Ukuxhatshazwa kweSikolo: ngubani omele uxanduva kunye nento yokwenza?

"Ukuba bayakugculela, akuyiyo iphoso lakho, kodwa yinkinga yakho," utsho ixhoba lase-Aj Mairok, umntwana wesikolo. Uyazi kuqala ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukushiywa yedwa phakathi koontanga abanenzondo. Ukunceda abafundi bafumana imeko efanayo, u-Aidzha wabhala incwadi ethi "Kutheni na? Imbali yesikhalazo esimhlophe. "

Abantwana kaninzi babela umntu ekufundeni nabo ekilasini, kwaye oku kunokuyingozi kakhulu ubomi bomntwana osengozini. Kwaye kwimeko embi kakhulu-ekupheleni kwentlekele. Emva koko, kukho iimeko ezininzi xa abantwana abaselula bezibulala, kuba imihla ngemihla baxhatshazwa ngabaontanga babo. U-Aija uchazela abo baphathwa kakubi, ukuba akufanelekile ukuphulaphula abahlukumezi kwaye befuna imbangela yokuxabana ngokwabo: "Kubonakala kuwe ukuba kukho into enomsindo wonke umntu kwaye kufuneka ulahlekise le mpawu. Ewe, oko akufanelanga? Lam ilizwi? Isikhumba? Ubalo? Igalelo? Umbala weboya? Iingubo? Hayi, akunjalo nhlobo. Ndikholelwe, ukuba uxhatshazwa, ke ingxaki ayikho kuwe, kodwa kulabo abayingozi. Ukuba uxhatshazwa ngenxa yokuba uhluke kwabanye, ngoko-ke abaphuli bakho banento engalunganga. Abaqinisekanga ngokwabo ukuba babeka iingxaki zabo kuwe. " Njengomnye, i-Aija iyaqonda: xa ubhekene nokukhwela isikolo, kufuneka ube njengoluncedo njengoko kunokwenzeka, kuba ukhuseleko lwangokwenyama nangokwengqondo kuqala. Ngoko ke, encwadini yakhe intombazana ichaza indlela yokuziphatha kwi-intanethi, isikolo kunye namaqela ekukhuseleni ingxaki. Inika iingcebiso ezilula kodwa ezibaluleke kakhulu, umzekelo:

• Ukuqwalasela ngokucophelela izicwangciso zokukhuseleko kunye nokufikelela okuthe ngqo kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Akukho nto engaqhelekanga apha - abadumileyo kunye nabaninzi babantu basebenzisa umda wokungena kumaphepha abo. Abantu abadumileyo banabalandeli, kodwa kukho iintshaba. Ngoko, udaka lugxotha phezu kwabo - bangamaqabane akho kwintlekele.
• Ngokuqhelekileyo ootitshala abayikulawula i-vestibule, kwaye ihlala ihlaselwa. Ukuqapha: Nciphise ixesha ochithayo kwi-lobby, hamba ngokukhawuleza. Oku kusebenza kuyo nayiphina indawo evulekile apho unokuqhotyoshelana nenkampani enkulu.
• Ngaphambi kokuba wamkele isimemo kwiqela evela kumntu ofanayo, zibuze imibuzo embalwa. Ndivakalelwa njani ngokwenene ondimemayo? Uphi le ndlu? Ngubani na oya kuba khona? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kubakho iziyobisi kunye notywala kwiqela? Ngaba umntu ekhaya uya kuba ekhaya? Umntu ondimema ukuba a tyelele undiphatha kakuhle, okanye ndifuna nje ukucinga ngaloo ndlela?

Lo myalelo kufuneka ube ngowomntwana ngamnye ngokukhawuleza waba ngujolise ekuhlaselweni. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukunika ukholo kuye. Ibali lombhali liya kunceda intombazana ukuba iyaqonda ukuba ukubhalwa kwesikolo akusiyo isiphelo sehlabathi. Esikolweni iAija zaziziva zingenakunceda, kodwa ke wafumana abahlobo bokwenene, wakwazi ukuzibona emsebenzini kwaye wafumana amabhaso amaninzi angabhaliweyo. Nantsi enye into ayithethayo kwesi sihloko: "Ngaba uyazi ukuba abantu abaninzi abadumileyo bashutshiswa esikolweni? U-Lady Gaga, umzekelo, wathetha ngodliwano-ndlebe ukuba "unesisongo esishiye ubomi." Izinkulungwane zabantwana emhlabeni jikelele zijongelwa ukuhleka uswabafunda nabo. Kwaye abaninzi babo ekugqibeleni baba ngabantu abaphumelelayo okanye abadumileyo: oogqirha, abadlali, izazinzulu, abalobi, ezopolitiko, abaculi - kwaye akukho mntu owaziyo omnye! Ngokuqinisekileyo, bayadlula umendo obuhlungu nobunzima. Nangona kunjalo, ubunzima abukwazi ukuhlala ngonaphakade. Musa ukuyeka. Unomso ozayo. "

Kodwa yintoni enye intombazana eyifumana yona, ukuba ingqonge izitha kwaye ihlala ikhupha iingcamango ezimnyama entloko? I-Aija iphinda inike impendulo yalo mbuzo. Ukwandisa ukuzithemba nokonwaba, umntwana kufuneka ahlanganyele kwinto enomdla kuyo: ezemidlalo, ubuchule, ukuhlolwa kwezesayensi. Oku kuya kunceda ukwenza olwaziyo kunye nokujongana neengxaki. U-Ayja weluleka: "Yenza into oyithandayo (kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani na ocinga ntoni). Ukudalulwa kobugcisa ngenye yezona zinzuzo ezinkulu onokuzifumana ngquzulwano zesikolo. Ubunono buyisa kuwe kwilizwe elikhethekileyo, apho unakho ukulibala malunga nayo yonke into. "

Ukuqala ukubhala incwadi, uAija Mirok wayecinga malunga nabantwana abanjwe kwisicu esifanayo njengoko yena. Umntwana kufanele enze ntoni xa enikwa imfazwe ngaphandle kwesizathu kwaye uyadla ngokuhleka imihla ngemihla? Ngomxholo onobubele kunye okhuthazayo "Kutheni na?" Umfana uya kufumana inkxaso kunye nokucebisa ngcebiso evela kumntu owaziyo oko akathethayo.