Awuyi kukholwa, kodwa izazi zengqondo zithi: ubuqili bubunjani bomntu onobuchule nolungileyo. Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zabantu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukuhlala ngokufanelekileyo kukusebenza kanzima, ngelixa abanye bekunzima ukulwa nokukhohlisa umsebenzi. Ngaphezu koko, bakuthola kunzima ukwenza konke abangafuni ukukwenza. Iyokuqala inexesha elingaphezulu kweyesibini, kodwa umgangatho wobomi bawo uphantsi. Ngenxa yokuba iirekhodi zabasebenzi zihlawula ngoxolo lwengqondo, impilo, ubudlelwane kunye nezihlobo. Ngoko ndandifuna ukuthetha amagama ambalwa malunga nobuqili obuncedo. Emva kwakho konke, maxa wambi kuyimfuneko ukuzonwabisa-pofilonov ngexesha ...
Usuku lo buvila.
Kakade ke, akusikho ubuqili bonke obufanelekileyo. Xa uva ukuba akubi ukuba uvila, akukho nto ithetha ukuba kufuneka uguquke ngokukhawuleza ube yi-pajamas kwaye ubukele "Hlalani uphila" yonke imini, udla iichips ngokukhathazeka ngenxa yeziqhawe (loo ngqumbo ingaba luncedo ngaphezu kweyodwa ngonyaka ). Ubuvila obuhle nguyena osindisayo ekuxinezelekeni okungaqinisekiyo: ufanele ulandele imiyalelo yomntu kunye nenyathelo emqaleni wakho kwiimfuno zakho kwiveki yonke esebenzayo. Ukuze ungazikhupheli, kufuneka ukwazi ukuphumla - njengoko uthanda.
Abantu banikela ngemali eninzi ukuba bafikelele "kwiindawo ezide kakhulu", kwaye, eneneni, abayihlawula ithikithi lomoya. Inyaniso kukuba amabhantshi aphesheya kwintlambo ahlanganiswa kunye nethuba lokungenzi nto - musa ukupheka ngokwakho kunye nesidlo sakho esiyintandokazi, kwaye udle kwindawo yokutyela, utshintshe i-suit suit ye-office ye-sundress, enqabileyo kwimigodi, ukulibala malunga nezigulane ezingamashumi amabini anesithandathu kwigumbi. Kodwa ngubani onqanda ukwenza into enjengale ekhaya? Thatha umgaqo wokuzicwangcisa rhoqo "ukukhulula iintsuku" kwaye wenze okokufunayo kuphela. Ngaloo ndlela, awuyi kukwazi ukuphumla kancinci kwaye ukhulule uxinzelelo - uya kwongeza iibini zeengqekembe kwisibilini sobumnandi lwakho lonwabo. Emva kwakho konke, umgodi ubumnandi ukuba yintombazana embi, eyasinda kuyo yonke imicimbi yakhe emininzi nemisebenzi.
Ukukhawuleza kunye Nomsindo.
Ebudlelwaneni, kuhlala kunjalo ngathi: kubonakala ngathi kuya kuba kuhle emva koko - xa imali ye-Maldives iza kuvela; xa ekugqibeleni ufumana ukukhuphuka kwe-fucking aze abuye abe ngumntu oqhelekileyo; xa unina uya kumela ukukubona njengesidalwa esinobungozi ... Kulindeleke ukuba "ke" ungaphila iminyaka, ungayiqapheli yonke into enhle ekhoyo ngoku.
Ngothando, sisoloko sifeza iziganeko zomsebenzi - setha injongo kwaye uye kuyo. Kodwa kukho umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwenkonzo kunye nobudlelwane kulo mbini. Ukuba yintloko yenkampani inomdla ngakumbi kunomqhubi womkopishi, zombini ngokwemisebenzi, kwaye ngokwemali yomvuzo. Kodwa ngothando akukho zithuba. Kukho kuphela izigaba - ukutshatyalaliswa, ubomi obudibeneyo, intsapho-kwaye zilingana. Oko kukuthi, unokuvuya kakhulu, ekubeni "nje intombi yakhe", kwaye ungabi nzima ukuba "ngumfazi" wakhe, uze ukhulule kwaye uqale ukuzonwabisa.
