninzi kwimeko yakho. Kwaye okokugqibela, nangona umzekelo owenziwe, ungathwali inqaku elibi nonke. Uqeqesho lunokuba noluntu oluqhelanisiweyo, imiba efana naloo nto idinga ukuqinisekiswa rhoqo okanye ukuchithwa kweetalente zakho kunye nempumelelo ekhoyo kwizinga lonke uluntu, kwaye kungekhona nje abasondeleyo kunye nabalingane. Lo uninzi lwezakhono zomphakathi - ithala kunye ne-cinema, udaba lweendaba, ezopolitiko.
Ewe, ngoku lixesha lokuwa phantsi ukuze uthethe ngezinto eziqhelekileyo nezingenakukhutshwa njengemali. Kwaye ngoko iinjongo zethu zihlukaniswe ngokucacileyo ...
Izinto kunye nezinto ezingezizo
Qaphela: yinyani kukuba sonke saphelela kwimimiselo emangalisayo yomphakathi wabathengi. Ngethamsanqa, unelungelo lokugqiba indawo enokuyithatha - ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwiqela leendleko ezixabisa kakhulu okanye umntu ongenamdla ngaphandle kobukeli-akukho mntu awuthathangayo.
Ngamanye amazwi, kukho phakathi kwethu abo bafuna ukukhanya kwezinto ezibonakalayo zobomi. Xa imali iba yimeko efunekayo yokubuyiswa kwengqondo okanye ibhalansi yangaphakathi, okanye ukufumana umgangatho wokhuselo. Kwabanye, endaweni yeeyunithi zemali, umsebenzi olinganayo ngokufanayo, uthi, ukuqinisekiswa emehlweni kwithenda yabo, ingqondo okanye ibingelelo ezibangqongileyo, ithuba lokuzicwangcisa.
UKUFUNDA KUMLAWULI WEZITHILI
Ewe, ukuba ufunda kwixesha lokuzonwabisa unonophelo olukhethekileyo kwizengqondo, ngoko iinjongo ziya kufumaneka ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabo alusebenzisekanga ekwakheni umsebenzi, ngoko ke siya kuyeka ixesha eli ngasentla. Ngoku masihlawule ishishini. Yonke into oyifunayo iyicandelo elingenanto lephepha, ukucinga kunye nokunyaniseka ngokupheleleyo kwakho. Ngoko, hlukanisa iphepha kwiikholam ezintathu. Ngakwesokunxele, bhala phantsi zonke iinjongo osuzingelayo, ukukhangela umsebenzi, okanye ucacise imiba enokuthanda ukuyifumana kwindawo ethile. Uze uzilungise ngokuqhelekileyo njengoko usoloko uthi: "Ndifuna isikhundla esithandekayo, ukwanda kwimivuzo, ibhonasi eyongezelelweyo yoNyaka omtsha, ukuhamba kweshishini kwisebe lenkampani yethu eParis okanye kwisiqithi saseBorneo."
Kwikholam ephakathi, umsebenzi unzima kakhulu. Emva koko uzama ukwenza imivo yakho yokwenene ngomsebenzi. Ewe, lo msebenzi, ngokucacileyo, awukho imizuzu emihlanu. Kungenzeka ukuba lo mbandela uza kuqala uguqulwe entloko yakho, unikezele ukudibanisa ezahlukeneyo - umsebenzi wakho ukubonisa konke oku kumaphepha. Into ephambili endiyinyanisekile kunye nawe. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha akulula ukuvuma ukuba, yintoni oyenzayo, unomdla kakhulu kwimali. Okanye ukuba ufuna ukusula impumlo yesoka lakho langaphambili, ukumbonisa ngomfanekiso wesifazane ophumeleleyo kwibhinqa ngeendlela zonke. Okanye - ukubetha indawo apho umlingane kaM., endizondayo ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, amabango, kwaye ke ukuphosa iqela elincinane kulo mcimbi kunye noM., Ewe, ukumema. Kucacile, ukuvakala izinto ezinjalo nakwawe, bathandekayo, ngandlela-thile uhlazo. Kodwa, kholwa kum, kungcono kunokuba ugijime ebumnyameni bezinto ezididekileyo zobomi-beacons, ngoko ngokukhawuleza uvume ukuba awuzange wenze njalo nangoko uye waphambuka.
