5 yemikhwa yakho eya kutshabalalisa uthando lwakhe

Hlola kwaye ungalokothi wenze njalo!

Ukhetho

Uhlala uhamba ngokukhawuleza, ungazikhumbuli malunga nezicwangciso kunye neziganeko, ulungelelanisa iintlanganiso, ubalekele ukuxwayisa malunga nokunyanzela umthwalo kwaye ungene enkingeni? Ekuqaleni oku kungabonakala ngathi kuyimpawu ebumnandi bomlingiswa, kodwa qiniseka - imvakalelo iya kuba yintshukumo ngokukhawuleza.

Ukunyaniseka

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale kwakhona ukuthululela umphefumlo wakho othandekayo malunga nesisindo sakho esithe xaxa / iintombi zeentombi / umsebenzi ongenamsebenzi - jonga iimeko ukusuka kwicala. Ukuba izikhalazo malunga nobomi zenza ngaphezulu kwesigamu sezilwanyana zakho, ziyeke kude kube sekwephuzile. Okokuqala uyayeka ukuphulaphula, uze uphulaphule kwaye uyayixabisa.

Ukuzithoba

"Andiyi kukholwa ukuba sinobunye," "oko akufumene kum," "upholile, kwaye mna ..." - ezi ngcamango kufuneka ziqhutywe kude kuwe kunokwenzeka. Kwaye nangakumbi, musa ukukusho ngokuzwakalayo. Ukukhangela ukusuka ngaphantsi ukuya phezulu kumlingani yindawo yokulahlekelwa ngokucacileyo. Iingcamango zilula: ukuba ukhethiweyo wakho ulungile, ufanele udibaniso olulinganayo. Ngaba ngokukhawuleza uza kuwuqonda, ukuba awufumani ithemba kuwe?

Ukunyanzelisa

Sithetha ngomxholo othi "ukunyanzela ukuthula", abantu bonke abakuzondayo, ngaphandle kokunye. Ubuso obugwenxa, ubuso obunzima, iinyembezi ezinokuthula, ubukeka bubuhlungu - iinqwelo ezinzima, ezingafanele zisetyenziswe kwiintlobo. Futhi ungalindelanga ukuba "uya kuqonda." Musa ukuyiqonda! Yaye uya kuba nomsindo xa usithukuthele. Chaza ngokucacileyo izizathu zokunganeliseki kunye nezindlela zokulungisa ingxabano - ukuvuleka okunjalo nayiphi na umntu eya kudibana nayo.

Ultimatum

Hayi, kwaye kwakhona akukho! Ukusongela ulwalamano lwentsebenziswano, lungele uqinisekise ukuzimisela kwakho ngesenzo - ngaphandle koko, uya kuzibeka ngaphandle kwimeko engenakucala kwaye ulahlekelwe intlonelo kulowo ukhethiweyo.