Uhleli etafileni elandelayo kwaye unamehlo aluhlaza okwangombala ... Utshitshiswe nje ngolu hlobo lokuba usebenzisa i-punch nge-stack yamaphepha. Yaye indlela yakhe yoku "balinganisa" abathengi kwizivumelwano ezintle kakhulu ezivamisayo. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, uyaba novelwano kunye nawe kwaye ubonisa umdla wakhe ngenene, engayithobeli ingqalelo kwi-ines-bitch enekratshi, okanye ukuba ungakhangeli imihla ngemihla njenge-princess incognito. Ukulinga, ukulinga ... Yeka! Inveli kumsebenzi? Yaye ukuba wonke umntu ufumanisa? .. Ukuba ichaphazela ubudlelwane kunye nabasemagunyeni kunye neqela? Hayi, ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle? Ukuba eli lililo lithuba? Iincwadi zezifundo zengqondo kunye neendlela ezisemthethweni ezisisigxina: "Akukho ziveli zomthetho!", Yaye intliziyo iyabuza: "Mhlawumbi siza kuzama? Ngokukhawuleza? .. "Ewe, ingxaki. Umxholo udala nje ngehlabathi: inveli yenkonzo - inkolelo kunye nenyaniso. Eyona nto ayikhathazeki ngayo ...
KWINYE INYATHELO.
Nina ningabalingani kwaye nisezingeni elifanayo lesigqeba - ngokunjalo, nokuba kunjani na, kungekude komnye nomnye, kwaye akukho namnye ophantsi komnye ongenciki kuye. Ndimele ndivume ukuba le nguqulo yencwadana yenkonzo iyona nto ifanelekileyo, yile imeko xa yonke into ingakwazi ukuphuma, kunye neemeko ezintle, kunjalo. Kodwa nakwalapha kukho
"Imifula engaphantsi kwamanzi": Okokuqala, nangona uphuhliso lwentsebenziswano olulungileyo, inoveli yakho iya kuba yisohlo loluntu. Uxabana - wonk 'ubani uyazi malunga nalo, uya kuhamba kunye nomntu wakho othandekayo - kwaye kwakhona wonke umntu uya kukwazi. Ukuba ungumntu ovaliweyo kwaye ungathandi ukwabelana nabantu abafihliweyo kwizihlwele, ke le meko yimiba iya kuba nzima kakhulu. Okwesibini, akusiyo imfihlelo kumntu othanda abantu kufuneka aphumle komnye nomnye - luhlobo luni lokuphumla, xa uhlala kunye ukususela ekuseni kuze kube ... kusasa kusasa? Ekhaya, emsebenzini, ngexesha lesidlo ... Ngaba uqinisekile ukuba ubuhlobo bakho buya kuqhubeka nale nto? Kwaye, okwesithathu, ukuba uhamba ngeendlela, uza kufuneka ukwenze konke okuncinci: ubukela "ex-" (umzekelo, kwifowuni kunye nenkosikazi entsha) usuku lonke, akusivivinywa kwintliziyo ephazamisekileyo. Ewe, kwaye ukuhlukana kwakho kuyakuba "isihloko esitshisa" somhla kwinyanga ezayo, okanye nangaphezulu ...
UKUQINISWA KWE-LIMOUSINE ENOMHLABA.
Leli yigama elifanelekileyo kwibhokisi yencwadi: inoveli yompheki enezantsi. Utshintsho oluchazwe kwiimvanoveli zeentombi kunye nama-anecdotes. Nangona kunjalo, ukhetho lukhangeleka, ekuqalekeni. Emva koko, ngaphandle komntu ophumelelayo "kwikiti", ukukrexeza kuya kuhamba kunye nokukhuthazwa, ukunyuswa kwemivuzo okanye amanye amalungelo afanelekileyo entliziyweni yentombi. Kodwa imiphumo engathandekiyo yokuba ufanelekile inveli kunye nomphathi ...
