Kuthekani ukuba unesizungu?

Umntu ngamnye uhlukile kwiimeko zakhe zokujonga uluntu. Abanye baziziva bekhululekile kwaye behlala beyazi ukuba benzani. Abanye baxinzelelwe ukungabikho kokuzonwabisa, abahlobo abasondeleyo, abantu onokukwazi ukuxoxa nabo. Uncedo lokuqala alufunanga, kodwa okwesibini siza kunika iingcamango ezimbalwa. Siyathemba ukuba baya kunceda ukunqoba ubunqunu kwaye basebenzise ngokufanelekileyo usuku lwakho.

Ukwaneliseka komntu onelungelo akufanele kube ngumthwalo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kukho amaxesha apho ungafuni ukwenza nantoni kwiluhlu lwakho oluqhelekileyo. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo, ukunyamezela kunqoba, okuba nzima kakhulu. Ukuze ugweme le meko, phulaphulaphula icebiso lethu, mhlawumbi phakathi kwabo uya kufumana olufanelekileyo kakhulu ukuzizonwabisa.

Sinokuwunqoba njani ulwalamano?

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokungabi nhlobo kwabangane, zama ukuhlalutya indlela oziphatha ngayo. Mhlawumbi kufuneka uvule ngakumbi, ujabule, ube nethemba kwaye abantu baya kufikelela kuwe. Kodwa le ngcebiso ehlabathini jikelele, efuna ixesha kunye nokulungiselela. Ukuba uwedwa ngoku, zama oku:

1. Yenza nantoni na oyifunayo kwaye ungakhathazeki ngokuba yedwa. Yiya kwi-cinema, i-skating rink, i-theater, cafe. Ngubani owathi ezi ndawo ziquka ukutyelela? Hayi, unokudlala apho.
2. Zama ukufunda into entsha. Ungaqala ukufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle, inkqubo, ukufunda incwadi, uzama ukufunda into ehluke kakhulu kwiminqweno yakho yemihla ngemihla.
3. Fumana inja okanye nayiphi na isilwanyana. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuhlala unento yokwenza, kuba ungadlala nabo, uthathe uhambo uze uthethe.
4. Sebenzisa i-Intanethi ukwenza abantu abaqhelana nabo kunye nokuthetha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kufuneka kuphathwe ngokulumkisa, kodwa akukho mntu uya kukugweba ngenxa yokunxibelelana nakwiyiphi iforum yezobugcisa. Kulapho unako ukufumana amaqela athile kunye nezinto ezifanayo.
5. Yiya kwimidlalo. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba ngeke kuthathe ixesha lakho kuphela, kodwa kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu kwimpilo yakho. Ukongezelela, uqeqesho luphucula imvakalelo.

Yintoni engcono ukuyihlahlela?

Umntu oziva enesizungu, ingakumbi ukuba akayithandi eli lizwe, unako ukwenza ezininzi iimpazamo eziyintsipho ngenxa yokuzonwabisa. Ngokukhawuleza ndifuna uku lumkisa malunga nalokhu, kuba inyaniso yokuba uwedwa namhlanje akuthethi ukuba konke kuya kuba njalo kusasa. Ngoko ke, qaphela ngoku:

• Ukuthandana kwintanethi ekhula kwiintlanganiso zangempela
• Uxanduva lwezilwanyana oceba ukuzenza.
• Ukuhamba, ngokukhetha ngokukhethekileyo indawo

Kwaye ekugqibeleni, kufuneka ube yedwa kunye nawe ucinge ukuba kutheni unesizungu? Le yodwa indlela onokuziqonda ngayo kwaye uzikhusele kwilo xesha kwixesha elizayo.