Ngaba kusenomvandalo ukuba amaxesha amakhwenkwe ahloniphekileyo adlulile ekugqibeleni. Kwaye ngoku iindlosokazi ezilungileyo sele sele ziza kunqoba ihlabathi kwaye zilwe nama-dragons-nangona inhlanhla, ngoku nje kuphela ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso. Inkxalabo kunye nexesha elide belwela amalungelo abo bafazi, baqhawule, baqhubela phambili ukuyisa abo bafana nje bafikeleleke nje kuphela. Ewe, kwaye yintoni impumelelo! Ibhinqa le-astronaut, umongameli wesifazane, umongameli wesifazane okhuselekileyo - ukuba umntu wayenqabile ukucinga okokuqala ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane yeshumi elinamibini, wayeya kuqatshelwa njengeyona ndawo, encinci.
Iziganeko ezixhaphazayo zexesha lethu zithatha kwaye ziphosa umntu ephakamileyo-indawo ephakamileyo yezakhiwo, ezinye kwiipolisi ezilahlekileyo elwandle, ezinye zihlala kwi-cockpit ye-fighter yomzekelo omtsha. Akukho ndawo, mhlawumbi, indawo apho abameleli banamhlanje beesigqeba esihle bengenako ukwenza indlela yabo. Omnye wokugqibela ukuyeka ukushishina. Kwaye kunye negama lokudibanisa ixesha elitsha, umkhwa wefashini, ukunqoba okubukhali - ibhinqa lebhinqa, ishishini-shishini, u-boss-boss.
Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba amabhinqa azama ukubamba iqela kwaye athathe amadoda kuzo zonke izinto, apho bazama khona ukuseka ukulawula kwabo, ukulawula nokulawula. Ewe, njengoko kuvela, abafazi abanako ukwenza imali ingabi nakakhulu, kodwa akubona bonke abafana nokukhokela, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, akubona wonke umntu onokukwenza. Ngoko ke, kukho indawo ezininzi apho umfazi wesimanje angaphumelela ngaphandle kokuba ngumphathi wekosikazi. Ngokomzekelo, kwicandelo lefilimu, umzekelo kwaye ubonise ishishini, imboni yobuhle, imidlalo. Apha ungakufumana ukubizwa kwakho, wenze umsebenzi odibeneyo, ube ngumntu wonke emhlabeni. Njengokuba amaMerika athi, umntu unokuvuka eyaziwayo ngelinye ilanga. Ingokuphi ukuvuka? Ingaba unayo intsapho? Enyanisweni, kuthekani ngovuyo lwentsapho? Nangona kunjalo umfazi akayindoda, intsapho yakhe - ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Ngaba lo msebenzi uphazamise okanye awunjalo? Owesifazane wanamhlanje uyibona njani - intsapho kunye nezoshishino ziyahambelana? Ngaba bayaphakanyisana ngempumelelo? Ukuhlalisana ngokuthula? Hamba ngokuphambene?
Eneneni, umfazi uya kukhetha ukuba kufuneka alahlekelwe yile mibini: usapho okanye umsebenzi? Umbuzo ubonakala ungenangqondo, kwaye impendulo iyabonakala. Kodwa, maye, izibalo zobomi zibonisa ukuba akusiyo yonke into ehle kakhulu, kwaye unyaka ngamnye inani labo bafumana ubunzima okanye banqabileyo baya kubingelela intsapho yabo ngokushishino.
Kutheni kunjalo? Kutheni ibhinqa linyanzeliswa? Emva kwakho konke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iphakamileyo ibha ibhinqa lebhizinisi lizibeke, akufanele libale into ephambili - wazalwa ngumfazi. Kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ukunqoba nayiphi na ukuphakama, ukuphumeza iziphumo ezimangalisayo kufuneka zihambelane ngokusemgangathweni kunye nemiphumo ephuma kuyo. Ibhinqa akufanele liphose kwisibingelelo seshishini, iphantsi kwekhaya kunye nabathandekayo. Kwishishini, njengokuba ebomini, yonke into ayifuni kwaye ilula. Akunakwenzeka ukudala ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Kubalulekile ukukhumbuza oku kwaye uqale ukulungiswa ukwenzela ukuba ukungaphumeleli kunye nokungaphumeleli kwishishini akubonakalwanga kwintsapho. Ngaphandle koko, ukusuka kumninimzi onomnene nokhathalelayo wendlu epholileyo, umntu angakwazi ukuguqula umlawuli. Ikhaya aliyikusola ngokuba ngumphathi we-ladys, abayidingi nje kuphela kunye nenhlalakahle enjengewe: ubukho bakho, ingqalelo yakho, igama lakho lomusa.
Akukho ntsikelelo zezinto eziphathekayo eziza kutshintsha umyeni kunye nomfazi kunye nabantwana abanomama. Ufuna ukuba ngumfazi weshishini - funda ukuba. Kufunda, zama, ukudibanisa, uze ungabingeleli omnye ngenxa yesinye. Ngokukodwa, kukho into enokuyilwela. Ukudibanisa ngobuchule bentsapho kunye nomsebenzi sele uye wavumela amagama omama ukuba atshabele kwaye akhanyise kwihlabathi lonke. Kukho imizekelo emikhulu yentsebenziswano ehambelana nomfazi ophumelelayo kunye nomama omhle. Omnye wabo nguJoan Rowling owaziwayo emhlabeni.