Umsebenzi wethu kukuma ekhosini "ofisi" ngaphandle kokungena kwi-cage "uxinzelelo" kwaye ngokukodwa ngokugqithisela "inxungulo" yeseli! Ngoko, usuku olukhulu lusondela: iholide iphelile, ishishini lomthonyama liza kuphinda lithathele kwiindawo ezilungeleyo zeengcali. Ukuhamba kwethu! Ukudlala, tshela, "kwiMonopoly", unethemba lokufumana ithuba. Kodwa kumdlalo omkhulu wezemidlalo, ukungahambi ngokukhawuleza akusiyo indawo, ngoko siya kufunda igama eliphambili- "ucwangciso"! Indlela yokuya emsebenzini emva kwekhefu lokubeleka kunye nokwenza ntoni?
Siqikelela ukuhamba
Ngokukhawuleza xa sihamba ngekhefu lokubeleka, siyaqonda ukuba kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kufuneka sibuyele emsebenzini. Kodwa ngelixa umntwana esincinane, siqhuba le ngcamango. Hayi, kukho, ngokwenene, abaphambili abaphambili bezemidlalo abagijimela kwiintetho ngqo kwiibhedlele, kodwa oku kungaphezulu. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana uyakhula, kwaye iingcinga malunga nomsebenzi azikwazi ukunyanzelwa. Thina siomama, oko kuthetha ukuba abafazi banobulumko kwaye banengqiqo (ubuncinci, sinokubonisa ukubonakalisa ubuso obufanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo!). Ngokuqhelekileyo, siyazi: ukufihla intloko yakho entlabathi akusona isicwangciso esihle kakhulu. Lungiselela ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka. Ingxaki yenombolo: cinga ukuba ubani oya kumntwana naye. I-kindergarten (i-state, eyimfihlo okanye yasekhaya), unomntwana osisigxina, umntwana obusana kunye nogogo-nangona kunjalo, ukukhangela ukhetho kufuneka kwenziwe ngaphambili, ingakumbi ukususela ekubeni ifowuni yesibini inxulumene namaxwebhu ahlukeneyo-ikhadi elinye lonyango lingathatha ixesha elininzi. Ngethuba elifanayo, kufuneka silungiselele umntwana ngokutshintshela "izandla" zomntu. Funda iinkondlo okanye iincwadi malunga neentlobo zokufundela kunye naye, hambahamba eduze kwegadi yakho ezayo, sitshele indlela abantwana abahlala ngayo. Ukuba uncelisa kwaye ufuna, nangona kunjalo, ukubuyela emsebenzini, ungazama ukugcina ukutya: kunzima, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Ngokwe-Art. 258 I-TC RF yabasebenzi abasetyhini kunye nabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-1.5 banikezwa ikhefu elongezelelweyo lokunyusa umntwana ubuncinane nganye iiyure ezintathu-ubuncinane imizuzu engama-30 nganye. Ngelishwa, kwisixeko esikhulu, nokuba le mizuzu ayinakwanela ukushiya umntwana. Ngesicelo sikamama kwaye ngokubonisana nolawulo, ezi zikhefu zinokudibaniswa kwaye zinikezelwe ekupheleni okanye ekuqaleni komhla wokusebenza okanye ziqhotyoshelwe kwikhefu lesidlo sasemini, ezinika ithuba lokuhamba. Enye indlela yokuphuma koomama abaselula banomsebenzi othile. Ukusebenza kwithuba lexeshana, umsebenzi wokulinganisa umlinganiselo-mhlawumbi, abaphathi baya kulungelelanisa ukhetho olunjalo. Oku kunokusindiswa okwenene: ungakhathazeki, kwaye ucele zonke iintyelelo kwiklinikhi. Makhe ufumane umvuzo omncinci - amathambo amaninzi! Ngokukodwa kuba akusiyo ngonaphakade: xa umntwana ekhula, unako ukuzinikela kumsebenzi ngokupheleleyo.
Sakha ubudlelwane kunye nabalingani kumdlalo
Ngelixa sihlezi ekhaya kwikhilomti elithulileyo, musa ukulibala ngalabo bahlala bebhadayo elwandle oluqhwithiyo. Gcina ubudlelwane kunye noogxa kunye nosebenze ubudlelwane bokusebenza ngaphambi kokuba ubuyele eofisini. Kufuneka ukuba uhambe kwiindlela ezintathu. Okokuqala, kufuneka ufumane umshicileli wenkampani okanye uphendule indawo yenkampani yakho. Izindlela ezintsha zomsebenzi, iimveliso ezintsha, ukutyunjwa okutsha kulabo okanye kwamanye amasebe ... Kubalulekile ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi kangangokuthi laliqondakala ngokukhawuleza: ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba awukho ngexesha elide, kodwa kusekho kwimicimbi yonke! Okwesibini, bizela iintombi zakho ezivela emsebenzini uze uzibize kwiintlanganiso ezincinci kwi-cafe. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba uzikhumbule ngokwenene, ukwenzela ukuba xa ungena eofisini, awunakucingwa njengokuba uvukile ekungabikho nto. Ukongeza, loo ntla nganiso iya kunceda ufunde ingxwaba yakutshanje, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu: i-possession "yemfihlo" yolwazi iya kunceda ukukhusela i-oversights ekubuyeleni. Ungathethi uvuyo onokufumana xa uthetha nabahlobo bakho! Okwesithathu, kutheni ungaceli umphathi wakho malunga nentlanganiso yeveki 2-3 ngaphambi kokuphela kweeholide? Le yindlela ecacileyo yokucacisa imeko, uya kuxubusha imiqathango yokubuyisela, thetha ngeenguqu ezenzeka ngexesha lokungabikho. Ukongeza, bonisa abaphathi ukuba bayavuya ukubuyela kumsebenzi wobomi osebenzayo!