"Imifula engaphantsi kwamanzi": Nangona yonke into ihambela kakuhle, ayiyi kuba neengxaki, ngaphandle, mhlawumbi, umona wegama elikujikelezayo nelinenakele. Kuba ukusuka ngaphandle uza kubonakala njengomzingeli ngemali kunye namalungelo. Mhlawumbi ulwalamano olubi kunye noogxa bakho. Kodwa "ingqungquthela" enkulu yeengxaki ikulindele xa kwenzeka ukuwa kokungalungi kwakho. Umsebenzi uya kufuneka ukuba utshintshwe - kwaye kulungile ukuba yonke idlula ngokungahambi kakubi nangaphezulu ngaphantsi koxolo, kwaye ukuba usebenza kwinqanaba elincinci apho wonke umntu ayazana khona, uya kuba nobunzima emsebenzini wakho omtsha-kwakhona ngenxa yamahlebezi.
NOKUBA UKUFU.
Le meko yintsholongwane yangaphambili: intanda yakho incinci kakhulu kunani kwinqanaba lomsebenzi okanye, ngakumbi nakakhulu, kukungeniswa kwakho ngqo. Lo mcimbi awunqabile, kodwa ukuba into enjengale yenzeke kuwe, gcina isalathisi "Qaphela!" Entloko yakho, kuba ...
"Imifula engaphantsi kwamanzi": Le ngxaki enzima, kuba iingxaki zinokukulinda kwiinkalo ezingalindelekanga zobuhlobo. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqalise ukuba umntu unokukwazi ukudibana nawe kuphela ngenxa yeenjongo zamagunya, kwaye kwiimeko ezinjalo isondo esinamandla sidlala "esikhulu": akunakwenzeka ukuba uya ku-pozaritsya kumvuzo okhulayo okanye umkhwa wokukhwabanisa "uShefini". Musa ukuzithuthuzela ngeengcinga ezinjalo. Kungenzeka ukuba ufuna iposi yakho okanye ngaphezulu - kuxhomekeke kwiposi ohlala kuyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iindlebe zabantu kulo mzekelo nazo ayikuthinteli: ukuba umntu ongaphantsi uyaphambukisa umcimbi kunye nompheki, bayamgweba loo mfazi: ukuba ngokuchasene noko, basoloko bamgweba loo mfazi! Xa ubuhlobo bakho buphelile, uya kujamelana neengxaki: ukutshisa umthandi wangaphambili okanye cha? Yaye ungakholelwa-oku kuya kuba ngumsebenzi onzima, kwaye imiphumo yesigqibo sakho iya kuba yinto eyahluke kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwindlela owahlula ngayo kwaye unjani umntu obenako nawe: ukuphindiselela kwinxalenye yesazela - kunye neyakho.
KUPHELA KWENKQUBO?
Njengekokuqala yokuqala, le nto inokuphela ngokuvuyisa, kuba umcimbi kunye nomxhasi we-shishini okanye iqumrhu apho usebenzayo yileveli yenkonzo yesiqingatha. Enyanisweni, emsebenzini, kuphela intlanganiso yakho yokuqala, kwaye lonke ulwalamano lunokuthathwa ngokupheleleyo "ngaphaya kwelo" - ngulo mgaqo ophezulu wale nveli.
"Imifula engaphantsi kwamanzi": Ewe, balapha. Okokuqala, ukuba ungathathi ubuhlobo bakho kunye nomthengi ngexesha lokuphuma kwindawo yokusebenzela ngexesha, ke kukho amathuba amaninzi ukuba uya kubonakala njengowesifazane okhuselekileyo owenza into engaqondakaliyo ngexesha lomsebenzi. Okwesibini, ukuba umntu oye waqala ukudibana naye unokuthi "ubunzima" kunye nomthelela kummandla wakhe, ngoko, xa kwenzeka into ethile engalunganga, inokuphazamisa igama lakho okanye libi kakhulu isikhundla sakho kwenkampani. Ewe, kwaye ke, akulula ukwenza imisebenzi yakho kakuhle, xa umsebenzi wakho uqhagamshelwe ngokupheleleyo kumntu onomntu onalo.
NOKUBA KUPHELA.
Kuthetha ukuthini oku? Ukuba inkonzo yothando ayinalo ilungelo lokuphila, kwaye kufuneka uzinamathele ekugqibeleni, udibanise amazinyo akho, nangona yonke imihla udliwe ngumkhangeli ocebileyo kwaye uhle - u-Richard Gere enyameni - etafileni elandelayo? Ewe, akukho - akukho mntu ufuna ixhoba, kodwa ukuba ekugqithweni kwakho kunokwenzeka inveli kumsebenzi, qwalasela yonke "imijelo yamanzi" kwaye usebenzise amaqhinga okuziphatha okuchanekileyo okuza kukunceda ukuba wakhe ubudlelwane obuhle, kwaye xa kwenzeka ikhefu - ushiye " imfazwe "ngaphandle kwamanxeba abulalayo!
Ukuba umntu oyithandayo akayena "ongenasiphelo", kodwa "yinto encinci", ke kungcono ukunqaba inombolo esemthethweni: kwimeko apho, akukho mfuneko yokubeka umngcipheko umsebenzi wakho ngenxa yento engayi kukuvuyisa uvuyo olukhethekileyo. Kwaye ukunyamezela kungaphunyezwa ngezinye iindlela.
Kwiyiphi na le meko, thatha umzekelo kunye nabasetyhini abaphilileyo: cwaka! Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba unako ukugcina imbali yakho eyimfihlakalo (kodwa ayinqabile, "ilizwi lomlomo" lisebenza ngokusisigxina), kodwa ukuba ayisebenzi, ubuncinane uzame ukunika abanye ulwazi malunga noko kwenzekayo kulwalamano lwakho. Ungabandakanyeli kunye nabahlobo obusondeleyo kunye neenkcukacha ezahlukeneyo, musa ukuxelela ama-spicy kunye neembali ezityhila ngokuthandayo, ungaceli icebo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna kangakanani. Khumbula ukuba yonke into "ye-aquarium" efanayo, ngoko yonke into oyithethayo ngokukhawuleza iya kufinyelela kumthandi wakho kwifomu ephosakeleyo-kwaye oku akunakwenzeka ukuba amkholise. Ukongeza, ukuthulisa yindlela kuphela yokugcina ulwalamano lwakho "ngokwakho," ngaphandle kokubhengeza ngokubanzi iinkcukacha zoluntu.
Zama kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhagamshelane nomthandwa wakho emsebenzini. Kwikhefu, siphuza itiye kunye noogxa nabo, nidla nabo isidlo sasemini (kunye nokuba awuyidingi ngempela). Musa ukucima indawo yomsebenzi, kwaye nangakumbi ungacwangcisi izigcawu zothando (njengokungquzulana kunye "ukucima" kumacandelo) ukuzonwabisa kumntu wonke. Oku kuqinisekileyo awunayo. Lo mqathango uncedo ngakumbi kunokuba ubonakala: ngakwesinye icala, awuyi kucaphukisa oogxa bakho "neveli" ekuboniseni, kwaye uya kukhwaza ingxowa encinci, kwaye kwenye, awuyi kuphazamisa umthandayo, umxube ngobukho bakho obungunaphakade.
Ewe, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ekugqibeleni. I-romance yenkonzo iquka ngokubanzi-nangona kungabikho ngqo-abantu abaninzi kunabanye. Ngaphezu koko, unokuchaphazela umsebenzi wakho, umsebenzi wakho, umvuzo wakho, njl. Yintoni elandela kule nto? Yaye inyaniso yokuba ukuba kwenzeka ukuba 'uthande kwindawo yokusebenzela', qaphela, uqaphele kwaye uyiqaphele kuyo yonke into. Cinga ngegama kunye nezenzo, thintela iingxabano, ungahlali ujabule kwaye uziphathe ngesithunzi. Kwaye ngoko uya kuphumelela!