Kulo rhulumente, ubomi buyinkimbinkimbi ngokwayo, kuba umlinganiselo omkhulu wamandla okomoya uphuma kwi "mnyama omnyama" wexesha. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba umbono wakho ukhankanywe phi, kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye elizayo, awukho "apha naphahla". Kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwezi zimbini: umntu onobugwenxa bexesha elidlulileyo uyazama ukuphinda abhale kwakhona "ngokukhawuleza", unokufumaneka rhoqo emva kwengxoxo ngokuvakalayo - ulahlekelwa ngqondweni wakhe kwixesha elidlulileyo, ecinga ukuba angenza njani. Le yinto ebizwa ngokuba "ubomi kwimeko enemeko": "ukuba ..., ke ...". Ngokungafani nalabo abahlala kwixesha elizayo, "umntu owake waphila" kulula ukuphuma kweli lizwe kwaye aqale ukuhlala "namhlanje": ukukhanya kwexesha elidlulileyo kubonakala kwabanye, kwaye abantu bavame ukuzibamba kwizinto ezibukeka emva. Umkhwa wokuphila ngomso ngosuku awubonakali kangangoko. Xa 'rhoqo' isidlo sakusasa kunye nabanye, ngoko uhlala phantse - "phantse" ekupheleni "namhlanje" nangomso "ozayo", oza kuza. Kodwa oku akukwenzeka! "Akukho nto isisigxina ngaphandle kwesigxina," ithi iNcwadi yezinguqulelo, i-Ching. Abanye baphila ngexesha elidlulileyo, ezinye ngexesha elizayo, kwaye zimbalwa ezimbalwa ngokwangoku - umxholo wendaba.
Ekuseni kuqikelele kunobusuku ...
Indoda isetyenziselwa ukuba iphile izithembiso zemihla yokuba, emva kokufumana ulonwabo olufunayo, uceba isizathu esitsha sokumisela ubomi "kamva". Le "yimiqathango enemiqathango": "Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiya kufunda isiNgesi xa ..." Kwiminyaka, elinde ukuba indlu igqitywe, umntu uphupha malunga nendlela ubomi buya kutshintsha ngayo. Nanku kufika umzuzu osalindelwe ixesha elide, lixesha lokungena endlwini. Kwaye kusekho "kodwa", eyayihlehlisayo indlu. Kwakhona, iminyaka iyadlula ngaphambi kokuba umntu aqhubele ubomi obutsha endlwini.
Landela iphupha
Nangona kunjalo, bekungekho sikweni ukugxeka abantu abaphupha ikusasa. Esikhundleni somntu, ubomi bokuhlehlisela "ixesha elizayo", ubuncinane ubuncinane "bunye": aba bantu banesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kwaye oku kungamandla abo. Into eyona nto kukukuqonda oku kwaye ukuguqula ubuthathaka bakho. Ewe, xa umntu ephupha, makube njalo! Kodwa oku akusiyo isizathu sokungahambi ngexesha langoku. Ukuze umsebenzi wehlabathi uphendululwe, kuyimfuneko ukusekela iinjongo ezincinci kwaye uzifezekise njengoko zifika. Ukukhupha ukunganeliseki kwangaphakathi kunye nomkhwa wokuphila ngomso, sincoma ukuba uthathe amanyathelo amane alandelayo ukuze uzalisekise injongo yakho.
Iphupha kunye nengqondo!
Qaphela ukuba amaphupha ekusasa awabi kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo kungcono ukuphupha nokucwangcisa kunokuba, umzekelo, ukufumana umvuzo, ukuwuchitha ngosuku lokuqala lwezinto ezinonophelo zexesha langoku, ngenxa yokuba ufuna kanjalo. Unenzuzo malunga nesimo esinjalo - funda ukucola iphupha lakho.
Jabulela ubomi!
Ukuze ufunde indlela yokuzonwabisa ngayo ngoku, qalisa ngeengqondo zomzimba. Ngaba ubuyile ekhaya emva komsebenzi? Ndivakalelwa ukuba imnandi imilenze ukuba ingaba nezicathulo kwi-carpet epholileyo okanye epholile. Musa ukucinga malunga nantoni na - yiva nje isikhumba ngokuvuya kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ebekwe phantsi kwezibane ze-solarium? Yiva ukufudumala okuphazamisa yonke iseli, ungacingi ngobuhle bexesha elizayo, kugxininisa kwizinto ezibonakalayo. Kudla i-ayisikrimu? Yilondoloze iqela ngalinye ... kwaye uzame ukuzinzela ngokwakho ngexesha lemihla ezininzi ezinjengezilwanyana ezilula, ezinonwabo.
Zinike ukufakela!
Xa uqonda ubugcisa bokuziphumla ngexesha lokuzonwabisa, iya kwisigaba esilandelayo-ukusuka kwiphysology elula ukuya kwisimo sengqondo sengqondo. Zama ukubhala ixesha xa ukunganeliseki kwangaphakathi kunye nomzuzu wangoku kwandisa kuwe kwaye umnqweno uvela kwakhona ukubonisa "i-akhawunti enemeko" yobomi: "Ukuba le meko izalisekile, ndiya kuvuya." Zibakele ezi ngcamango uze uzibuze umbuzo othi: "Ndiyintoni na into enhle kule meko?" Imozulu ebanda kakhulu ifike - kuhle, kuba ayitshisi; imoto yaphuka kwaye ubude ufikelele kwintlanganiso - kodwa ufumane inkokhelo yovuyo ekuhambeni ngezinyawo ... Akulula. Ekuqaleni, "umgxeka" wangaphakathi uya kuzama ukukhupha ukunganeliseki kwakho. Musa ukuyiqonda!
Mamela wena!
Ukusebenza nawe ngokwakho yinkampani ebalulekileyo, kodwa emva kweveki yonyango olumkelekileyo uya kuqaphela ukuba ukhululekile ebomini. Kuthiwani ngeenjongo zehlabathi? Uya kumangaliswa ukufumanisa ukuba uqale ukuchitha amandla angakumbi okomoya ukuze ufezekise, kwaye yonke into oyifunayo yayiza kukhula ngokwayo. Iphupha liya kuzaliseka xa ungalindelanga! Into ephambili ayikuyeki ukuqhubela phambili kwaye ungahlali phantsi.