Sibeka iimbophu
Asiyiva ingqungquthela ekuseni, kodwa "ixesha" liyasondela. Ukulungiselela "imfazwe" yokugqibela kubandakanya amanyathelo ambalwa ebalulekileyo: ukwenzela ukuba bangakhathali, kufuneka basasazwe iintsuku ezine. Kwiintsuku ezi-4, ukuba awuzange wenze oko kwangaphambili, cinga ulutsha lwakhe "umama wesibini". Enyanisweni, ukuba unina ozithandayo uya kuvelisa umntwana, inkqubo yokunyamezela iza kuququzelelwa, kwaye kunye ne-nanny kuyimfuneko ukuzisa ngokuthe ngcembe: ukuhlala kunye ekhaya - ukunika umntwana ukuba axolelane nobuso bolunye uhlanga. Emva koko kulungile ukuhamba kwindawo ezithandwa ngumntwana, ngokukhawuleza uziye wedwa kunye nomntwana wonke ixesha elide kwaye lide. Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukuzalisa ifriji kunye nefriji. Kufuneka uzame ukubonela phambili yonke into ibe yinto ephezulu, umnqweno wakho awuyi kuhamba ngeentengiso kwiveki yokuqala yokusebenza. Ukongeza kwimveliso, cinga ngezinto, iimveliso kunye namachiza kumntwana, ngakumbi ukuba akahlali ekhaya, kodwa uya kwintsimi okanye kumakhulu. Kufuneka kubekho into engxowa yabantwana "yokuphuma ekukhanyeni"! Qinisekisa ukuba kungekuphela wena kunye nomntwana ukulungele utshintsho, kodwa uyise wentsapho uqaphela ukuba iqalo elitsha ebomini bakho liqala. Ewe, ukuba uthatha umntwana kumyezo okanye ugogo-ke awuyi kuba neentloni, kwaye unokuzicingela wena ...! Ngeentsuku ezi-3, lungiselela kwaye ushitshise izitya ezininzi: ngaloo ndlela, ngowokuqala, kunzima kakhulu, ukuhlwa phambi kwakho akuyi kuba nombuzo ongunaphakade: "Yintoni esinayo yokutya?". Kufuneka sigcine i-wardrobe: hlamba kunye neembethe iimpahla kwiveki yonke - kwaye kungekhona nje eyakho, kodwa kunye nosana lwakho! Musa ukulibala ukubeka iinguqu ezininzi kwiingubo. Ngeentsuku ezi-2 sibhekisele: sifuna kwimemori, nokuba konke kwenziwa? Indlu engabonakaliyo? Invoyisi ezingakhokhelwa? Kukho ixesha lokuzalisa izikhalazo! Bhala zonke iifowuni ezifunekayo ukuthetha nomntwana ukuba engekho ekhaya. Yenza uluhlu lweefowuni zokufumana umntwana, kunye nokubhala urhulumente wosuku, ukutya komntwana, qi niqiniseke ukuba uchaza iimveliso ayenayo. Unokuxelela umongikazi ngokuvakalayo ngamaxesha amaninzi, kodwa kukhuselekile ukurekhoda. Xoxa nomhlengikazi oko kufuneka akwenze xa umntwana ekhubaza, uyagula, - ngokubanzi, landela umgaqo othi "nzima ukufunda - kulula ukulwa." Ngomhla. Kuphumla! Ngaloo mini, i-theoretically, akufanele sibe nemicimbi kunye nomsebenzi ongajabulisiyo nonke. Sithemba umongikazi wethu wezanyana, kwaye sizenza thina. Kuphela kufuneka uphumule. Ungazikhanyeli nto - ekuqaleni kwe "imfazwe" kufuneka ujabule kwaye uphumule!
Siqala kwaye siphume!
Ngomsindo, ukubuyela emsebenzini kuya kufaniswa novavanyo olunzima. Kodwa, ukuba sivuselela oonxibelelwano kunye noogxa kunye / okanye ngokuphambili ngokukhawuleza, uhambo lokuqala ukuya eofisini luhamba kunye noxinzelelo oluncinci. Zama ukubonisa imifanekiso yengane kaninzi - nokuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuziqhayisa "ngomsebenzi" wakho. Yonke into incike kwiimeko kwiqela, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi iziphathimandla zilindele izenzo zesebenzi, zingabhatali ngokukhethekileyo iinkonzo zethu zabazali. Ukubonakaliswa okungabonakaliyo kwezithombe zobushushu kuyacaphukisa umphathi kwaye kusenze sicinge ukuba asikakulungeli umsebenzi osebenzayo. Ukuthintela kunceda kakhulu ekuqaleni, de uze uzibonakalise ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ngelo xesha, akukho nto inqanda ukufaka esikhwameni isikhwama semifanekiso emihle yengane - xa umntu othile ngokukhawuleza ufuna ukuyixabisa! Kwaye, ke, musa ukubiza yonke imizuzu engamashumi amathathu umongikazi okanye utitshala. Enyanisweni, akukho zizathu zokukhathazeka, kwaye ukuba kukho iingxaki, uya kuqhagamshelana.