Ukuhamba ngesitimela nomntwana: oko kufuneka uyenze ingqalelo

Naluphi na uhambo kunye nawuphi na uhambo kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi xa uceba yonke into ngaphambili, uququzelele kwaye uqwalasele zonke iimeko ezinokuthi zenzeke kuwe. Ukuba uhamba uhambo kunye nosana, ngoko kufuneka ubhale izintlu ezimbini: enye yomntwana, kwaye yesibini-eqhelekileyo. Ngoko unokukhawuleza uqikelele ukuba zingaphi izinto oza kuyidinga, kwaye ziphi, ngaphandle koko, kuya kuba lula ngakumbi kwaye kulula ukuba uqonde oko sele usithenge, kwaye yintoni enye oyifunayo ukuba uyinyamekele. Ngoko, kufuneka ukhangele ntoni xa uhamba nomntwana? Khumbula ukuba umntwana akayi kuhlala ethule kwaye ekhangele ngefestile, kuya kufuna into enokuyithokozisa.


Njengamaxesha eSoviet, ngoku uhambo lokuhamba ngomzila luhlala lufikeleleke kunokuba luninzi nezinye iindlela zokuthutha. Nangona kunjalo, kungafanelekile ukukhankanya kwindawo yokuqala yokuba ixesha lethu lokuhamba ngesitimela kunye nosana alukho nkathazo njengokuba kwakungaphambili. Ngoku kukho konke okusemqoka kwiimoto: ii-closets ezomileyo, ii-sofas ezithambileyo kunye ne-air conditioners.

Ngendlela, zonke ezi zinto zingenakufumaneka kuphela kwimoto kunye nokukhawulwa, kodwa nakwihlalo eliqhelekileyo elibikelweyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukwenzela ukuba ungaqhubeki, kufuneka ufumane ngokucophelela kwaye ngokufanelekileyo ngokuzikhethela umzila wesitimela kunye nemoto, emva koko, akubona zonke izitimela zixhotywe ngendlela engcono.

Kwaye le nkqubo ayikho nzima. Ngoku, kunye neenqwelo zeenqwelo-moya, izitimela zaseRashiya zisinika inkonzo yokuthengisa amathikithi kwi-intanethi.

Ukuba unquma ukuhamba nomntwana, qwalasela izinto ezininzi: ukutya, utshintshe iimpahla kunye nokuzonwabisa.

Ukuba unetikethi kwisitimela esihle samanje, exhotyiswe ngumoya womoya, ngoko akudingeki ukhathazeke ngenxa yeempawu zeIzhar. Nangona kunjalo, umqhubi unako ukuwudlula ngemoya yomoya, ngoko kunjalo, thabatha iimpahla ezifudumeleyo.

Ewe, ukuba uthatha itekisi elincinci: umyili, umbala wombala, iipuzzle, induduzo zekhompyutha kunye, nokuba kunjalo, iincwadi.

Khumbula kwakhona ngemidlalo yetafile umqhubi uya kuba nako ukubonelela ngokungafaniyo (backgammon, checkers, chess), kunye nemidlalo efana ne "Words", "Iidolophu", "Uya kubhola" kunye nabanye.

Ngokuphathelele ukutya, kufuneka uqikelele into yokuba ukutya "omdala", njengokususa umsila, amazambane ahlambulukileyo, ii-noodle kunye neenkukhu ezigayiweyo kwisitimela kubantwana akukho konke okufunayo. Ngaphambi koko, kuthengwa ukutya komntwana kwiimitshini: i-pâtés ehlukahlukeneyo, imifuno kunye ne-pure puree, inyama kunye, nokuba kunjalo, i-muffins e-soluble. Akunabantwana kuphela abaya kuvuyela oku, kodwa abantwana baya kukhula. Khumbula ngemifuno kunye neziqhamo - kungcono ukuba uthathe sele uhlambulukile kwaye ulungele ukutya.

Njalo ukhumbule ucoceko. Uya kuncedwa ngamaphepha amacwecwe, ibhokhwe, eqhelekileyo kunye nokucoca.

Yintoni enokuyithatha uhambo lomzila kunye nosana olutsha

Ewe, iimeko ezinjalo aziqabile, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukwenza uhambo ngomzila kunye nosana oluzalwayo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uthenge okanye uthathe kubahlobo bakho i-kangaroo okanye i-sling ekhethekileyo kwindawo yokulala, ngoko kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba uthumele umntwana.

Thatha isikhwama ehlombe lakho okanye esikhwameni uze uyixoxe:

Musa ukulibala iifutha ezimanzi nangayiphi na imeko, ziya kukunceda ukulungisa imeko ukuba ngokukhawuleza kukho "ukumangaliswa" kwengane. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka rhoqo endleleni, ngoko kufuneka ulungele nantoni na.

Ukuba uhambo lwakho aluyi kuhlala ixesha elide - kuphela kwiiyure ezintathu ukuya kwezine, ke uluhlu olukhankanywe ngasentla luya kukwanela. Kakade, ukuba kufuneka uthabathe izinto zezingane, i-shampoo, ukhilimu kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko akudingeki ukuba uthethe. Emva koko, ngoku sithetha malunga noko kuyimfuneko ukuba ube neloliwe, kwaye kungekhona malunga neento ezifunwa ngumntwana ekufikeni kwindawo ekuyo kuyo. Ukuba uhambo luye, ngokuchaseneyo, ixesha elide, ngokokuhamba kwinqwelo ehambayo, qhafaza iipenties eziningana okanye i-sliders, iikhati kunye ne-spare cap for baby yakho. Mhlawumbi umntwana uya kufuna ukutshintsha.

Yintoni endiyifanele ndiyithathe uhambo lokuhamba ngesitimela kunye nomntwana okhulayo

Apha, uluhlu lwezinto eziyimfuneko aluguqukanga, kufuneka nje uthathe amathoyizi kunye neencwadi, ngakumbi ukuba iikopi ezintsha ezingabonanga ngaphambili. Khumbula ukuba umntwana uya kufuneka ukuba amkele, kwaye kule nto uza kufumana ukuthenga kwemali. Maxa wambi umntwana usenokuqala ukuphazamisa ukuzonwabisa komculo, oko kuya kufuneka ukuba utshintshwe ngenye into.

Ukuba sithetha ngamathoyizi, abantwana abancinci baya kuhanjiswa kwibhodi yendlela yokudweba ngentonga okanye ukudlala kwiibhodi ezizodwa, kwiimakethi (i-mosaic, i dominoes, iileta, i-lotto). Ukuba umntwana usekhulile, ungathenga iidiski ngeengoma zakho ozithandayo, iidrafle, iindaba zeenkcazo okanye izinto zokubala. Inomdla kwintsana ingaba kunye neiglavu eziqhelekileyo, ezikupheleni kweminwe ziza kubhekisa ubuso obuhlukahlukeneyo. Ayikukunceda ukuba ufike kumdlalo omncinci uze uwubonise umntwana wakho. Mhlawumbi, unokuza kunye nenqaku elitsha lefayile, apho wonke umntu uya kuza nesigwebo esisodwa (ukuba uhamba kunye nentsapho yonke).

Ngoku uyazi ukuba kuthatha ukuthatha uhambo lomzila kunye nosana, kufuneka ufike kwimidlalo ethile ethule ukuze ujonge inkomo.