Ukuba ufuna ukwazi indlela yokuziphatha ngodliwano-ndlebe xa uqesha, ngoko uyithathe ngokungathí sina kuyo yonke imigaqo yokuziphatha echazwe kweli nqaku. Xa ufika kwi-ejensi yokuqesha, kufuneka uziphatha ngokuzimeleyo ngabo bonke abasebenzi, kwaye nangakumbi nangomphathi wakho wekamva. Thatha uxanduva kuwo onke ama-questionnaires okanye iimvavanyo ozenzayo, nangona zibonakala zingenangqondo kuwe, kwaye sele usuvele uzibuyisele kwakhona. Wonke amaphepha enikezelwayo kufuneka agcwaliswe ngokufanelekileyo kwaye angcono kuwo onke. Yazi, ngakumbi xa unikeza ulwazi ngabaphathi malunga nobuntu bakho, ukuphakama kuya kuba yinto enokwenzeka yesigqibo ngabaphathi malunga nokuthatha emsebenzini. Akuyimfuneko ukususela ngosuku lokuqala ukuqala ukuxoxisana ngezihlwele ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba unamaxesha amaninzi okanye iindleko ezincinci ezahlukeneyo, ngoko uya kudibana. Esi sishwankathelo, qi niseka ukuba ubonise ukuba wenzani ngokukodwa emsebenzini wokugqibela (ukuba kukho). Le ngcaciso ngamanye amaxesha ingaba yinto ebalulekileyo ekuxazululeni zonke iingxaki zakho.
Qinisekisa ukuba ucinge ukuba ngexesha lodliwano-ndlebe kufuneka ube neeyure ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezishiye kwindawo egcinwe kuyo, nangona kunjalo, ezi ntlanganiso ziphela kakhulu. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwazi ixesha elide elilidingayo, ngoko kukulungele ukuqinisekisile eli qiniso kummeli, kodwa ubuze ngathi ufuna ukwazi. Ukuba ummeli uyaqaphela ukuba uneshedyuli eqinile kakhulu, oku kunokuchaphazela nesigqibo sokukuthatha ukusebenza. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ixesha elide ummeleli uthetha nawe, iphakame amathuba akho wokumkelwa. Ukuba incoko ibonakala iphelile phakathi kwesivakalisi, ngoko-le sizathu sokukhathazeka ngesigqibo esizayo. Into ephambili kukuba sikwazi ukuthetha nommeli ngokuzithoba, ngenhlonipho, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa sisidima sakho. Emva koko, nangona ungenawo ixesha, uyavuma ukuba ummeli kufuneka angene kwindawo yakho.
Udliwano-ndlebe olunjalo nommeli oza kubhenela idatha yakho kumqeshi unokuthathwa njengolunye uhlobo loviwo lokungena ukuze ufumane umsebenzi. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uhambelane nemithetho ethile. Okokuqala, kubonakala. Akumele ulandele kuphela intetho yakho, kodwa kunye neengubo zakho nokuziphatha. Izambatho kufuneka zizingqongqo kwaye zingakhangeli umdla othethekileyo, ngaphandle koko zingamcaphukisa umntu othetha nawe. I-hairstyle kufuneka ilungiswe kakuhle kwaye imele imele. Musa ukuyidla nge-makeup kunye namafutha. Ukuba unemikhwa emibi, njengokutshaya, kufuneka utshaye ngokukhawuleza phambi kwengxoxo. Musa ukutshaya ngexesha le ncoko, nangona u-interlocutor okanye umqeshi ngumntu otshaya, akunandaba, kwaye ukuzama ukutshaya kuya kugwetywa kakubi. Kumele ugxininise umnxibelelwano kwiminqaku embalwa yokuqala yencoko yakho, ngoko uya kuphumelela kwaye ufumane umsebenzi.
