Ukuxilongwa.
Ubomi, njengokungathi ibhalwe kwiveli eyaziwayo "U-Oblomov" akayithandi nawuphi na umntu, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo de kube ngumntu ofanayo kwimeko efanayo. Ngokukhawuleza kukho izizathu zokungasebenzi kunye nokungafuni ukutshintsha nantoni na. Cinga ngentaba yeesitya kwiinkom okanye zikhohliwe iingxelo kwi-back back of the table! Sifumana into yonke ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ubuvila buhamba ngokukhawuleza nangokungaqondakali. Ngoko ke, kwinqanaba lokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvuma ngokunyanisekileyo-ewe, ndiyathala. Ngokukhawuleza xa siqaphela oku okanye ubuthathathaka, siyazi indawo esiyithathayo ebomini bethu, siyakwazi ukuzibukela esivela ngaphandle kwaye sibone umfanekiso wangempela weziganeko.
Unokuchitha usuku, ezimbini, inyanga okanye iminyaka ebhedeni, uqokelela ngaphandle kweentaba zothuli kuphela, kodwa neentaba zeengxaki. Indlela yokubetha ubuvila ukuba kuba ngumkhwa? Indlela kuphela yokunqoba ubuvila kukuvuma ukutshatyalaliswa kwesikhashana kwaye wenze isigqibo sokwenza. Kulula kakhulu ukuqonda ubuvila - sisiswini esinokuthula, sichaza indlela enhle ngayo ukulala ngethelevishini kunokuba wenze isidlo sakusihlwa, kwiingxoxo ezithakazelisayo "kwi-ICQ" ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sekuseni, kwiimidlalo zeekhompyutheni kunye neencwadi ezinomdla - kuyo yonke into ngaphandle msebenzi. Ukuba uzinikela kwisilingo, emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa umntu unokuziva ebuthathaka, angabi nahlulwa kwaye acasulwe ngenxa yesizathu esicacileyo. Nangona, isizathu siyabonakala - zonke ezi ngxaki zivela kubudenge obufanele zitshathwe.
Amanyathelo okuqala.
Wonke umntu oye wancinwa kwisilingo sokuba uvila xa kufuneka ukuba enze okuthile uyazi ukuba ubunzima abukho kwiimfuneko zokwenza into ethile, kodwa kwisinyathelo sokuqala esikuhlukanisa nobukho obubucayi bukho ubomi. Kulo nyathelo lokuqala abantu abona ukwesaba okukhulu, kuba kukho iimeko ezininzi ezininzi ngaphambili, eninzi zazo ziza kugqitywa ngesantya esiphezulu, kukhululekile.
Kufuneka uqale encinci, ukuba emva kwekhefu elide ukuhla ukuya kwishishini ngendlela efanayo nabo bonke abantu abazungezile, kukho ukuphazamiseka. Akukho mdlali oza kuqeqesha ngesantya esifanayo emva koxinzelelo okanye ukuphumla okude, kwaye akukho mhlaba omele uqale ukutshintsha ukusombulula iingxaki zehlabathi. Kukho indlela endala yomntu, indlela yokunciphisa ubuvila ngaphandle kokulimala ngokwakho - kufuneka uqale ngokucoca indlu kunye nomsebenzi. Abagogo bethu bathi - umonakalo endlwini - umonakalo entloko yam, kwaye yinyaniso. Kodwa kulungele ukulahla iiphakheji ezingenanto kunye neengxowa, uthabathe udoti, ulungise izinto kwiindawo, usule uthuli uze ulahle amabala adibeneyo phantsi kunye netafile, njengoko kuba lula ukuphefumula kwaye kulula ukuqala into entsha. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kunomdla kakhulu ukuhlala ngobunyulu ngaphezu koothuli kunye neentaba zezinto ezihlakazekile. Yaye ukuba ukucocwa kwimihla ngemihla kwenziwa umkhwa, akuyi kuthatha ixesha elide, kwaye awuyi kuphinda ufumane phakathi kwinqaba yerhafu.
Ixesha.
