Imizekelo yemisebenzi yabasetyhini abaqhelekileyo

Amaxesha obunyango obunzulu obuphelile, siphila kwihlabathi elikhululekile, ngentando yenkululeko apho indoda nomfazi balingana. Ukongezelela ekuzalweni nasekukhulisweni kwabantwana, ubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye nentsapho, abafazi bafuna ukuzenzekela ngokuzenzekelayo ngendlela eyiyo. Ngokwenene isiqingatha kwinkulungwane edlulileyo, amadoda alawulwa ngokucacileyo kwimimandla yonke, kwaye namhlanje akukho ndlela enjalo, ngaphezu koko, kwezinye iindawo abafazi abahlala kwizikhundla eziphambili. Siza kukuxelela ngemimiselo yemisebenzi yabasetyhini. Akuyimfuneko ukuba ube ngumqeshwa weziko lokubala ukuba uqonde ukuba abafazi baxhomekeke ngokuqinisekileyo kwimpumelelo yabathengi. Nangona, uyabona, akuwona wonke umsebenzi ofanelekileyo obizwa ngokuba yi-fragile kunye nethenda, isetyhini kunye nesineke, inomusa kwaye inhle. Umxholo othi "imisebenzi yabasetyhini" akayeki ukuchaphazeleka ngexesha. Enyanisweni, kukho inani leemfuno eziwela kwicandelo lemfuneko, apho umfazi eziva ekhululekile kwaye ekhululekile.

Kwaye ke, siqale:

1. I-Akhawunti-mboleko - umqeshwa, ngaphandle kokuba awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na inkulu shishini. "Kulungile, kunzima ukunciphisa i-debit ngemali mboleko?" - ungatshintshi kwinto enzima kunye noxanduva lo msebenzi. Kukho i-anecdote enjalo: umntu osomashishini uyasondela eofisini aze abone umfanekiso osabekayo - umsi ovela kwiifestile, udibaniso, ulungelelwano olujikelezayo kunye ne-stretcher. Umlindi uqhuma ngokukhala: "Mlawuli, usizi, ubusuku! Ibhokhwe yaqhuma, kwaye umfazi wakho wayese-ofisi! "Umntu oshishino uyaxhala:" Ingaba i-accountant intact? "Ihlaya lihlekisa, kwaye uqeqesho lomgcini-nkcazo lukweluhlu lwezona ziyaziwayo kwaye zihlawulwa kakhulu.

2. Umphathi wezokhenketho - abo banenkathalo ngeeholide zethu. Ininzi idla ngokuba ngumfazi omhle ngezwi elimnandi, othabatha uxanduva lokuhlela iholide efanelekileyo: ukhetha indlela engcono kunye nexesha lokuhamba, incwadi yehotele, ukukhupha i-visa, uxoxisane kwaye uphulaphule emva kwengxelo. Lo ngumsebenzi ongafuneki imfundo ekhethekileyo, ufundiswa ikakhulu kwizenzo.

3. Umphathi wokuthengiswa kwezilwanyana kunye neziqholo. Ingqesho efanelekileyo kumfazi oyinyaniso, kuba akahlali nje ehlala kwinto yakhe, kodwa wenza ihlabathi libe lihle kakhulu. Lo msebenzi unzima ukudibanisa kunye neentsapho kunye nokugcinwa kwendlu, kuzisa, nangona kuncinci kodwa ingeniso, kuba iimfuno zisoloko zifuneka.

4. Unobhala "ngowona msebenzi wobufazi" kuzo zonke iipoloni ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba amadoda azibophe ngentaba yeemfanelo ezahlukahlukeneyo? Unobhala uya kuphendula iifowuni, ukucwangcisa ngokufanelekileyo ixesha leenkokeli, ukulungiselela iintlanganiso, landela idibaniselwano kunye namaxwebhu. Ngexesha elifanayo ngokuqinisekileyo ukhangelekile, unomdla, unengqiqo kwaye ulunge ngokufanelekileyo. Into eyona nto kukuba nomonde nokuthokoza. Kwindima yomphathi oncedisayo, abaqeshi bafuna ukubona inkosikazi efundayo kunye neenqwenelekayo nezakhono zentlangano ezingaba ngumntu wangokunene wesandla.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, le misebenzi ayisebenzisi uluhlu lwemisebenzi apho abafazi banokuzivakalisa khona. Ezi zizona ziqhelekileyo zazo. Ngokubambisana nabasetyhini-oonobhala, abaqhubi bamabhinqa, abafazi-oonjiniyela, abakhi, amagosa amapolisa, abanobugebengu kunye nezinye izikhundla eziqhelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo zijongwa njengamadoda zihlala zihlangene namhlanje. Kule nto akukho nto iphosakeleyo, ngokukodwa ukuba umsebenzi waloo mntu uzisa umfazi ngaphandle kobutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo kunye nokuziqonda.
"Uvuyo aluyikukwenza oko ufuna, kodwa ukuhlala ufuna into oyenzayo." Asisoze siphutha xa sithetha ukuba sifumana uvuyo emsebenzini wethu, uvuyo, ukuqonda kwethu nokubaluleka kwethu, inhlonipho nokuvunywa ngaphandle, izinto eziphathekayo kunye nokuzithemba ukuba awuhlali ngeze. Nawuphi na umsebenzi ofunekayo, nawuphi na umsebenzi ubalulekile.