1. Akufuneki ukuba ugqoke amabhuthi, nokuba indlu iya kubanda kwaye ukushisa akunikezelwa. Ukuba uya kwikhemiti kwiebhotile, unokuguqula i-pan kunye nomgubo, i-skis iya kuwela kuwe, kwaye kuya kucaca ukuba ezi zibhotshi zicinezele kwaye zivumba i-kerosene kunye nothuli. Kukulungele ukulungisa ibhedi efudumeleyo kwaye udibanise, omnye wakho ufune ukufudumala.
2. Ukuba umhlobo wakho ubona umdlalo wakhe, ehlanganiswe phantsi kweengubo, kungcono ukuba angayi kumjikelezo kunye nendawo yokuhlambela, kodwa ukunyuka ukuya kuyo phantsi kweengubo. Unako ukufudumala, kwaye uya kuthi, akukho mbi ngaphezu kweebhotile, unokufunda okuninzi ngebhola, kwaye ayikho into engenasicatshulwa kwaye iyingozi njengoko kubonakala. Ayithengi nto, kwaye ngokubaluleke ukuba ungaphantsi kwengubo eyodwa.
3. Ilanga elingaphantsi kwamanzi, musa ukunyuka phantsi kwengubo ngeCawa, usuku olungileyo, nokuba awufuni ukuya naphi na. Nangona ukuhamba kuhamba ixesha elifutshane, kuya kuba luncedo kumfanekiso kunye nomoya.
4. Awudingi ukujongana nokubala, ukubala kweemfanelo zakho kubathandekayo bakho. Enyanisweni, ukuba uqala ukuluhlu lweenkonzo zakho, okokuthi, zikho, ukubeka uluhlu kungathatha iiyure ezininzi, kwaye ukuba umhlobo wakho naye uqala ukwenza okufanayo.
5. Thatha uhambo olumanyeneyo. Kodwa nanko, ulalele umgibe omele uvalwe, kwaye ungagqithwanga, kodwa ushiye ekhaya. Akufuneki ukumlandela yonke ixesha, kuba ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuhlala kunye nabahlobo
6. Ukuba yonke into iyahamba kunye, akudingeki ukhumbule iinkonzo zakhe, uze umbuzo. Musa ukwenza uluhlu lwaloo mthandayo akukwenzi okwamanje. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukumgxeka, bhetele uthethe ekhaya, kunokuba uya kugxeka xa ngabahlobo. Ngaphandle koko, uya kukhanyela kwaye akayi kuhlaziywa ngabahlobo bakhe. Emva kwakho konke, amadoda, njengabantwana, ke baya kuza ne-nickname yokuhlambalaza baze bahlaziye ngokupheleleyo. Kuza kunikwa igama lesiteketiso kumagama akho, inyaniso. Uya kuba nomdla ukwazi indlela eya kusabela ngayo, kodwa yindoda oyithandayo, kodwa andicinga ukuba kulungile ukujonga.
7. Musa ukumxelela ukuba uyisidenge. Nangona abahlobo behleka, kodwa baqhekeza, kwaye wahlala. Akudingeki ukuba, nokuba yedwa uhlambalaze umthandayo, ngoko uya kuba neentloni ngamazwi akho. Emva koko, ukunyeliswa akukhethi ukhetho, nangona wenza izinto eziphosakeleyo, ephosakeleyo okanye engaqondi into ethile. Emva kwakho konke, ngenxa yento oyikhethile, kwaye nguye.
8. Kukho iintsuku xa ungaziva uthanda ukudansa, ukuzonwabisa kwaye ubeke emhlophe. Ukuthengisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezikuvumela ukuba ugqoke umhlophe, kodwa ungakulibala ukuba kule mihla yonke into ibonakala iyingozi. Kwaye, kubonakala kukho konke ukusola, into oyithandayo, kungekhona imvelaphi ye-hormonal. Musa ukuncwina ngenxa yolu ngxaki, bhetele ucoce wena kunye noshintsho oluthile, zithenge i-ayisikrimu, cela ukuhlalisa umqolo wakho osezantsi. Kuya kuba mnandi.
9. Kukho iintsuku apho unxiba umhlophe, udansa, kodwa ungadingi. Awufuni nto, ubuvila, umnqweno wokukhahlela kwiqhekeza. Kodwa ungadlala kwi-swan efayo, into ephambili ayiyikuyibuyisela. Ngenxa yokuba ngelinye ilanga umthandayo uya kuziva ukuba uzenza ngathi.
10. Into ephambili ebomini bentsapho ayikuzingca, kodwa ukuqonda ukuba umntu unelungelo lokubuthathaka.
Safunda malunga nezinto ezilishumi ongenakuzenzayo kwiintsapho zakho zobomi. Ukuba naliphi na ixesha uyeka ukucinga ngawe, kwaye umamele, ngoko uya kukuphulaphula. Emva kwakho konke, ukuhlambalaza, njengento enomphefumlo emphefumlweni, kwaye kufuneka uhlale kude nabo kwaye wenze kwaye uyamkele njengoko kunjalo.