Esinye sezizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuba kutheni abantu baqale ishishini labo bengakwazi ukulawula ixesha labo. Inyaniso yokuba kubalulekile ukucwangcisa usuku lwakho, ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kucwangciswe izicwangciso kunye nezi shedyuli eziza kukunceda ukuba ungayikhohlwa into eyimfuneko kwaye ungaphumelelanga, kutsho kakhulu. Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile siyayichitha le nto ngokuqhelekileyo.
Konke into esiyenzayo, kukho ixesha-kunye nokulala, nokutya, kunye nomsebenzi kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ukuba ezinye izinto ziqala ukutshintsha indawo, ukuba siqala ukunikela ubuthongo emsebenzini okanye ukusebenza ngenxa yokuphumla, ngokuqinisekileyo siya kudlula kwi-existence. Hayizo zonke izinto esizibophezelekileyo ukuba senze yonke imihla, sithanda into efanayo. Ukuba uyinyani ikati ekhuphayo kakhulu, yicoce indlu yangasese emva kwayo - hayi. Kodwa sonke siyazi ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa siyeka ukwenza le nto ingathandekiyo kodwa imfuneko. Kubalulekile ukusabalalisa imisebenzi yakho ukwenzela ukuba ezinye iinkqubo ezinzima okanye ezimbi zichazwe kunye nezilula, ngoko akukho nto ingayi kuba noxinzelelo.
Mi sebenzi.
Zonke ezi ngasentla zinceda ukukhawuleza ukuthintela impembelelo ebunobomi ebomini bakho, kodwa oku akuqinisekisi ukuba ngelinye ilanga uya kukwazi ukumelana nesilingo sokugxotha ibhizinisi ebalulekileyo, ukuya kwintlanganiso, uhlambulule ekhaya. Indlela yokubetha ubuvila xa kubonakala kungenakwenzeka? Imfihlelo kukuphuhlisa imikhwa efanelekileyo. Ngulo lawulo losuku, olungalahlekanga nakwiimpelaveki, lulawulo lokusebenza kwayo yonke imisebenzi yayo nokulawula ixesha elichithwe kule miba okanye eminye imiba. Umntu ojwayele ukuya eshahleni kunye nokutya kwasekuseni emva kokuvusa, akayi kukulibala ngokuhlwa, ukuxoxa nabahlobo kwifowuni okanye kwi-ICQ. Umntu oye wayesebenzisa ukushiya umsebenzi ngaphandle kokushiya imiba ebalulekileyo ngomso ayiyi kuba ngumzuzwana othile kwaye ubuncinci bexesha kunye nemiba emibini efunekayo isombululwe ngokukhawuleza. Umntu osetyenziselwa ukuhlala kwindlu ecocekileyo kwaye ekhangeleke kakuhle, nangona engacwangcanga ukuphuma, akazukuzifumana ejikelezwe yimfucuza kunye neenwele eziphazamisayo.
Kuyaziwa ukuba imikhombiso yenziwa okwesikhashana. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha kwiiveki eziliqela ukuya kwiinyanga eziliqela. Kodwa ukuba wenza okuthile rhoqo, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba ngumkhwa. Ngaloo nto, akukuhle ukuziqhelanisa nezinto ezinobulumko, kunokuba wenze iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokungazenzi?
Ukuba sithetha ngendlela yokunqoba ubuvila kanye kanye, asikwazi ukushiya ukukhankanya isidingo sokuzonwabisa. Umntu akakwazi ukusebenza kuphela, ngaphandle koko ubomi buya kuba buhlungu kwaye bubuhlungu, obuya kubangela ukunganakwa nokudandatheka. Ukuphumla kuyimfuneko kuthi, sidinga ukuzonwabisa kunye nezipholozo, kubalulekile ukuba sifunde ukuwela umgca phakathi kweeholide ezifanelekileyo kunye nobukhohlakele. Umntu uphila ngokwenene, xa esebenza, ubuqili buchaphazela umgangatho wobomi ngokubanzi, ukuphazamisa impilo, ubudlelwane kunye nabathandekayo nokunciphisa ithemba lokuphumelela ubuncinci. Isinyathelo esinye sinokuba yindawo yokuqala ukusuka kwiintsuku ezincinci ukuya kwinqanaba leemeko eziqaqambileyo. Yenza oko - ukhetho luhlala kuthi ngamnye wethu.