Ndingamxelela njani abaphathi bam malunga nokukhulelwa kwam?

Kwaye zilapha - imivimbo emibili ekhangelwe kuvavanyo! Uzaliswe uvuyo nenwabe, kwaye ufuna ukwabelana nalo lonke ihlabathi. Kodwa emva kokuvutha komsindo, kukho imibuzo engokwemvelo: njani ubomi bakho buya kukhula ngakumbi, kwintsapho kunye nemisebenzi? Abaninzi abafazi bafuna impendulo, indlela yokukhetha ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzisa abaphathi babo kunye noogxa babo malunga nokukhulelwa kwabo. Ndifuna ukunika iingcebiso kumama ozayo. Ubuhlobo bakho nolawulo
Kuninzi kuxhomekeke kukuhlobo luni lolwalamano onalo kunye nomphathi wakho. Ukuba ulwalamano luhle kakhulu, ngoko kunengqiqo ukuxelela iindaba ezilungileyo kuwe. Oku kuya kubonisa wena njengomqeshwa onoxanduva onobuchule malunga nayo yonke imiba. Ulawulo luya kuba nexesha lokukufumana ngexesha lokubuyisela umqeshwa omtsha, kwaye uya kuba nexesha lokuhambisa zonke iimeko eziyimfuneko. Ukongezelela, kwimeko enjalo, mhlawumbi uya kufumana ingqwalasela kunye nokuqonda okuvela kumagunya: unokushiya umsebenzi uhambo ukuya kudokotela okanye uhambe ekhaya ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungazenzeki ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokucinga "ngekhohlo" ngezizathu, kuba ukhulelwe, unako. Ukongeza, ukuba ulwalamano oluhle kunye nobunkokeli, mxelele ukuba ulindele umntwana, kuya kuba lula ngokulula ngengqondo.

Ukuba awunalo ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nenkokheli okanye ukuba kukho ingozi yokuba "intshutshiso" iya kuqala kuwe, kungcono, "ngathi ukuba bathi," hlalani emahlathini "kwaye nixele iindaba zokukhulelwa kwakho emva koko. Okanye ungabika kuyo yonke into ukubonakala kwempawu ezibonakalayo - xa ukufihla into engenanto.

Kodwa nangona kukho uhlobo oluthile lomgaqo-mfihlelo (okanye ngokukodwa ukukholelwa inkolelo - uphawu) ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubudlelwane nabasemagunyeni, akudingekile ukwazisa malunga nesimo sakhe esitsha emsebenzini ngaphambi kweveki ezili-12. Eli lixesha eliyingozi kakhulu lokukhulelwa, ngelixesha apho iziganeko zokuphuphuma komzimba zingavamile. Nangona kunjalo, kukuphela kwakho ukugqiba.

Isimo solawulo kubafazi abakhulelweyo
Akuqhelekanga ukuba imenenja yeenkampani ihambelane kakubi nento yokuba abasebenzi bakhe bayakhulelwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abaphathi banokuqondwa, ngubani oya kuthanda xa umqeshwa omhle ephoqeleka ukuba angaphazamise umsebenzi wakhe wexesha elide. Kodwa ngakwelinye icala, ukukhulelwa kwimeko yendalo yowesifazane, kwaye xa uqeshe intombazana yokuzala ubudala, inkokeli kufuneka iqaphele ukuba inokuthi ifike ngekhefu lokubeleka. Kukho nawuphi na, kufuneka ujonge umphathi wakho njengoko ephatha abanye abafazi abakhulelweyo emsebenzini wakho. Ukuba inkokheli inelisekile kwaye ayihambisani nabesifazane abakhulelweyo "bumnyama" okanye uyayiphatha into engalunganga, ngoko unokumxelela ngokukhuselekileyo malunga neemeko zakho eziguqukileyo.

Okokuqala - umphathi, ngoko-osebenza nabo
Sekunjalo, kungcono ukubika ukukhulelwa kwakho kuqala ngqo kulawulo, uze uxoxe ngale ndaba kunye neqela leqela. Ngaphandle koko, kunokubonwa ngokungathembeki nokungahloneli kwamagunya.

Ziziphi iindaba ezibikwe ngazo?
Ngaphambi kokutyelela iofisi yeenkosi, kufuneka ucinge ngokucokisekileyo ngencoko. Unokuzibhenela ngokwakho iingongoma zeengxoxo kwiphepha. Qinisekisa ukuba uthi uyawuxabisa umsebenzi wakho, uthanda isithuba sakho, kwaye ungathanda ukuqhubeka usebenza uze ushiye umyalelo kwaye emva kokuzalwa komntwana emva kwexesha elithile. Musa ukulibala ukuchaza isimiso somsebenzi wakho, kuba ngokomthetho, umsebenzi osebenza ngamandla, umsebenzi wezeveki kunye neveki-ntsuku, kunye nokuhamba kwezoshishino kuyaphikisana. Kungcono ukuba ucacise ngokukhawuleza ukuba uza kuhlala nini kwikhefu lokubeleka. Emva kwakho konke, umphathi kufuneka azi ukuba zingaphi iinyanga okanye iminyaka ukukuqesha indawo, okanye ungayiqeshanga nantoni na, ukuba isigqibo somyalelo wakho siya kufutshane.

Ukukhetha ixesha elifanelekileyo
Akuyimfuneko ukubika iindaba zokukhulelwa xa abaphathi bebenomsebenzi, khangela okanye ubike. Kungcono ukulinda ixesha elihle kakhulu. Xa umntu ezolile kwaye ehlala entle, ezi ndaba ziya kubonwa ngokukhawuleza nangokuthe tye. Ngaphandle koko, inkosana ayisebenzi yonke imizuzu ngomhla wokugqibela.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukubamba ingqondo phambi kokuba ingxoxo kunye nomphathi kwaye ungakhathazeki, awukwazi ukugxothwa, nangona umthetho ungasecaleni lakho.