Inyaniso embi
Siyazi ukuba ayilungele. Omnye uvila, okwesibini awunamdla, uyayikhohlwa, ayilunganga, uyatshisa, it talente yesithathu iyadibanisa zonke ezi mpawu. Kodwa ephantsi, ngamnye wethu uyaqiniseka ukuba nguye owona mhle. Ubuqili okanye ukulibala - eziphosakeleyo ezintle, oko kuthetha, izityalo ezinomsila ezingabonakaliyo. Siyavuma ngokulula kuthi ukuba kunzima ngathi ukuba sigxile emsebenzini, "kodwa kukufanele umphathi ukuba ashicilele ukungabikho kwethu, aphelelwe ngumdla, ukulala kunye nomnqweno wokuza eofisini nge-10 ntsimbi. "Xa sithetha ngeemigodi zethu ngokuzwakalayo, ngentliziyo siyaqhubeka sikholelwa ukuba ayincinci kakhulu, kwaye xa kuthelekiswa kunye noogxa sibaqeqeshi abaziqilileyo. Ngoko ke, xa abanye bethetha oku kungaphumeleli, siyaxhalabisa kwaye sisicasuliwe, "kuchaza u-Irina Romanova wengqondo. Ziziphi izigqibo esizifumanayo? Siphathwa kakubi! Ngokukodwa kuba kuqiqa ukuthetha ngamaqela angakwaziyo. Naluphi na ukugxekwa-okufanelwe okanye akunjalo, kubonakala kuhlambalaza, kungacacanga, kukhanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo sicinga ukuba ukubonwa kakuhle kukubamba nje ukungazithandi, ukumisa isithwathwa esichazwa ngentla: ukusuka phezulu nangaphantsi - kuthiwa ngamazwi nje, nangaphakathi - i-cutlet engasetyhelwa. Kwaye kutheni umntu ekhusela ngokukhawuleza kwaye akavumelani nokutya okukhawulezayo.
Ukususela kwicala
Impendulo yokuqala ekuphenduleni kwiingcamango ezingalunganga ngumnqweno omkhulu wokukhubeka uze ushiye. Okanye utsho into engathandekiyo ngokubuyisela. Kodwa akukho nto okanye enye ayikho into efanelekileyo. Emva koko uya kufuneka ukhathazeke kungekhona nje ngenxa yokugxekwa, kodwa nangenxa yegama lakho lokukhawuleza nezenzo. Ukubona ukuhlukana ngaphandle kwemizwa engadingekile, iingcali zeengqondo zicebisa ukuba zifunde ukubona imeko ukusuka kwicala. Xa sibheke oko kwenzekayo ngamehlo ethu, asiyikubona nto ngaphandle komntu othetha amagama ahlaselayo. Kodwa ukuba uzama ukungena indima yombukeli, unokwazi ukubona ngaphezulu. Okokuqala, kufuneka ufune ukuphefumula kwaye uzibuze umbuzo: "Ndibukeka njani ngoku?" Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba ungabonakali kwiimvakalelo kwaye ungaphuthelwa izimvo onokuvumelana ngazo.
Ngokukodwa
Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa sigxekwa, asiva izinto eziphathekayo, kodwa iziganeko eziqhelekileyo. Sixelelwa ukuba "wenze iphutha," siva "ungenalwazi," uthi "unokukwenza ngcono", siva "ungumculi we-potboiler." Kubalulekile ukuba umntu atyekele ingxaki yenkathazo. Ukuba sigxeka umsebenzi wethu, ingakumbi apho, kubonakala ngathi, sibeke umphefumlo wethu, kuba yintlekele ngokwenene. Kodwa enyanisweni, ukugweba ngokuqhelekileyo akuyiyo imbono yethu yehlabathi ngokubanzi, kodwa isenzo esithile, isiphumo esinokulungiswa ngokupheleleyo. "Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlukana nokugxeka kwezenzo ekugxeka umntu. Ukuba bathi: i-pie ayinakusihlwa, ithetha ukuba yiyona phaya echazwayo, ngeli xesha liphumelele. Azizona izakhono zethu zokutya kwaye ingakumbi thina. Intloko ibonisa ukunganeliseki ngolwazi lwesiNgesi? Akathethi ukuba "uye wafunda ngezelelo kwiziko kwaye ngokubanzi - umqeshwa ongenamdla". Utsho nje ukuba kufuneka uzalise igama lakho kwaye usebenzise ukubiza kwakho. Kwaye akukho nto.
