Kutheni enye ibhinqa ibona ubulili ngokupheleleyo yonke into, kwaye enye, ihlakaniphile kwaye inhle, - hayi? Kutheni kubanele ukuba abanye baxhomeke iqhosha eliphezulu kwiingubo, baqala njani ukukhanga i-ofisi yesiqingatha-ofisi, kwaye enye kunye neyona mini inqabileyo ayinikezeli? Akukhona malunga nokubonakala, kodwa nokuba uyazi ukuyisebenzisa.
Umzekelo, ngaba uyamomotheka ? Kuye kwaqaphela ixesha elide ukuba ukumamatheka okukhulu kuyo yonke imilomo yayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuqobo, kodwa nantso iincinci ezincamisayo kunye neenyawo zomlomo okhangeleka kakhulu.
Umncumo omncinci kakhulu ongcolisayo uyakuthi xa umlomo uphazela, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kubonakala lifakwe kwi-tube yokubanga. Ukuba ngexesha lokumomotheka uphakamisa i-chin yakho ngaphezulu - umphumo uya kulandela ngokukhawuleza.
Uze upende ? Ngaba kukhanya? Ukubiza? Ungabi nzo ndelelo: into yokuba umbala wemikhosi yabasetyhini uyingqongqelo kukukhohlisa. Kungcono ukufuna iingcebiso kubafundisikazi basempuma yothando - ngubani owaziyo ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba yintoni eyenziwe. Icandelo lasempuma lamaso lifana namadoda, ngeendlela ezininzi kuba lifana nekati. Amadoda awawuthandi umlomo oqaqambileyo: xa ukhangele emlonyeni wakho ummangali wakho kufuneka afune ukumanga ... Ngendlela, ngokwelo cwaningo, amadoda awayeke ukumanga umfazi okhanukileyo ngenxa yokuba beyesaba ukungcoliswa ngumlomo, malunga nama-88% amacala.
Ukhangele njani na ? Ekuqaleni, uluvo lwakho luya kuvuleka ukubonisa umdla wakho ocacileyo kwisifundo seminqweno yakho, kwaye ngoko kufuneka ukuba, njengokungathi ukhumbula, uphonsa amehlo akho. Ngendlela, kwiimeko ezininzi, thina, besifazane, ngokuzenzekelayo senza oko kanye, oku kulawulwa yi-subconscious yethu - senza yonke into intuitively kuze kube yilapho sithatha ulawulo.
Ingaba iingubo zakho zinjani ? Ukuba iphosakele kakhulu, ngoko kubi. Ubuhle bobuhlanga abuzange bukhange okwenene. Nangona inkinobho engafumanekanga ngengozi kwi-blouse iya kubangela umzila onamandla ngakumbi wesini ngesantya kunamahlombe angenanto, imilenze nezandla. Khumbulani, yintoni isibheno sezesondo esithathayo? Kodwa bephethe iingubo kwiimpahla ezivela entloko ukuya enzwaneni.
Yaye uhamba njani na? Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi inzuzo yokuziphatha ngokwesini kumntu, khumbula isiganeko esivela kwi-movie "KwiJazz Girls Only", xa iqhawe likaMarilyn Monroe likhawuleza ukuya emotweni. I-gait elula kunye ne-rocking encane yezintambo (i-little knigle, kwaye ingabi yinto egubungelayo) yiyona nto ifanelekileyo yomfanekiso wesintu we-female gait. Kungenxa yale njongo ukuba iimodeli zifundiswa ukuhamba ngendlela echanekileyo - i-jiggings efunyenwe yenziwa kuphela ngale ndlela. Okufanayo kuya kwithuba - umntu onobunxiba uba ngamasentimitha ayishumi ngaphantsi - phi na ukulala ngokwesini? Phakamisa isikhumba sakho, jonga phambili phambili, uqonde amahlombe akho uze uqhubele phambili esifubeni sakho, uze ukhuphe kwisisu sakho, uze uthathe i-esile - leyo inqwelo yokumkani kunye nomntu.
Uthi njani ? Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ilizwi libhekwa njengento ebaluleke kakhulu emfanekisweni wowesifazane, kubandakanya ubulili bakhe. Iingcali zeengqondo zaseMerika zifumene, umzekelo, ukuba ininzi yesondo yinto esezantsi - kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba wonke umntu ngaphandle kokungabikho mfuneko kufuneka abambe iqhosha elibandayo - ugweme amanqaku aphezulu, uthethe kakuhle, uhlale ukhululekile kwaye udibanise.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, uyaphunga kakuhle ? Akuthethi i-perfume okanye idayodorant - njengokuba uyaphunga, ziyimpumelelo yakho kwintsibano yesondo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kufuneka ukhumbule: ukuvumba kwamanqwanqwa kuphela kuya kuvuselela umnqweno womntu, xa engabonakali kwaye ehlanganisane kunye nevumba lakho lomntu. Ibhinqa elithwala imimoya, njengokuba ivenkile yokuthunga i-parfumery, ayikho kuphela isondo, kodwa iyancipha abanye.
Uyabona? Ukuba ngumshushu kulula. Kubalulekile kuphela ukufuna.