NgoMeyi, ngoJuni, ngoJulayi, ngo-Agasti-ukufudumala, sekuyisikhathi sokukhupha kunye ne-swimsuits, iifresh kunye ne-miniskirts. Kwaye ufuna ukuba ugqoke imbobo yokukhanya kwaye uphumelele kwisitalato. Ukukhwela kule ngubo, uqala ukuzijonga kwisibuko. Uyabona ntoni na? Isisu sithukulule, amacala aphuma, umbingeleli waphelelwa ngokupheleleyo, isifuba sincinci ... okanye mhlawumbi konke kubonakala kuwe ??? Mhlawumbi uzigxeka kakhulu wena nomfanekiso wakho? Konke malunga neengxaki. Iintlobo zeentombi ze-rasprastranennye kakhulu xa zijongene namadoda zibukeka ngabasetyhini, kwaye ngokukodwa ngokuza kwehlobo. Naluphi na ubunzima lubonwa njengento engaphantsi. Ngoko ukuxhomekeka kwezinto eziphantsi - i-brake okanye umatshini wokunyakaza ongapheliyo? Ukuqhekeka ngonaphakade ngaphambi kokuba uthandane namadoda okanye isisigxina esingapheliyo esingazicingela?
Emva kokubona ukupapashwa kwamaflegi e-Fitnes, ndacinga malunga neengxaki kunye nemvelaphi yazo. Intombazana ekhangisweni, ijikeleza phambi kwesibuko kwindawo yokubhukuda yangaphakathi, igubungele isisu sayo esipheleleyo kunye nengxowa yakhe yasebhantsini, kunye nentsimbi, ukuze kungabikho mntu uyayijonga uhlobo lwakhe lokungafezeki, kwaye ngakumbi amadoda. Kwaye ndacinga ukuba, ukuba umntu unesisombululo, ngoko engakhange alahle, ulunge ulahlekelwe isisindo.
Ngeenkomfa kufuneka ukulwe kumgangatho wengqondo. Kwiintsuku ezilishumi elinesine emva koko, intombazana enye enomfanekiso ofanayo yayiguquzela ngasese echibini kwi-bikini encinane, kwaye indoda enhle yayimjonga. Kwaye ndaphinda ndacinga, kwaye loo ntombazana igqoke i-bikinis, isisu sayo sikhulu ngokukhulula ngaphezu kwamabele, kwaye zineengxaki? Ukulala ngasebe lolwandle, ndandibukela loo ntombazana, kwaye ndiza kuthi bathemba ngokuqinisekileyo ulwandle kunye neendawo ezikude. Laba ngabantu abangenazo iingxaki ngenxa yobume babo kunye neefom ezifanelekileyo. Isisu sisalwe ngenxa yokuba wazala abantwana abathathu waza wabakhulela abantu abafanelekileyo, kwaye yena, ehamba ngesisu, uhamba ngokuziqhenya esithi, "Khangela, ndazala abathathu, kodwa unako?" Okanye umfazi unesilwane esikhulu, kodwa naye akayinkimbinkimbi ngayo, kuba ngumfazi ophumelelayo oqhuba iLexus kwaye kumsebenzi wonke umntu uyamthandaza.
Impumelelo yinto etshabalalisa iingcamango, kwaye ukuze uphumelele, kufuneka ube nesibindi, kwaye ungesabi oko abantu bacinga ngako ngawe, kuba sonke asifezekanga. Kwaye kunye nemizekelo ayifanelekanga. Ujonge kubo, banamachaphaza kuyo yonke indawo, ukuze ukwazi ukubala imida. Ngaba lo mfana? Kwaye ke, ngubani othe wenyuka? Yaye ngubani owathi loo mfanekiso ufanele ube ngama-90-60-90 ??? Wonke umfazi unelungelo lakhe, elingekho. Ngubani owaziyo umntu ofanelekileyo oya kuthathwa njengelungele wonke umntu emhlabeni? Ngokomntu, andazi iinjongo ezinjalo.
