Kha wuleza
Bathi abafazi bayakhawuleza ukutshata. Kodwa kukho namadoda alungele ukukhokela ibhinqa kwi-registrar emva kokutyelela okumbalwa. Ungathengi i-romanticism yesenzo esinjalo, kungcono ukulinganisela i-pros and cons. Ngaba ulungele ukuchaza ubomi bakho kumntu ongaziqondi? Ngaba unesiqiniseko sokunyaniseka nokuziphatha kwakhe? Ngaba zikhona naziphi na izizathu ezifihliweyo zokuba kutheni? Kwimeko nayiphi na into, umntu onokuya naye ukwakha intsapho, kungcono ukwazi ixesha elide kuneentsuku ezimbalwa okanye iiveki.
Uncedo
Umfazi, ukhetha umyeni, uthemba ukuba unomkhuseli othembekileyo kunye nenkxaso. Yintoni eyenzekayo xa umntu onokungaqondani okufanayo ejongene nokuqhuma kunye nokukhala ngokukhawuleza kwimbono ye mouse? Kwaye kwenzeka into elandelayo: uyabona ukuba akuyena yena umntu olwalamano lwakho. Ngaba ulungele ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yomntu ojikelezayo kwindlu, jongana neenqwelo zokugubha kunye nokuxazulula iingxaki ngokulungiswa kwemoto - kufike kuwe.
Ngasebenzi
Enye into ephawulekayo yindoda kukuba ukungabikho komsebenzi wendawo. Ukuba ucinga malunga nokukhetha umyeni, ngoko, mhlawumbi unomdla ekuzinzeni ubudlelwane, ukuzinza kwemali engenayo. Indoda esoloko iguqula imisebenzi okanye ayiyi kumkhangela kwayo ayikho incedisayo kuwe. Nangona uhamba ngokuzama ukuphucula imeko yakho yezemali, uya kuthatha yonke imizamo yakho, elele embhedeni.
Ukuba umntu uthembisa ukufumana umsebenzi, kodwa emva kweenyanga ezintathu imeko ayitshintshi, ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukuba ayiyi kutshintsha.
Nomona
Ewe, kulungile ukuba uqaphele ukuba indoda yakho ayikukhathaleli, ayikwazi ngisho nokuzisa umntu ongowesihambi nawe kwaye ukulungele ukukhusela kuyo nayiphi na ingxowankulu yakho. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha umona udlula yonke imida evumelekileyo, kwaye ubomi kunye nomntu onjalo buba nzima.
Njengomthetho, umona unamandla okukhula ulawulo olupheleleyo. Oku kuya kubangela ukuba awukwazi ukushiya indlu, indoda yakho iya kuhlala isetyenziswe kwifowuni yakho nakwi-imeyile, kwaye nayiphi na ukulibaziseka emsebenzini kuya kuba sisihlandlo se-scandal. Ngendlela, lo mkhwele uhlala ubonisa ukuba umntu ngokwakhe unezono okanye ulungele ukuziphatha. Oku kwenza ukuba acinge ukuba ukunyaniseka akukho, kwaye uyitshintsha.
Xho mekeke
Akunandaba nokuba umntu uncike - utywala, iziyobisi, imidlalo yekhompyutha okanye umama. Oku kuya kuphazamisana nolwalamano lwakho kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubangela ukukhungatheka. Ukuba ucinga indlela yokukhetha umyeni ongeyongezi iingxaki ebomini bakho, unike amaveli kunye nabantu abangenakukulahla nayiphi na inkxalabo enzulu. Akukho mfuneko ukuba nethemba lokuba umtshato kunye nothando lwakho luya kwenza ummangaliso. Inokwenzeka ukuba, i-naivete eyo kudala kwiminyaka yokuzama ukulungisa ingxaki yomntu ngaphandle kwesiqinisekiso sokuphumelela.
U buhlungu
Ewe, amadoda ahlala ehlasele kunabesifazane. Oku kubangelwa kukuba ukuziphatha kwethu kuyachaphazeleka ngamahomoni ahlukeneyo. Kodwa imingcele evumelekileyo yobudlova ikhona. Ukuba umntu uthanda ukutshabalalisa izandla zakhe, uxhaphaza, uhlaziye ngokokuziphatha, uhlala eshoyo kwaye uzama ukuphazamisa ngamabomu, ngoko ngokucacileyo unengxaki enkulu yengqondo.
Ngendlela, ezi ngxaki aziphathwanga ngumtshato kunye nemizamo yomfazi yokuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe. Kule minyaka, ukungahlawulwanga kukunika ingqiqo yokukhohlisa, engakhokelela kwintlekele. Ngaba uyayifuna indoda enjalo - yona kuwe.
Ngamnye wethu akasenasiphene. Abanye babo kufuneka balwe, ezinye ziyakunyamezela, kwaye ezinye ziyakunqumla. Ukuba umntu unempawu ozijongayo ezingamkelekanga, akunakulungele ukuba nethemba lokuba uya kuphinda ufundise umntu omdala osetyenziswa ukuhlala ngokufanayo, kwaye akunjalo. Musa ukutshata nomntu wokuqala oza kwenza isibonelelo uze uphendule amehlo akho kwizinto ezingamnandi kuwe. Ungakhetha njani umyeni kule meko? Kulula kakhulu-kholosa intliziyo yakho uze ungalibali ngokuqonda.