Ukususela eludongeni
Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ukugxekwa kungafanelekanga kwaye kuhlasele. Ngokomzekelo, uhlala ebusuku kwiprojekthi entsha kwaye sele sele ulibalekile ngeveki epheleleyo. Kodwa umthengi, ngenxa yesimo esingalunganga okanye isimo sengqondo esibi, wagxeka umsebenzi wakho othulini, ngaphandle kokuchaza ngokucacileyo into awayithandayo. Okanye iingxoxo zigqityiwe kangangokuba zihlekisayo. Nguwe kuphela kulo mzuzwana ongekho ukuhleka - ukukhubeka ngenxa yezinyembezi. Kubalulekile ukuxelela umoni-into ayifunayo ukukudlulisela yona, uvile kwaye ufunde. Ewe, bathi, u-Ivan Ivanovich, ndiyakuqonda, ndiya kuziqwalasela, ndiya kuzilungisa. Ngoko indlela elula yokumisa ingxoxo kwaye uzikhusele kwenye i-squall yokuhlambalaza. Iingcamango ezingathandekiyo zidla ngokusoloko zithi umgxekayo akakho emoyeni kwaye uzama ukuphucula umvakalelo ngokuphazamisa isimo sengqondo somnye. Musa ukumnika ithuba! Yaye ukuba imvume yakho yokuzola ingabancedi, kwaye izityholo aziyi kuyeka, cinga nje: amazwi ahlaselayo akhupha kuwe - njengeibhola ezivela eludongeni. Kwengqondo, kukho indlela yokukhusela: kufuneka uqikelele ukuba udonga olungabonakali luvele lukujikelezile, lukhusela ngaphandle kobudlova bangaphandle. Yaye maye bathethe oko bafuna, - akunakukhathalela kwaye akanandaba. Uhlolwe ngokwesiqhelo: ngokuqhelekileyo, ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa okulindelekileyo, uhlaselo luyakhupha kwaye emva kwexesha liza nokuxolisa. Into ebaluleke kakhulu akuyi kusebenza ekuzihloleni kwakho yonke imali epheleleyo ngolwazi olutsha malunga nawe. Ukuvavanya kwakho yinkampani yakho, intsimi apho ukungena kwabanye kungavumelekile. Khumbula: kungakhathaliseki ukuba uxhaphaza njani ukuthetha-yinto nje yombono omi phambi kwakho, nokuba ngaba ngumphathi.
YoNcedo lokuqala
Enye indlela eyahlukileyo yokumgxeka ngomsindo. Vumelanani, ukuba umntu akayiyo imvakalelo ngoku, ke kukho izizathu zeso. Mhlawumbi kwiiyure ezimbalwa ezedlule, wahlwaywa ngonya ngurhulumente ophezulu. Okanye, nokuba kunjalo, unomona nje ngeemali zakho. Imozulu engalungile, ukubonakalisa kakubi kwisibuko - awukwazi ukuba yintoni. Isizathu esifihlakeleyo sokugxeka ngokusoloko sihlambalaza ihlabathi lonke okanye inxalenye ethile yalo. Kodwa ke akukho nto enokuyenza ngayo, kwaye ke unesizathu sokukhathazeka ngamabango. Cinga ukuba umoni ngoku ubenzima kakhulu kunoko, uxolele kwaye umvumele ahambe ngokuthula, "- cebisa u-Irina Romanova. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko, umntu unokuba novelwano ngokuthula okanye ngokuvakalayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukuthotyelwa kuvumela, phendukela kumgxeki: "Kubonakala kum ukuba uphazamisekile. Ngaba uzive kakuhle? "Oku kuya kumnceda ukuphazamiseka aze acinge ngeengxaki zakhe.