Kwikholam yesithathu, zama ukufumana ukuba yeyiphi na maqela amathathu afana nomgomo wakho. Kwaye, njengoko sithe satshilo, into ephambili kukuba kukunyaniseka ngokusemandleni akho. Enyanisweni, kubonakala ukuba ukunyaniseka ebomini, njengomthetho, kukuyiphumelela kakhulu kwaye, ekuhambeni kwexesha, indawo ekhululekile. Ukuqwalaselwa kwenjongo yakho yokwenene ngumzuzu obaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Umzekelo, ukuba uqala ukuqonda ukuba umnqweno wakho wokwenene awuyi kwenzeka, kodwa ukubonisa into ethile kwicala lomntu, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba ucinge kwakhona - akunjalo na umbingelelo ogqithiseleyo owaziswa kwisibingelelo esingento. Ngaba akusiyo ixesha lokungcwaba i-hatchet yemfazwe, "vumela" ukuphulaphula kwaye wenze oko kukukholisa ngokwenene. Ngoko injongo yale ncinane encinci kwaye ingabi nabuhlungu njalo kukuqonda ukuba yiziphi izinto eziphambili ekufuneka uzinamathele kuyo. Nguwuphi kubo okukukhathazayo - kungekhona abazali, abahlobo, indoda, uluntu, oko kukuthi wena kwaye uyonwabile kuphela.
SIGA ITARGET
Emva kokugqiba kwizinto eziphambili, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba injongo efanelekileyo kufuneka ibe nempawu ezininzi. Kufuneka ukuba:
1. Ukufikelela
Kukunzima ukuba yi-supermelel eneerameters ezingenakungqinelaniyo (nangona apha kungabikho okungaqhelekanga, zithi, iingubo ezipheleleyo). Yingakho italente yakho kule nkalo ibalulekile. Masithi ufuna ukufumana okungangoko kunokwenzeka. Indawo efanelekileyo yeli bhanki kunye nezezimali. Kodwa ukuba ungekho ukutyekela ukwenza oku, ngoko-ke unokwenza izinto ezinokubangela ukuba ungayi kude. Mhlawumbi uza kusebenza ngakumbi kwintsimi yeenkonzo zezindlu zepropati - engekho eyona nto inenzuzo. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuvavanya impilo yakho kunye nokunikezelwa kwengqondo engumsebenzi onokuthanda ukukwenza.
2. kuchazwe ngexesha
Akungalindelekanga ukuba ulindele ukuba imbali yakho yomsebenzi iya kutshintshwa ngokutsha kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Masibeke ngale ndlela: ixesha elifanelekileyo lokufumana umsebenzi wabancinci abafuna umsebenzi kunye nokufunda ngunyaka owodwa. Umsebenzi kulo mzekelo kufuneka uthathelwe njengesiphakamiso sokufumana ithuba lokufumana amava kunye neentengiso ezingabonakaliyo. Ukuba uthe waphumelela kwimfundo kwaye ukhangele into ethembisayo okanye uzimisele nje "ukuthobela phantsi" kwi-career, iingcali zeengcali zengcali zicebisa ukuba ubhale isicwangciso soshishino kuwe kwiminyaka emithathu ezayo. Uze ukhokelwe ngala magama.
3. Uthabatha
Kuthetha ntoni ngolwimi lwabo bonke abanolwazi lokubonisana neendlela-ezikhuthaza ukuphumelela. Ngoko kufuneka ubuyele kuluhlu lwakho lwangaphambili, ufunde kwakhona, kwaye uqaphele izibonelelo ezikuqhubela phambili. Nangona "i-pluses" i-mottos ezinomntwana, njengokuthi "ikhefu kwiziqithi zasePolynesia" - akunandaba. Hlanganisa leli qabunga kwindawo evelele njengenjongo yelenka, echaza ingxelo yeYunivesithi yaseStanford uMichael Ray: "Imigaqo emithathu ephambili yomsebenzi ophumelelayo: ukuphucula, ukukhulula kunye nokuzonwabisa kumsebenzi." Nangona kunjalo, eli cebiso elihle lingasetyenziselwa kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi ngaphandle kokukhetha, awucingi na?