Ukugqithisa izakhiwo, okokuqala, simele sivume ukuba abanye abantu banabo kunye neengxaki zabo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Yintoni eya kutshabalalisa izakhiwo ezinxulumene nokubonakala, imele phambi kwesibuko uze ukhangele umzimba wakho, njengesisu, uzame ukubona kuwo ungatyebile, kodwa iikhabhi. Ukuba unesisombululo, ngoko uzama ukuwukrazula, uguqule kwi-gym okanye usebenze kusasa, okanye uhleli kwiidlo ezahlukileyo. Ngayiphi na indlela, unesimo esifanelekileyo, nguwe kuphela ozigxekayo. Zama ukuzikholisa, umzekelo, gxiba into eqinile kwaye uzame ukuhamba ngesitalato, ndicinga ukuba bonke abantu baya kuvuyela ukujikela ezinyaweni kuwe.
Hlanganisa iifoto zakho malunga neendlu, uzibonele zonke iintsuku ezindongeni uya kuziva ukuba awukho okubi kakhulu, kwaye abantu abaza kukuvakashela xa bebona iifoto zakho baya kuqala ukukubona behle, kuba uzimisele ukuxhoma lakho ifoto ngendlu. Ngoko, uyazithemba wena kwaye awunayo iinkimbinkimbi, kwaye oku kuya kubangela ukuba abantu bakho batyelele, kuba banomuva wokuzithemba, kwaye ukuzithemba kwakho kuye kwabenza bahlala bexhalabile kubantu. Ukuba uphitshise ama-portraits akho ngeenxa zonke kwendlu, uyaziqhayisa wena kunye nomzimba wakho, oko kuthetha ukuba uqinisekile, ukuba uqinisekile, ngoko uphumelele! Ungesabi ukuba abantu baya kucinga ngawe, kuba bonke abantu bayesaba ukuba uya kubacinga ngabo. Yiba nesibindi, kwaye uzithanda wena ngokuba ungubani, kwaye abanye baya kukuncoma.
Yazi ukuba uThixo wakudala ukuba ungubani, ngoko ulungile, kwaye ukuba unesiphene, kukho umgangatho omuhle kuwe ohlawula ukusilela kwakho. Ndinomhlobo omnye, unesifuba esincinci kakhulu, kodwa, kuthekani ukuba unaloo ndlela yokugungqa! Kwaye ngenxa yoko oko kuthi, "Ngoko ke, ukuba ndingenaso esifubeni esincinane, kodwa iesile liza kusula iipumlo." Okanye omnye umzekelo, ndibe neenwele eziqhelekileyo, kwaye abaninzi ababaziyo, abanamakhanda okanye azinwele, bandixelele ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba baphupha iinwele ezinjengam. Kwaye mna, ngokuphumla, ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukwenza i-chic okanye ukudweba, kodwa andixeleli nabani na ukuba ndifuna izinwele ezibuhlungu. Ndiyayithanda inwele kunye nokunyaniseka, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ndifuna ukutshintsha, kwaye kutheni ndidla ngokutshintsha umbala wam izinwele. Ngokuqhelekileyo, sifuna oko omnye onayo, kungekhona ukuqonda oko sikukho. Ndikholelwe, omnye umntu ufuna izipikili ezifanayo, okanye iinwele ezifanayo, okanye ubukhulu obufanayo besifuba, okanye isisu esinjengewe.
Ngoko, amantombazana abathandekayo, bafazi, zifumane into efanelekileyo kuwe ekubonakaleni kwakho kwaye uziqhenye ngako, kuba abantu abaninzi banomona! Mhlawumbi zinkulu amehlo, okanye i-eyelashes ende, okanye mhlawumbi isisu esiswini, okanye imilenze ende. Kulo nxalenye kukho isiqwenga sobuhle esenza ube mnandi. Khumbula ukuba akukho babhinqa ababi, kukho abafazi abalungileyo, nantoni na, besihle.