Into ebhetele kakhulu kwihlabathi yimeko yedwa


Into ebhetele kakhulu kwihlabathi yimeko yokuzimelela. Indlela yokuphila emva kwelahleko? Ndingabuyela njani kumdla ebomini? Ndingayimisa njani intlungu yam? Okanye ngaba uzimisele ukucinga ukuba into eyingozi kunazo zonke kwihlabathi kukuba unesidima asinakunqotshwa? Hayi, kunokwenzeka ukulwa nale nto kwaye kuyimfuneko, kodwa indlela yokwenza ngayo, uya kufunda kwinqaku lethu.

Umfazi ofumana intsingiselo yobomi kwindoda yakhe kunye nentsapho yakhe ingozi. Ukufa kwindoda ethandekayo yinto enzima, engenakuqhutyelwa yiyiphi na. Omnye wobomi uhlala "ekhubazeka ekuziphatheni", engafumani niduduzo ngenxa yentlungu yakhe ... Omnye ufumana umsebenzi - umzekelo - kwaye ubeka yonke into apho, ukuyeka ukunqwenela isicwangciso sesibini ... kwaye bambalwa baya kuqhubeka bephila ubomi obupheleleyo, beshiya intlungu ngexesha elidlulileyo. Kutheni thina bafazi silahlekelwa yinxalenye yethu ngokulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo? Sinokufumana njani amandla kwaye siqhubeke siphila? Kwaye yintoni?

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uzilungiselele ngokuziphatha ngenxa yokufa? Ewe, kodwa bambalwa abantu bakuthola kunzima ukucinga ngako. Kuyaqondakala - akukho nto inomdla kuzo, kodwa ukuqinisekiswa kokungenakwenzeka kwayo kunokunceda kwikamva. Sifaka ukufa njengotshaba - luqilima kwaye lubuhlungu. Intshaba ekufuneka uhlale kuyo. Ezi ngcamango zisithintela ukuba samkele ukungabi nako. Kufanelekile ukucinga ngolu hlobo: mhlawumbi ulahla umthwalo onzima?

Abasetyhini abahlupheke kakhulu kufuneka baqwalasele ngale ngcebiso.

Wonke umntu unabazali, abazalwana kunye noodade, oogogo nomkhulu, abantwana, abahlobo - abasondeleyo. Ukuhlala entlungu, musa ukulibala ukuba bakufuna. Njengangaphambili, bafuna isiluleko sakho somusa, ingqalelo yakho, inkxalabo yakho. Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngumzekelo ombi kubantwana bakho okanye ukongeza imibimbi kubuso bakho? Kufuneka ube namandla, ukwenzela ukuba intlungu yabantu abasondele kuwe ayixutywanga nentlungu yakho. Yazi-uhlala uhlala ulinde!

Musa ukuzibulela. Cinga ngalabo ababi kakhulu - kwaye ubaguqulele ububele. Ukutyelela abantwana kwintandane, ncedise abo bahamba ngexesha elinzima ebomini. Ngoko-ke kungekuphela nje ixesha elide unokulibala malunga nentlungu yakho, kodwa yenza into eninzi kwaye iluncedo. Ubomi obonwabileyo bezingane okanye ukubulela abantu abalufuna uncedo kuza kukunika ithuba lokuziva luyimfuneko kule bomi. Lo luhlobo "lomgca", okufuneka ubambelele kwihlabathi ...

Yenza into oyifunayo okwangoku. Ufuna ukukhala. Iindlebe zindlela engokwemvelo yokubonisa iimvakalelo. Ukuba awufuni ukwenza ukucoca okanye ukubonakala kwakho - ungaziphoqeleli. Kwaye ukuba kukho umnqweno wokutyelela indawo ebalulekileyo kwiinkalo zakho - hamba. Emva kwakho konke, inkumbulo yinkwenkwe yethu ebomini ...

Cinga ngabazali abalahlekelwa yonyana wabo. Akunzima kubo kunokuba wena. Kwaye baqonda intlungu yenu njengokuba kungekho enye. Ngoko ungabavumeli bazive belahliwe kwaye bezintandane ...

Zama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabantu. Mhlawumbi ulala ebusuku, awudingi ukuzongeza iintsuku ezizimeleyo kubo. Abazali kunye nabahlobo baya kuncedisa - bathemba. Nika izihlobo zakho ithuba lokuhlala kunye nokukunceda.

Cinga ngento yokuzonwabisa. Ukuba kwakunguwe, yenza oko, unike ixesha lakho shishini. Ukuba akunjalo, yenze i-artificially. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo, ukuba yayiyimisebenzi ekhulileyo kunye neyokuchukumisa, njengento yokugcoba okanye ukubopha. Sebenzisa ixesha elininzi kulo njengoko ufuna. Into ephambili kukuba kukukholisa kwaye kukuvumela ukuba uziphazamise.

Kwiidolophu ezinkulu, kukho amaziko abantu abaye bahlaselwa kakhulu. Fumana. Kulapho uya kuncedwa nje ngeentlungu ezingenakunokwenzeka ukuba uhambe kwiinqanaba ezahlukeneyo zentlungu. Endaweni enye, uya kuba nethuba lokubonisa intlungu eqokelelwa ngamazwi ngaphandle kokwesaba ukungaqondi.

Ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo, umgangatho uphuhliswa ongeke uhlakulele kwiimeko ezifanelekileyo - uyaqina. Oku kuya kunceda kwixesha elizayo ukufumana amaxesha anzima. Khumbula - ixesha liphilisa! Kwiminyaka kamva intlungu idibeneyo, amanxeba ayaqina. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba umphumo osheshayo akufanele ulindeleke. Zinike ixesha lokuba ulungelelanise into entsha, kwihlabathi elitsha.