Ngoko uyeka ukunyanzela ubudlelwane bakho phantsi kobekwe ngu-cinema ne-TV. Ukuze ulungiselele isidlo esiphundu ngezandla ezine, akunakulungele ukuba uthathe iklasi kwiklasi kwi-chef "Ritz". Ngokulala ngesondo. Ekuphishekeleni i-orgasm, unokuthi, njenge-greyhound, umoya ujikeleze le midlalo, uzama ukubamba i-hare. Kwaye nangona ungayithokozeli umsebenzi womzimba wakho, ungazivumi umoya, ungayivuli inkululeko yokusebenza. Ngenxa yokuba kukho iNjongo. Ukuzama ukuba ngumfazi owanelisekile ngesondo kwilizwe, unokweqa zonke izinto ezintle ezenza uthando. Funda ujabulele inkqubo.
Ukukhululeka.
Ukuba abantu babengenabuvila, mhlawumbi babeza kudala iidolophu basebenzisa amacebo aseYiputa aseYiputa kunye nama-Aztec: ama-kilogram amahlanu elitye kwi-scruff entanyeni nakwezinyawo ukuya kwindawo yokwakha. Ukungafuni ukwenza umsebenzi ongadingekile (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwanoma yimuphi umsebenzi) kudala umnqweno wokufuna izisombululo ezingaqhelekanga. Ngako oko inkolelo yokuba ubuvila yinjini yenkqubela ayikho ngaphandle kwesiseko nonke. Zigweba ngokwakho: kwakuyivila kwaye ivila, i-oven microwave, ulawulo olude, i-dryer eyakhiwa yenziwe. Ngoku yonke le mimangaliso yezobuchwepheshe itondoloza amandla ethu nexesha, elingasetyenziselwa into enomnandi kakhulu.
"Ndilivila!" - ukuba ucinga ngako, kukukhuthaza. Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba abaninzi abafazi bathanda ubumsulwa, ngelixa bezonda ngokuzenzekelayo i-rag. Kwaye ezinye zazo zixazulula le ngxaki-ke fumana umsebenzi wokuthenga i-vacuum cleaner. Kwaye unyaka kamva bafumana ukunyuswa nokuqesha umninimzi. Ngethuba labo labakhululekileyo emsebenzini wesikolo, bafumana isakhono esitsha esithembisayo, esenza ukuba sikwazi ukucinga: kwiminyaka embalwa baya kuba nako ukufumana umcuphi. Awukwazi ukuma ingxolo yombhobho, mhlawumbi!
Mna nobuvila bam.
Ukususela ebuntwaneni, sifundiswa ukuba abantu abacebile bachitha ixesha. Kodwa ukuba ucinga ngako, kulungile. Emva koko, ixesha aliyindawo yokuhlala, kwaye nabani na ongenakuziphendulela bayichitha ngokwabo ngokwengqiqo, abayithathi yonke into yokunyaniseka! Enyanisweni, nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuchitha iiyure kunye nemizuzu ngokuchanekileyo. Maxa wambi ivila - ithetha nje "musa ukuchitha ixesha elingenanto."
Ukuba unesilumko ukufunda i-bestseller entsha, ngenxa yokuba uyazi ukuba kule ngxaki inani elikhulu lezinto eziphazamisayo kunye neziganeko akusiyo ifowuni ye-stylistic - kuhle. Ngenxa yokuhlehliswa kwincwadi enesichukuphuku, unokwenza into enandiyolisayo okanye eyincedo. Ngendlela, ngokuqinisekileyo wawuqwalasela ukuba awufuni ukuqonda iiminqweno zakho. Mhlawumbi, imihla ngemihla uhlawula iintolo zeeofisi zee-ofisi kunye ne-glance kwaye ngo-18: 00, ukulibala ngokukhathala, ukuyeka ukuqeqeshwa? Ngoko mhlawumbi lixesha lokuba ube ngumqeqeshi wempilo? Okanye ngaba ulungele ukuhamba malunga nesiqingatha salo mzi ekukhangekeni kwengubo kuphela efanelana nawe, ngaphandle kokuphelelwa yisibindi ngokufanelekileyo kwesihlanu? Kutheni uqhubeka nokwenza iingxelo zonyaka xa unokuba ngumphenyi obalaseleyo?
Cinga ngezinto ezenza ube nolonwabo ngokwenene. Kungenzeka ukuba i-hobby yakho ingaletha imali! Ubuvila bukuvumela ukuba ugxume ngaphandle kwevili le-squirrel, elijikeleza imihla ngemihla umsebenzi wendlu-msebenzi, kwaye ukhangele. Kungenzeka ukuba, ukujikeleza ngejubane elikhulu, ulahla iphupha lobomi bakho, elilindela kuphela, xa ekugqibeleni uvila, yima uze ukhethe.