Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kukho ezinye iimeko, iimpikiswano ezingundoqo ezibalulekileyo, ngoko zifuna isicwangciso esongezelelweyo kwisisombululo esifanelekileyo nesiphumeleleyo, okanye, ngaphandle koko, kunokubangela ukuxhatshazwa ubudlelwane okanye kubangele iimvakalelo zobundlobongela. Ukuze uphumelele, ukuba nobudlelwane obuhle kwintsapho okanye nabantu abasondeleyo, umntu makangazi ukuba kunokwenzeka njani ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo kunye nosapho kunye nendlela yokulungisa iingxabano kumbutho.
Ngangoko kuyimfuneko ukuqaphela ukuba iingxabano azihlali zibi. Ukuba ulungelelanise imeko yeengxabano, ngoko unako ukuphumelela kulo! Ekubeni umntu akafanele akhohlwe ukuba iimpikiswano zihlala zizisa kunye noshintsho oluthile kwaye zenza abantu bakwazi ukuphucula nokufunda. Impikiswano ivuselela ingcamango kunye nekhono, zisisindise kwixesha eliqikelelwayo kunye nobomi bokuphila. Xa zibuyiselwa, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo phakathi kwabantu buya kusekwa.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iingxabano zingabangela ingozi enkulu ubudlelwane, bathabatha amandla, ixesha kunye nemali. Iimbambano ezinde ziza kuthintela impilo yakho, zombilini ngengqondo nangokwengqondo, okuya kubachaphazela kakubi umsebenzi wakho kunye nolwalamano nabathandekayo.
Ukuze ulungelelanise ukungquzulana kwintlangano okanye intsapho, sebenzisa iindlela zezisombululo zabo, ezidweliswe ngezantsi.
Ngoko ke kufuneka uyenze ntoni kwaye uthetha ukuba kukho imeko engqubanayo. Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, kukho iintlobo ezintlanu zokuziphatha:
Khuphiswano.
Njengomthetho, ukhuphiswano lubonisa umnqweno wokwanelisa iimfuno zabantu kwabanye abantu (imodeli "yokunqoba / yokutshatyalaliswa"). Abantu abanesimo esinzima badla ngokukhetha ukulungisa iingxabano. Konke oku, bangasebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufezekisa injongo yabo: igunya, amandla, uxhulumaniso, amava, njl.
Izabelo.
Izabelo zithetha ukuba ubeka kuqala iimfuno zabanye kuqala, endaweni yakho (umzekelo "wokutshatyalaliswa / ukunqoba"). Ukuya kunyanzeliswa kuyimfuneko kuphela xa omnye wamaqela abandakanyekayo kwimpikiswano engenasithakazelo ekukhuseleni ngokupheleleyo iimfuno zabo (kwaye mhlawumbi uya kucinga ukuba iimfuno zomnye umntu zibaluleke kakhulu). Le ndlela yokuziphatha isebenza ngempumelelo xa kuyimfuneko ukukhusela ukwahlula ubudlelwane kunye nokugcina uxhulumano. Oku kunokwenziwa xa kuyimfuneko ukulungisa iingxabano kwintlangano, kuba kulo nyaka unxibelelwano oluncedo lufanele lube luleke ngakumbi kunomdla.
Gwema ukungquzulana kwintlangano, endaweni yemvume yabo.
Abantu abakhetha le ndlela yokuziphatha, njengomthetho, zama ukungagxininisa kwimpikiswano, abayithandabuzekiyo yabo kunye neemfuno / ukwesaba kwabanye abantu. Oku kwenziwa xa abantu abafuni ukufumana ishishini elifanayo kunye nomdlali. Inokusebenza kuphela kuphela xa isetyenziswe njengeqhinga elifutshane (eliphakathi) kwinqanaba lide licaciswe ngokupheleleyo okanye zonke iimvakalelo ziphela.
Intsebenziswano ebalulekileyo.
Abantu abakhetha le ndlela, bafuna ukuhlangabezana neemfuno okanye ukwesaba kwabo okanye abanye. Intsebenziswano iya kufuna amandla amaninzi kunye nexesha kunezinye iindlela zokuziphatha. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abakhetha le ndlela, qalisa ukuzama ukusombulula ingxabano kungekudala.
Ukungqinelana.
Ukungqinelani nto yinto phakathi kwezi ziphatha ezingentla. Le ndlela, enye indlela okanye enye, iya kubangela ukwaneliseka okhethekileyo kwezidingo / ukukhathazeka / ukukhathazeka kwamacala omabini. Ukuncintisana kunokusetyenziswa xa iinjongo zombini zibalulekile ngokwaneleyo, kodwa ayikho i-100%.
Izigaba eziphambili zokusombulula ingxabano:
Intlangano yencoko yababini. Hlanganisa abaphathi abaphezulu kunye nabanye osebenza nabo, kwaye ubaxelele ukuba uvule ngokupheleleyo kwaye uyanyamekela iimfuno zabasebenzi bentlangano, kwaye uxoxe ngokucacileyo ingxaki ebonakalayo, uzama ukuwuphelisa oko kanye kanye. Nangona kunjalo, ungalibali, wonk 'ubani unelungelo lokuvakalisa indawo yakhe yokujonga.
Ukubandakanya kwingxoxo yeqela eliphikisanayo. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba amacala amabini aphikisanayo kufuneka athathe inxaxheba kwincoko yaxa-nye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuphulaphula umchasi wakho, ngoko uthabathe isigqibo esilungileyo esilungisayo.
Ukucwangcisa yonke inkcazelo efunyenweyo yinqanaba lesithathu lokusombulula ingxabano kwintlangano okanye kwinkampani. Amaqela amabini aphikisanayo anyanzelekile ukuba acinge kwakhona ulwazi olufunyenweyo, kwaye kwakhona aphinde acinge ngeemvakalelo zabo, kwaye aqonde okokuqala eyabangelwa yimpikiswano.
Isivumelwano esipheleleyo okanye esincinane - sifumaneke! Esi sixhobo esilandelayo sezengqondo sokusombulula ingxabano. Le nkqubo ibonakaliswe ngokusekwa kwemvume kunye nethemba.
Isidingo sokuphelisa ukungaboni ngaso. Xa kuvunyelwene isivumelwano esivumelanayo, ke kukho ukuhlaziywa kwemibandela ethile eyenziwa ngamacala omabini. Ngoku kubalulekile ukuba uchaze ngokucacileyo ukuba ude uqonde ngokupheleleyo, iimvakalelo zakho, awukwazi ukunqoba ukungafani.
Ukuhlanganiswa kwesivumelwano esifumeneyo. Le yinqanaba lokugqibela lokusombulula ingxabano. Kule nqanaba izivumelwano zikhuselekile, kwaye i-compromise ifinyelelwe.