Xa usebenza, kukho umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu: yonke into kufanele ibe yendalo. Ukuba uziphatha ngokugqithisileyo okanye ngokuchaseneyo akubonisi naluphi na iqhinga, ummeli wakho uya kukuvavanya njengomqeshwa ongenakho, kodwa njengomdlali odlala indima. Musa ukunyanisela isidima sakho kwaye ufihla ukusilela kwakho. Njengoko iqhawe elithandwayo lomdlalo wamaFrentshi, uFantômas, lathi: "Ukuthozama kuyisimboli sengqondo." Naluphina ulwazi olunikelayo, nokuba luncinci, luzakuhlolwa. Ukuba ummeli okanye umqeshi uyazisola ukuba amagama akho ayinyani, ngoko yonke idatha yakho iya kuphathwa ngokuthe ngqo. Akukho mntu uya kuthanda ukulala. Kufuneka uphulaphule ngokucophelela amagama kunye nemibuzo yommeli oqhuba udliwano-ndlebe. Ungalokothi unike iimpendulo ezingaphenduliyo kumbuzo. Kungcono ukuphendula nangona mibuzo eqhelekileyo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ungathumeli ummeli kumaxwebhu okanye uqale kwakhona, ukuba ubuzwa imibuzo ethile. Akunjalo, musa ukushiya impendulo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awuyiqondi kakuhle umbuzo, ke unganqikazi ukubuza ummeleli kwakhona ukuze kungabi nakwiimeko ezingaxakekiyo. Khumbula ukuba imibuzo yakho inxalenye efanayo yendalo yonxibelelwano njengemibuzo yommeleli. Xa udliwano-ndlebe luphelile, musa ukulibala ukubulela ummeli wenyaniso yokuba unikwe ixesha.
Yiyiphi imibuzo enokuthi ivezwe kummeli ngexesha lodliwano-ndlebe? Into eqhelekileyo kubo yile: "Kutheni ushiye umsebenzi wakho wangaphambili?" Lapha, akufanele uthi izinto ezimbi malunga nomphathi wakho okanye osebenza nabo, mhlawumbi unokuphosakela ngombhinqa. Yenza isizathu esivakalayo, umzekelo, awuzange unelisekile ngomvuzo okanye kwindawo yokusebenzela yayingekho kude nekhaya. Ngokuchasene noko, khankanya zonke iimpawu zendawo yangaphambili yomsebenzi ukwenzela ukuba ube nombono oncomekayo kummeli.
Omnye umbuzo obalulekileyo: "Usebenza phi ngoku"? Lo ngumbuzo ophazamisayo. Ukuba awunayo umsebenzi okwangoku, kufuneka uxoxe ngoku ngenyameko. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uthe "akukho ndawo", ummeleli uya kufumana ingcamango yokuba awufuni ukufumana indawo engunaphakade yomsebenzi. Ngokuchasene noko, yakha amagama akho ngendlela enokuthi umntu odibanisa naye uthembele emsebenzini wakho. Bonisa ummeli wakho ukuba uyazi indlela oziphatha ngayo ngodliwano-ndlebe xa uqesha, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo umntu uya kwintlanganiso yakho.
Umbuzo wesithathu owaziwayo: "Kutheni ufuna ukusebenzisana nathi?" Akumangalisi, kodwa lo ngumbuzo obaluleke kakhulu, omele uphendulwe ngokuchanekileyo ngokunokwenzeka. Zama kwizibonelelo eziqhelekileyo ukubonisa ubuchule bakho kulo mbandela kunye nolwazi lweshishini lakho nokuba yintoni na le nkampani. Sitshele ngemiphumo yale nkampani, kodwa kungekhona nje ukuba uyayibuyisela incwadi, kodwa ukuba uyayithanda ngokwenene impumelelo yenkampani. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuphumelela ingqalelo yommeli iya kubakho ukubonakaliswa kweempahla eziveliswa yinkampani. Nceda uchaze umsebenzi kunye nesakhiwo senkampani ngokukhawuleza njengoko kunokwenzeka. Kwaye ekupheleni kwempendulo yalo mbuzo, sixelele malunga nento ongayenza ukuze wenze imicimbi yenkampani iphumelele ngakumbi.