Musa ukukhala xa ufuna ngokwenene-ukusetyenziswa
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba ziphefumle ngokuphefumula ngexesha lokuvuswa komzwelo. Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba xa ufuna ukukhala ngenxa yokuhlambalaza, ukuphefumla kwakho kuyadideka kwaye kukhawuleze, kwaye ngexesha lokuxinezeleka okukhulu okanye ukwesaba awuyi kuba nomoya okwaneleyo okwesikhashana. Ukuzinqabisa - kufuneka uhlalise ukuphefumula. Ngaba uvakalelwa kukuba uya kuzila? Phakamisa i-chin yakho kwaye uthathe ukuphefumula okumbalwa ngeempumlo zakho, uphumelele emlonyeni wakho. Ngale ndlela ungayilahla loo nto ebizwa ngokuba ngumsila emqaleni. Zama ukubala ukunyakaza kwakho, cinga indlela umoya ozalisa ngayo imiphunga yakho. Isibilini esingathandekiyo emqaleni wakho siya kunceda ukususa iincinci zamanzi okanye itiye epholile. Ukuba akukho zixhobo ezikufuphi kufuphi: gwinya ngamanye amaxesha. Futhi ungalibali ngokuphefumula.
Ukuba iinyembezi sele zigubungele amehlo akho, zibole. Akukufanelekanga ukuba usule amehlo akho ngokukhawuleza, yintoni enye into enokuyonakalisa ngayo ukwakheka kwakho! Khangela phantsi, uphakamise amehlo akho phezulu, jonga ngakwesokunene nangasekhohlo. Phinda usebenze ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kude kube neinyembezi. Ezinye izazi zengqondo zikwacebisa ukuba ugubungele amehlo akho ngemizuzwana embalwa.
Ungakwazi ukuphazamisa iingcamango ezingathandekiyo ngokwenza izinto ezithile zomzimba. Unokwenza, umzekelo, ukuluma umlomo wakho okanye uqhawule intonga yakho. Kodwa, khumbula ukuba akufanele uzive ubuhlungu, ukukhathazeka nje kuphela, ukukwazi ukuguqula ingqalelo yakho. Ukuba kukho umntu onokumthembayo, okanye umntu owaziyo imeko yakho yengqondo - isundu sakho sinokuba inkxaso yakhe.
Ukugqithiswa, ngendlela, kunceda ukunqabisa! Ngaphandle koko, awukwazi ukukhala nokugxeka ngexesha elinye! Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kusebenza kakhulu kwaye kuya kuhamba kwinkqubo yakho yeentlungu!
Indlela yokuphendula ngokuchanekileyo ukuhlambalaza, funda apha .
Musa ukukhala ngethuba elingaphandle kwexesha - iingqondo zengqondo
Ukuze ungalili ngexesha elingafanelekanga, cinga ngento ethile eya kuthatha ingqalelo yakho yonke. Kutheni ngokusombulula ingxaki yeemathematika entloko okanye ukuphindaphinda itafile yokuphindaphinda? Awuyi kugxininisa kuphela kuyo, ngokunjalo wenze umsebenzi wengqondo okhohlo, ojongene nokusebenza kwekhompyutha. Imizwa - ilawula ilungelo; ukuvuselela umsebenzi weesibini zeengqondo, unokukhusela ngokukhawuleza ukuhamba kwemvakalelo. Ukuba izibalo azikho ihashe lakho, khumbula amagama eculo lakho ozithandayo okanye usebenzise amanzi. Umculo kufuneka ujabule, kwaye amazwi engoma ayenayo.
Indlela yesibini yengqondo iyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa isebenze ngakumbi. Kufuneka ukhumbule into emnandi. Ewe, ukugxininisa into entle, xa iinyembezi zifika emehlweni akho - akuyona into elula. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ngolu hlobo ukuba zize kwaye zikhumbule uluhlu lweehlaya ezivela kwiifilimu okanye kwiimeko ezihlekisayo ebomini bakho oza kuzikhumbuza ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwamava. Zama ukumomotheka!
Zikhuthaze ukuba ungalili! Ngokomzekelo, "ukuba ndihlawula, umphathi uya kucinga ukuba ndibuthathaka" okanye "abantu abangaqhelekanga baya kubona ukuba andazi indlela yokuziphatha ezandleni zam." Zixelele ukuba unamandla kwaye ngoku kubalulekile ukubonisa!
Musa ukucinga malunga nantoni na. Kuthiwani nge-movie owawufuna ukuyibona ixesha elide? Kwaye mhlawumbi kukho incwadi engafundiwe kwi-shelf - ixesha lokufumana! Ukuba ukhetha ukuphila okusebenzayo-hamba ukuhamba okanye ukuya kwinqanaba! Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kunemiphumo ebalulekileyo kuwo wonke umzimba. Into ephambili akuyikuzithuthuzela iingcamango malunga nento eyenza ukhale. Zixelele: imeko ilolo hlobo kwaye kufuneka ndidibanise nayo. Ungazigxeka nto nantoni na. Ukumemeza emsebenzini - akuthethi ukuba ubeka ityala ngento ethile, mhlawumbi umphathi unemeko embi! Indoda yaba nomsindo, ngenxa yokuba yayinqunywe ngenye indlela yesikhombi sendlela.
Ngoku uyazi ukuba ungalili, ukuba ufuna. Yomelela!