Ukutshintshwa kwegama
"Uhlala uhamba!" - uthi, "Uhlala ulibala yonke into," inkosi inqamle ithi, "uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde ulahlekise into," umthengi uthi. Emva kwala magama, ungazifefa intloko yakho ngomlotha uze uvume ukuba ulahlekile. Kodwa kungcono ukuguqulela amagama azwiweyo kwisiteshi esakhayo. "Musa ukuvumela abagxekayo ukuba bahlaziye kwaye baphonyise. Ewe ngokwenene awulahlekelwa yimibhalo imihla ngemihla, kwaye ikhonkco izolo ikopi yesivumelwano esithile kwindawo ethile. Okanye, umzekelo, awuyi "uyilibale", kodwa namhlanje uzuze imali kwaye awukuvuyanga umhla wokuzalwa komlingani wakho ngosuku lokuzalwa lwenkampani yakho. Ukongeza, i-psychologist ikhumbula ukuba nakuphi na ibinzana ungayifumana intsingiselo yesibini. Oko kukuthi, unokuzijonga ngokukhuselekileyo kwingxelo ebalulekileyo yokudumisa kwidilesi yakho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba bathi: "uncokola kakhulu", oku kungaguqulelwa ngokuthi "ewe, ndiyintlalontle, ndonwabelana, ndinamakhono omhle okwenza i-oratorical." Kubikwa ukuba "usebenza kwinqanaba le-tortle" -cinga: "Ndingumgijimi onobuqili obonakele, ndenza konke ngonembeza".
Umbhalo othe ngqo
Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukugxekwa kufana ne-fly flyinate. Ngokomzekelo, unomkhuba wokuqhubela phambili iinwele zakho ngomnwe wakho xa ucinga ngako. Okanye uyayithanda ukuba kukho indebe yekhofi kunye ne-vase ngebhayisiki kufuphi nekhompyutha. Akunqunywanga, okanye imigaqo yenkampani, okanye imithetho efanelekileyo. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kwikomiti kukho umntu ovuyisa rhoqo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba anike amazwana kuwe. "Indlela elula yokuxelela umdibaniselwano ngokuthe ngqo: uyayiqonda, kodwa unendawo yakho, kwaye awuyi kukhanyela, kuba awulimazi nabani na. Ukuba ukugxekwa kukhathaza okanye kungathandeki, zikhululeke ukuba uthethe ngokunyanisekileyo oku kwaye ucele ukukhusela izimvo ezingaphezulu, "icebisa u-Irina Romanova.
Ngehlaya
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda ukuvuma ukugxekwa ngokuhleka. "Awukwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nabathengi," othetha naye wathi emva kokugqitywa kwemihlanu, kwaye isithandathu, i-alas, ayizange yenzeke. Uthembisa ukuthatha umzekelo kumgxeki, kuba "ingcali yinyani". Ukuba umphathi ubeka ingxelo, kwaye i-joke ephumelelayo inokuphosakelwa ngenxa yokuhlambalaza. Kodwa unako ukuzihlambalaza. Smile uze uvume: Ndenze iphutha kule ngxelo, kuba, "njengento eqhelekileyo, ndiba neentlumba emva konyaka." Ukuzimela akuyi kuvumela umphathi ukuba athukuthele. Imvakalelo evuyayo iya kunceda ukhangele izinto ngokulula, uthathe ugxeke ngokukhawuleza uze ufumane into ebalulekileyo kuyo.