Ukuthula, eqinisweni, unokuba neetalente: awukhulumi nomyeni wakho, ngokungathi ungaboni. Umyeni emva kweeyure ezimbalwa zokunyamekela kwi-capitulation engenanto. Kodwa nantsi into ephazamisayo: yonke into ibonakala ihamba ngendlela ofuna ngayo, kodwa usandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa kwangoko: uqaphela ukuba into ethile ishintshile ubudlelwane, kubanda kubonakale, indoda ayinikeli nto, ichithe ixesha elide emsebenzini okanye kwinkampani bahlobo. Kwaye nina kunye namanye amantombazana abancinci abalinganayo abafuna ukuvuyiswa ebomini babo bamele ba khumbule iingcebiso zeengcali zengqondo zentsapho: isiqinisekiso sobudlelwane obuvumelanayo, okokuqala, ukukwazi ukuqhuba ingxoxo kunye nokunyaniseka.
Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala ngokuvisisana , kufuneka uvumelane! Ngoko kuvela ukuba ubugcisa bokungqubuzana - ukukwazi ukuzincama ezincinane, ekugqibeleni ufumane ngaphezulu, umtshato wabasetyhini. Simele sibe mncinci, sitshintshwe ngakumbi, silumke, siphendule ngakumbi. Mamela nje konke oku akuthethi ukuba abafazi kufuneka bahlale bevuma kwaye bavumelane nabo abathembekileyo kuyo yonke into. Ukubambisana okungekho mnye kungayi kubakho nantoni na. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, iqela elingaphantsi, elingenelisekile nale nyaniso, liya ku libala zonke iinjongo zalo ezilungileyo kwaye livakalise: "Ndidiniwe! Kwanele! "Ngendlela efanelekileyo, ukuvunyelwana kuya kufuneka ukuba uye kwesinye isiqingatha. Kodwa nantso inhlanhla, sele sele uyikhohliwe ukuba yenziwe njani, kuba lonke eli xesha liyamkeleka kuphela. Ngokuqhelekileyo, imeko iya kuba siphelo sokufa. Ukuze senze oku, kufuneka sisebenzise ukulungelelanisa-ukukwazi ukunikela idini elincinci, ukuze ufumane ngaphezulu. Ukutshintsha imeko, kufuneka sikwazi ukufumana ukunyanzela nokuzinikela kubathandekayo bethu ngexesha. Kwaye ukuba xa unokuthi unokubakholisa umhlobo wakho ukuba uyisolo lakhe, ukuba uyindoda ehlakaniphile, eqaqambileyo kunye nomyeni ongcono kunabo bonke emhlabeni-wanikezela ngendlela ecacileyo kule meko, ke le nto yinto epheleleyo.
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Ukunciphisa (ngendlela efanelekileyo yegama) kwiintlalontle zentsapho ngokupheleleyo, "sebenzisa" abayidingayo, ngokulandela imithetho. Ukuze sifumane isivumelwano, zombini amaqabane kufuneka alahle into ethile. Ngokomzekelo, ufuna ukuya kwibhola, kwaye uya kwikhonsathi yomculi wakhe ozithandayo. Emva kokuxubusha zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka kunye neengxaki, bona, ukuze kungabikho mntu uphukisayo, unqume ukuya ... kwi-cinema yefilimu efuna ukufumana okanye ukufumana esinye isisombululo se-compromise. Ekugqibeleni, yena kunye naye banelisekile ngendlela ababechitha ngayo ngokuhlwa.
Kukho umyalelo ukuba lowo unikezela ukutshatyalaliswa kufuneka azinikele kuqala kwiqabane lakhe, kwaye ke yicinge nje malunga nokuzinikela kwakhe. Kwaye kufuneka uyenze ngokuzithandela, ngaphandle kokuguqula ibe uhlobo lokubamba: Wena kum mna-mna kuwe. Ngokomzekelo, ufuna ukuya kwikhofe ukuze udle i-dessert ye-tsokolate, kwaye uphupha nge-pizza. Emva koko uphakamisa: maye siye kweli-pizzeria namhlanje, kwaye ndiya kuzinciphisa kwisaladi yemifuno, kwaye ngexesha elizayo siya kuya kwi cafe. Yibonge ngokuvuma. Nangona intanda ayithandanga isithembiso kuye kwaphela. Masithi ucele ukuba ahlambulule indlu. Yaye nangona iqabane lalinamanye amacebo, wavuma. Wayephinda izinto kwi-wardrobe, ngaphandle, kodwa wayekhohliwe ukususa uthuli. Musa ukubonisa "imisila", ngokuchaseneyo, umbulele. Kubonakala ngathi emva kokuba eli qabane liza kuba likwazi ukudibana. Kwaye ngokubanzi ukulungelelanisa kulungile.