Umsebenzi wabasetyhini kwikhefu lomzali

Umsebenzi okanye umama? Abasetyhini banamhlanje abahluphekanga loo mbuzo. Ngenxa yokuba bajamelana nazo zombini. Umsebenzi wabasetyhini kwikhefu lokunakekelwa kwabantwana ngumsebenzi onzima. Kodwa ulungeleleneyo.

Hlala uLeonardo da Vinci ngexesha lethu, ngoko umfanekiso othi "iMadonna neNyana" ngokuqinisekileyo yayiyifumana i-laptop, ifowuni kunye nenqwaba yamaxwebhu. Okwenyaniso yinto enamandla kangangokuthi kuphela abantu abanegunya elinamandla abanakho kwisigqi sayo. Emva koko, kungekudala emva kokubeleka, bafunde ukwenza yonke into engama-24 iiyure: zombini ukuhlala nomntwana kunye nokusebenza ukwenza. Imfihlelo kukuba abayi kuchitha ixesha elilodwa lobomi babo ngeze.

Ukukhangela kwisekela

Ukuba uthe wagqiba ekubeni ngumama osebenzayo, ngoko umbuzo wokuqala ofuneka ugqibe ngawo: obani omele ushiye umntwana, ngoxa usenkonzweni? Zininzi iindlela zokukhetha. Khetha eyodwa.

Uninakhulu uTata

Ezi zihlobo kunye nabathandi, zikulungele ukuchitha kunye nexesha lonke. Ewe, kunye namava kubazali bakho abanomdla, emva koko, bakukhupha! Ukuba ugqiba ukuthemba ithemba lakho kunye nabo, xelela ngemibono yakho ekukhuliseni, ukuqaliswa kokutya okuncedisayo, urhulumente. Chaza ukuba awudingi ukunika umntwana naluphi na ijusi (kunye ne-frash kunye ne-apula eqoqwe kwintsimi yakho). Uxolo: i-diapers ayiyingozi xa iguqulwa nganye iiyure ezintathu. Ndikholelwe, awuyi kukhubekisa unina okanye uninazala! Izigqibo nje malunga nosana kufuneka zithathwe nguwe kunye nomyeni wakho kwaye akukho mntu.

NURSE

Iziphakamiso ezigqwesileyo kunye namava aneleyo - kungekhona uluhlu olupheleleyo lweemfuno ze-nanny. Into ephambili kukuba uphatha umntwana ngomphefumlo, wayazi indlela yokufumana indlela. Umsebenzi wabasetyhini kunye nomntwana kufuneka usekelwe ekuqondeni ngokuvisisana, kwaye kungekhona kuphela ekusebenzeni kwemisebenzi yabo yangoku. Jonga ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba imvumba yomntu omtsha ithatha njani. Ngaba bahamba ngokumangalisayo phambi kwakho? Emva koko ushiye kubo iyure nesiqingatha. Ukuba olu vavanyo lukhangelekile, ngoko ufumene umntu ofanelekileyo.

Ngekhefu lokutya

Unokusebenza kunye nesondlo sebele. Kufuneka ucinge nje kwinkqubo. Ngoko ke, uyanqanda ubisi ngaphambi kokuba ushiye umsebenzi. Kwaye umntwana uyayiphuza ... ngepuni (okanye kwibhotile, apho endaweni yesipuni - i-spoon).

Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye inketho. Ngethuba lesidlo sasemini, uye kwinqwelo yokutya kwaye uthethe naye. Ngaba akunjalo? Emva koko, fumana umsebenzi emsebenzini kwaye udlulise isikhwama esitywinwe sekhaya lebisi. Kwiimeko ezinzima, cela umfana okanye ugogo ukuba alethe umntwana eofisini. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu: ngelixa ekhefu ukunyamekela umntwana, musa ukucima ukondla ebusuku. Ziluncedo kuzo zombini. Ungathethi ukuba mnandi!

Uvuyo lwentlanganiso nganye

Umama uya emsebenzini, umntwana usengxenyeni lomntwana okanye ugogo ugxeka. Umfanekiso usemnandi ... Kodwa ayiyiyo. Ngethuba lokuqala, mhlawumbi kuya kuba. Kodwa ke yonke into iya kutshintsha. Umntwana uya kulila, ekuboneni. Kwaye ngokuhamba ngasese, kwi-tiptoe ukuze angaboni, okanye aphele, ngelixa elele, ayikho indlela yokuphuma. Ngokuchasene noko, izenzo ezinjalo ziza kwandisa ingxaki. I-crumb nje ayiyi kufuna ukukuvumela ukuba uhambe. Kuya ku soyika ngelinye ilanga umama uya kulahleka ngonaphakade.

Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza yichaza encinane ukuba kutheni kwaye uya kuphi. " Uphinde uphinde uphindwe amaxesha amaninzi ukuba uya kubuyela. Vumela umntwana angayiqondi amagama, kodwa ukuzithemba kwizwi lakho kuya kumqinisekisa ukuba yonke into iya kulungile.

- Xelela umntwana wakho omdala ixesha apho uya kubuya ekhaya. Njalo gcina ilizwi linikwe unyana okanye intombi yakho.

- Ewe, kunzima ukuhlula. Kodwa ungayibonakali kwi-crumb, ungalili, ungadli. Cinga ngento yokuba imini iya kubhabha ngokukhawuleza. Ngobusuku uya kudibana kwaye uvumelane ngokuqinile.

Ngomthetho

Ngoku awuyena nje umqeshwa - ungumama. Kwaye ulawulo kufuneka lithathe le meko ingqalelo. Emsebenzini, ibhinqa kwikhefu lomzali linelungelo leenzuzo ezithile. Ngokomzekelo, kwezinye iinkampani ibhinqa isabelwa ukulahlwa kowesifazane ukuze abuyele ekhaya ukunyusa umntwana. Kodwa nangona umbutho wakho ungaboneleli ngolo hlobo, unomama omncinci unamalungelo akhethekileyo achazwe ngumthetho. Uvumelekile ukuba uthathe ikhefu yeeyure zonke iiyure ezintathu (ukuba ngaba abantwana babini, ke umthunywa). Ofisi ecaleni kwendlu? Emva koko sondla umntwana kwisicelo sokuqala. Usuku olusebenzayo oluncitshisiweyo lusekunene. Unokushiya umsebenzi ngaphambili: isiqingatha seyure - yonke imihla okanye iiyure ezimbini kunye nesiqingatha - ngoLwesihlanu (okanye nayiphi na imini).