Indlela yokudala umfanekiso wakho omtsha

NgesiNgesi, igama elithi "Umfanekiso" lithetha umfanekiso okanye umfanekiso, kunye nomfanekiso ochanekileyo okanye umfanekiso wesirangabi. Umntu ozama ukudala umfanekiso othile, uzama ukufezekisa ukufana okubonakalayo kunye nokuziphatha okufunayo, kunye nendlela yokuphila.
Umfanekiso unamalungu amaninzi omfanekiso kwaye uyidale - ngumsebenzi phantse wonke umntu.

Okokuqala, ukudala umfanekiso omtsha, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba kuya kuba yintoni na - ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uthabathe iphepha kwaye ubeke zonke iimpawu neempawu, kunye nokubonakala komntu onomfanekiso ofuna ukumdala.

Emva kokuba udale umfanekiso ochanekileyo kwiphepha, kufuneka uhlolisise ukuba lo mfanekiso ude kangakanani ukusuka kwimeko yakho yangoku - emva koko, ukuguqula umfanekiso ngokugqithisileyo akuwona msebenzi olula. Kungcono ukwenza oku kumanqanaba amaninzi, ngokuthe ngcembe kufikelelekileyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale utshintsho lwengqondo, kufuneka uhlolisise ngokusemthethweni abo abakwaziyo.

Indlela elula kukuba uqale ngenguqu kwizinto eziphambili, ezo ziza kubumba ubunzulu bomfanekiso wakho omtsha. Qala ngokutshintsha kweengubo. Khumbula ukuba ukubonakala akuphelelanga kuphela, kodwa kunceda ukuyidala, ngaloo ndlela uncedise ukugcinwa nokuziphatha kwisakhelo somfanekiso wakho omtsha. Umzekelo, ukuba unxibe i-skirt encinci kunye neetelendle eziphezulu, awuyi kugijima emva kokushiya ibhasi njengoko wenza ngaphambili, ugqoke ijeans kunye nezinga.

Kodwa khumbula ukuba umfanekiso omtsha awukutshintshi nje iimpahla eziqhelekileyo. Ukudala umfanekiso omtsha, kufuneka silungise iziphakamiso zethu, impawu kunye nendlela yokuthetha. Umfanekiso omtsha ukhethe izesekeli - ukusuka kwi-lighters ezintsha ukuya emotweni entsha. Simele siqwalasele iimpawu zalabo bantu abanomfanekiso omtsha owenzelwe yona: ubulili kunye nobudala, iminqweno, isimo sezentlalo kunye neemfuno zabo. Abathengi bethu abajoliswe kuzo bangaba ngabesimhlala-phantsi okanye abatsha, abasebenzi okanye abantu abane-VIP. Kufuneka sikhumbule "imithetho yohlobo" apho umfanekiso wethu omtsha uza kusebenza: abaphulaphuli abafundi, ubomi boshishino okanye imibutho yobuciko, njl. Ngalunye lwale mihlaba inezixhobo zayo zangaphakathi neemfuno. Umfanekiso omtsha unemiba emininzi. Ukudala umfanekiso omtsha kwizinga eliphezulu lobugcisa, iingcali ze-PR, izazi zeengqondo, abenzi bezithombe, iinzululwazi, abavelisi, abaculi bokuzenzela, abachwephesha basebenza kulo.

Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokwenza umfanekiso omtsha ngokwakho, ngoko ngokungaphezulu kwengubo, ungasebenzisa izikhumbuzo ezahlukeneyo - izikhumbuzo ezinjengekhaya kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, kunye nedeskithophu okanye ukubeka iliso. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuba ungathabatha iingubo zakho zangaphambili kwindawo ethile kwaye ungayikhumbuli - kuya kukunceda ukuba uphumelele kwaye ukhawuleze emfanekisweni omtsha.

Musa ukulibala ukuba xa unqume ukudala umfanekiso omtsha, kufuneka ubeke iliso rhoqo kwaye utshintshe imikhwa yakho nokuziphatha. Ukuba udala umfanekiso womxhasi, uphumelele rhoqo, kuyo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke into, kufuneka uyeke ukukhala kwisibambiso. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lukhuni kangakanani intliziyo yakho nentliziyo, naluphi na umvakalelo onalo okwangoku, ngoku kufuneka uphendule umbuzo othi "Uphi na?" Ngomomotheka, ukumakisha ixesha elihle kuphela.

Unokugqiba ukuzenza imifanekiso emininzi: nganye kwindawo ethile, ixesha okanye abantu. Nangona kunjalo, umntu akanako ukutshintsha ngokugqithisileyo umfanekiso ngokuqhelekileyo. Ukuhlala esetyenziselwa umfanekiso omtsha - umsebenzi awulula, kwaye ufanelekile kuphela kwiimpawu zobugcisa kunye nezobuciko.

Ngokuqhelekileyo ukwanele nje ukulungelelanisa iingubo zakho neendlela zokuziphatha ukulungisa ixesha elithile - kwaye oku kuya kuhambelana nawe.

Yaye khumbula-xa ibhinqa litshintsha, zonke iindawo ezizungezile zitshintsha. Yaye ukuba ukhangeleka kakuhle kwaye uzive ukhangayo, ngoko yonke imibuzo kunye neengxaki ziza kusombulula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza.