Indlela yokufundisa umntu osebenza ngokugqithiseleyo ukuphumla

Wonke umntu uyazi ibinzana: abasebenzi basebenzela umntu, bamenza ilungu elifanelekileyo lomphakathi, livelisa iimpawu ezilungileyo, ezilungileyo. Ukunyaniseka kukuba, inzuzo engathandabuzekiyo. Abantu abasebenza nzima ngumzekelo wokulingisa, kunye nobuvila, ukungabikho, ukudakwa kunye nezinye izinto ezinobungozi ezisemphakathini. Kodwa, konke kulungile kumodareyitha. Ukuba umsebenzi ube yinjongo kuphela, inomdla ebomini, xa ichitha iiyure ezingamashumi amabini anesine ngosuku kunye nexesha, inkululeko ayinakwanele ukutywala kunye nokulala ngeeyure eziliqela ekuhambeni, oko kukuthi, kubangele i-alamu. Ngelo xesha umqondo wokufundisa indlela yokuphumla ekuphumleni kufike engqondweni.

Ewe, indoda enomsebenzi okhutheleyo iyamnandi kakhulu: ifumana imali engaphezu kokuyichitha, ngokuba, ekuthengeni nasekuthengeni, akanalo ixesha kwaye akuyithandi kakhulu. Umdla omkhulu, umnqweno wobomi bakhe ngumsebenzi. Ngako oko, kukho ukuphazamiseka kwindoda yokukhuthaza: le ndoda ibangela ukuba umzimba wakhe utyhafile ngenxa yokulungela rhoqo umsebenzi, kwaye oku kubangela ukukhungatheka, ukuxinezeleka, okuchaphazela umfazi, abantwana kunye nezihlobo ngendlela engafanelekanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo, intsapho yakhe ibona ukungabi nantoni kunye nokuthanda. Kuloo mfazi, kubonakala ngathi indoda ifihlile kuye nakwentsapho emsebenzini, uyeke ukumthanda, ukungaxhalabi okukhulu kukhula kwaye kuthungela ingxabano enkulu kwintsapho.

Umkhuba omubi.

Kwakhona, kwiholide yentsapho kwaye uhamba nabantwana abanomdla, nabo, akunakwenzeka ukuba bathathe inxaxheba. Nangona ufuna ukuphumla, ube nokuphumla, sele kunzima ukuphazamisa iingcamango zakhe kwizicwangciso zomsebenzi kwaye ujabulele ukuphumla, njengoko esetyenziswa ukuhlala ekulungele ukusebenza, okwenza ukuba angalibali. "I-Workaholism" kwihlabathi lethu lanamhlanje lingathathwa njengomkhuba omubi, isifo, kunye notywala kunye nokutshaya, njengoko umntu exhomekeke ekuxhomekeke kuyo, edla ngokuxhaswa nguthambo wezifo zengqondo. Njengemikhwa emibi, ukunyamekela ngokweqile kuneemiphumo emibi, kokubili ukuba ngumsebenzi osebenzayo kunye nentsapho yakhe.

Ukuze uqonde izizathu, zama ukubanceda abantu abanjalo baphume kwiimeko "zokubhokoxa" kwaye bazive bephila kuyo yonke imibala yabo, kunokwenzeka ukuhlukanisa abasebenzi abasebenza nzima kwiintlobo ezithile, apho, kwimeko nganye, indlela yabo "yokuphulukisa" ikhethiweyo.

Olunye uhlobo iimbusi.

Icandelo lokuqala lingabizwa ngokuthi "Incini". Igama, ngenxa yokuziphatha kweenciniba: ekubonweni kwengozi encinci, ngokukhawuleza efihla intloko yakhe entlabathi, ngoko umntu emela emisebenzini, ngokuzibeka emisebenzini enethemba lokufihla ebomini bokwenene, iingxaki kunye nolwalamano nabanye abantu. Kuvela, into enjalo, i-vacuum, yedwa yodwa kunye nomsebenzi kunye nokukhishwa kwihlabathi elijikelezile. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bethetha ukuba baxakeke kakhulu ngento ethile, ngokwenene, bazama ukufihla emva kokubonakala kwoshishino olusisigxina. Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo: ekupheleni kwexesha emsebenzini ngaphandle kwemfuno ekhethekileyo, ukuhlenga, ukuphinda kubhale kwakhona amaxwebhu angadingekile, ngokubanzi, asebenza kwinto nje ukudala ingcamango yoshishino olusisigxina. Ngaloo nto abayakhohlisi abanye njengabo ngokwabo, bezama ukusuka kwinto ethile, ekupheleni, babalekele. Kwaye kwaziwa ukuba awukwazi ukusinda kuwe. ... Olu hlobo lwabantu ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukubiza abantu abahamba phambili, kuba bengabasebenzi kakhulu njengoko befihla kwiingxaki zabo, umzekelo, ngokuphathelele ubomi bobulili, ukungakwazi ukuhamba kunye nokufumana ukuqonda okufanayo nomfazi wabo, abantwana, nakwihlabathi elibangqongileyo, ukungafuni ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya okanye uthathe inxaxheba ekukhulisweni kwabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu - izithambiso zizazisa, oko kukuthi, zithandana nokuba zodwa, zodwa, ukudibanisa nehlabathi elijikelezayo kunzima kuye. Banikezwa iindidi ezahlukeneyo ezingazami ukunqoba, kodwa isisombululo esisisigxina kuphela ukufihla kuyo yonke into kwaye uzive ukhuseleko lwabo lobuxoki.

Izindlela zokulwa.

Indlela yokujongana nale hlobo lokusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo? Impendulo: Unokuphazamisa ngandlela-thile, ufundise umntu ongenakwenzeka ukuba angayithobeli umsebenzi, athulise ukuzithemba kwakhe ngaphandle kokuncedwa kwakhe. Nangona akakwazi ukwenza into ekhethekileyo ngendlu, bonisa ukuba iingcebiso zakhe kunye naluphi na uncedo lubalulekile kuwe. Khumbula ukuba olu hlobo lukhuselekile ngokwengqondo ngokwaneleyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba uthe uthi uya kuhamba, umzekelo, kwikhefu yedwa, ngoko ke akanako ukunika inceba, nokuba kunjalo, ukuzola kwakhe kuya kuphazamiseka. Imvakalelo yomona, ukungathandabuzeki akuyi kuphumla, kwaye uya kuphazamiseka emsebenzini, ukuze angakuvumeli ukuba uhambe wedwa.

2 uhlobo - iesile.

Uhlobo olulandelayo yiDonkey. Oku kukufakela ukufumana ukufumana umvuzo womsebenzi, oya kuba ngumnye umva. Ukhumbuza idonki, ngubani ngokuziphatha okulungileyo ufumana isanqante njengesipho kwaye into kuphela ayifunayo ukufumana isanqante efunayo kwakhona. Ukuba akafumani umvuzo owufunayo, udibana nokungazi into enokuyenza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntu "i-esile" ivaliwe, uyethusa ngokufumaneka kwexesha elikhululekileyo, akwaziyo ukukwenza nalo.

Izindlela zokulwa.

Kule meko, unokumnceda ukuba azalise ishedyuli yakhe yemihla ngemihla ngesicwangciso seveki, esebenzisa isitayela sakhe. Umzekelo, oku kuku: 10 .00 - ukuphakamisa; 10 .00 - 10.30 - phumula ebhedeni, uphuze ikhofi kwaye ubukele iTV; 11 .00 - hamba nomkakhe; kusihlwa 16 .00 - ingxoxo ngeeplani zeeholide. Into ephambili "yeesile" kukusebenza ngokucwangcisa isicwangciso, ngelixa ubuncinci ukumfundisa ukuba aphumle, ngoko uvakalelwa ngakumbi kwaye unesabisa kakhulu ngezinto ezintsha kwixesha lakhe.

3 iintlobo - iingcuka.

Njengoko umzekeliso wesintu uthi: ingcuka iyondla iinyawo. Olu hlobo luqinisekile ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntu-nto, into ephambili ebomini bakhe ngumsebenzi kunye nemali engenayo. Uhlala ezama ukunyamezela, nangona akudingeki ukuba ahlale ephila, yonke into isondele, akayi kuphumla kwaye "angaboni" ngokuzonwabisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abanjalo bathambekele ekuhlanganiseni rhoqo, bawuthintele uvuyo lokuzibethelela ngokuthenga okutsha okanye ukuchitha i-ruble eyongezelelweyo.

Izindlela zokulwa.

Uhlala ebeka umlinganiselo omtsha wokuphumelela, ukuphumla kwakhe kukuchitha ixesha, unobungozi kwimvelo, njengoko ehlala ekhawuleza ukuba nezinto ezininzi zenziwe ngokukhawuleza. Ngako oko, umntu onjalo unokunceda ukuphucula umculo, unikeze ukusilalisa okanye ubeke kwindawo yakhe yokusebenzela i-aquarium eneentlanzi ezinomdla, ezibalabala. Kodwa apha kukunyanzelisa i-workaholic ukuphumla olu hlobo alufanelekanga.

Ewe, kuninzi, ukuthanda umsebenzi wakho kukuvuyisa, kuninzi. Kodwa ungabi nentshiseko, zikhusele nakwimincili encinane ebomini. Ubomi bufutshane kangangokuthi kusekufanelekile ukwenza okuninzi, ukukwenza ngexesha lwakhona, kungekhona nje ukulungisa wonke umsebenzi.