Solo ebomini

Sisoloko sinoyiko - utshintsho, ukufa, iindawo eziphakamileyo, izithuba ezidibeneyo, ubunzulu, ubunyulu. Yonke inkohlakalo inenkcazo yenzululwazi ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ukwesaba ukuba yedwa kunzima ukuyichaza. Siza kweli hlabathi ngokuziqhayisa kwaye sisishiya yedwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bangaphi abantu abasondeleyo kuloo mzuzu. Kodwa singaphila kwaye sivuyiswe kuphela kwinkcubeko yethu. Kodwa kukho inzuzo ekuxilweni.


Ukusebenza kweMono kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Abantu bashiye bodwa baphosakeleyo xa bethetha ukuba bodwa bodwa kwihlabathi. Kubuqhetseba ukuthetha oku ukuba uhlala kwisixeko esikhulu. Ujikelezwe ezininzi izinto ezinokusasaza ukudabuka, ukunyamezela nokuthatha ixesha lakho lokukhulula. Unokuya kwi-cinema uze ubukele i-movie yakho oyintandokazi, ungadla kwindawo yokudlela ecocekileyo, uye kwindawo yokuthenga okanye uye kwiqela. Ewe, awunayo ibini, kodwa kufuneka uqaphele ukuba bangaphi abantu abakujikelezeyo, naphi na apho ukhona, ukuba iingcamango zelungu lilonke liphuphuma ngokukhawuleza. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uzizwe unesihlwele kwisixeko apho amawaka abantu ejikeleze iwashi esheshayo kwi shishini labo, ahlaziye, asebenze, aphikisana aze agijime?
Ngoko ke, xa ufumana olunye uloyiko, iya ezitalatweni. Ndikholelwe, uya kudinwa ngokukhawuleza kwisihlwele, kwaye ubumnandi buya kubonakala ngathi uphumelele.

Enye yezoyiko eziqhelekileyo kukuba ukwesaba ukuya eholide ngokuziqhayisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, inkampani iyonwabile, kodwa iphinde ichithe iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphandle kohlobo, oogxa kunye nabathandekayo banamathuba amaninzi. Unokulala ngokwaneleyo, kwaye akukho mntu unokukuyeka. Ungakwazi ukuzisa iingcamango zakho neemvakalelo zakho, kwaye akukho mntu uya kuba nethuba lokuphazamisa isimo sakho sengqondo. Unokukhetha ukhenketho ngokweengcamango zakho malunga nokuhle, awuyi kuba neentloni malunga nezinto ozikhethayo ukulala ngaselunxwemeni ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku kwaye ungabi nomdla kwizikhumbuzo zonqulo. Kukho nawuphi na, akukho mntu uya kukugweba. Ukongezelela, iholide yithuba lokuba neenombolo ezinomdla ezithandekayo ezithandekayo, kwaye aziyi kuba neentloni kwaye akufanele uqikelele ukuba kutheni uchitha ubusuku nomntu wokuqala odibana naye.

Uninzi lwazo zonke siyikwesaba ngenxa yedwa ebusuku. Yintoni eyenziwa ngabantwaba kusihlwa? Ukubukela iinkqubo ezithandekayo kwiTV kunye nokulala ngexesha apho abanye abantu abanenhlanhla beqala ukuzonwabisa. Kodwa kukho abantu abaninzi abangabodwa kwaye kude nabo bonke banjengobomi. Kuvela ukuba unokuzibamba ekhaya. Umzekelo, unokuqalisa ukulungiswa. Kule meko, umsebenzi weenyanga ezizayo uya kunikwa yona - de ube utyumkile okanye ude ufikelele imali. Ukuba ukulungiswa akufanelekanga njengokuzonwabisa, qhagamshela kwi-Intanethi. Inethiwekhi yomhlaba wonke ayiyi kunika ithuba lokuxhalabisa. Apha unganxibelelana, ufunde into entsha, ubukele iifilimu, ufunde iincwadi kunye namanqaku ancedo. Nangona unelonwabo lokuphila ngaphandle kwesibini, ungafunda ulwimi, ufumane umsebenzi omtsha okanye ufumane i-hobby entsha. Yaye unokupheka izitya ezintsha iintsuku zonke, ukuphucula ubugcisa bokupheka.

Ubomi obungapheliyo.
Ngesizathu esithile, kukholelwa ukuba uluntu luntombi lusekho umntu osisigxina ebomini bakhe. Mhlawumbi oku kunjalo. Kodwa ngaba izigidi zabasetyhini abangenandaba nabantu zivuyayo? Ngaba unokuthi ngomfazi onomyeni oza ekhaya emva kobusuku, ukuba akayedwa? Ngaba abantu bavusa ixesha lokuphumla, olu tshintsho, lithathwa ngumdlalo webhola kunye nekhompyuter ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye ehlabathini? Ngaba zonke iintsilelo zabo zixabisa iindawo ezinokuzixhamla ngeendlela zokutya kunye kunye nohambo olunqabileyo kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela?
Kuze ufike kwiibini - ushiywe kuwe. Wena kwaye nguwe kuphela olawula ubomi bakho, thatha indlu yokuhlambela ngeeyure ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuhlambalava. Unako ukukwazi ukuphuma ebhedeni yonke iveki, ujikeleze indlu nge-maski ebomvu ebusweni bakho, kwii-pajamas zakho ezindala kwaye ubukele iifilimu zakho ezizithandayo, kungekhona iintlanga ezingapheliyo zebhola. Ngelo xesha ebomini bakho akukho mntu, ukhululekile ukuya kuzo zonke iindibano ezithandekayo kuwe, kumema abahlobo bakho, udlala ngothando, ufumane iintyatyambo kwaye ungabi ukoyika ukuwazisa ekhaya. Ukuba ucinga ngako, ubomi obungenamntu buqhelile kwaye buhle ngakumbi kunokuba naye.

Sonke siba novelwano kunye nabantu abodwa, kwaye, mhlawumbi, nakanjani? Ngokukhawuleza ikusasa lomlusi omdala, i-bachelor eqinisekisileyo ayiyibi kakhulu, njengoko kubonakala ngathi? Kuthekani ukuba ngaba abantu bakhetha ngokukhethekileyo ubomi obunjalo kwaye bayavuya gqitha? Kukho nawuphi na, ngexesha lethu, ubumnandi abukwazi ukuphela. Ngamnye wethu unamathuba amaninzi okwenza abahlobo, udibane nomntu othandekayo. Kwenzeka ukuba ubomi businika iintetho. Kuya kuba budenge ukungayisebenzisi. Ukuba uwedwa ngoku, cinga, akunakuvuyisa? Jonga ngeenxa zonke, ngoko uya kuqonda ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi abanomdla abakuzondayo, kunye nokungabikho kwexeshana kwendoda kungumlungiselelo wencwadana entsha ye-dizzying, kungekhona isigwebo.