Intombazana ekwiqela lamadoda

Kukho uluvo lokuba amabhinqa eklasini lamadoda asebenza ngokulula kwaye enonwabo. Oku kusebenza kulabo baqala nje umsebenzi. Yaye le ngcamango iphosakeleyo. Kwiqela, apho amadoda amaninzi asebenza khona, inani elikhulu leengxowa. Kwaye ukutsho ukuba kulula kakhulu ukusebenza kubasetyhini kwintlangano enjalo kukuthetha into engeyonyani.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kubonakala ngathi kumantombazana ukuba ukuba nguye kuphela phakathi kwamadoda angamadoda, kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo amnyamekele, anike ingqwalasela, azincoma iintlanzi kwaye ancede azalise imisebenzi yakhe ngqo. Hayi, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, indoda ayiyi kuba ngumncedisi wakho, kodwa kunokuba ube ngumlingani. Akukho nto eyahlukileyo kuye ukuba ungumfazi.

Ungayifumana njani iqela lamadoda?
Ukusebenza phakathi kwamadoda, umntu kufuneka azame aze afaneleke ngokusemthethweni kwiqela lawo lamadoda. Kufuneka sikhunjulwe ukuba emsebenzini, okokuqala, ngabasebenzi. Kwaye yonke imihla yokusebenza le ngcamango akufanele ikushiye.

Ukuba unquma ukusebenzisana namadoda, ngoko ukuziphatha kwakho kufuneka kuqiniseke kwaye kucace. Ukuqonda iingxaki ngokwabo, ukuncedisa oogxa bazama ukuthabatha ngokungabonakali kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Oku kuya kukwandisa ukuthembeka kwakho emehlweni abo. Umthetho unjalo njengomntu, ulandela iipatheni zokuziphatha. Le yindlela yodwa yokufumana ukuthembela kwabo kunye nentlonipho. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubalwa.

Abalingani-amadoda abathandi ukusigxotha isigqibo semibandela ebhokisini elide. Thatha izigqibo zakho zomsebenzi ngokukhawuleza, ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ungesabi nantoni na. Khumbula ukuba amadoda axolela ngokulula iimpazamo.

Kodwa akufuneki ukulibala malunga neentlobo zamabhinqa okanye. Zama ukuyisebenzisa ngokulinganayo. Oku kuya kunceda nje umsebenzi wakho. Sitshisa izandla zakho, zikhala, ukuba iphoso lakho lisebenza kakubi. Kuya kukukhupha, ngenxa yokuba abantu abathandi iintlungu zabesifazane. Kodwa ungazivumeli ukuba uhambe. Amanyathelo anjalo aya kusebenza kuphela kwiimeko ezinzulu. Ngaphandle koko, ukuvakalelwa ngokwemvakalelo kuya kukulimaza.

Akuyimfuneko ukuba ujabule emehlweni abo osebenza nabo, ukuba ufumana indumiso kubasemagunyeni ngomsebenzi owenziwe ngokufanelekileyo. Uninzi luya kukhangeleka kwindlela yakho. Kule nqanaba uya kugqiba ukuba emehlweni abo uchwepheshe ohloniphekileyo. Unokuvumela kuphela ukumomotheka. Zonke ezinye iimvakalelo kufuneka zithinte.

Musa ukutyhila iimfihlelo zakho kwaye ungalokothi ukhonkwenzele oogxa malunga nesoka lakho. Nangona uziphatha kakubi nawe, uhlala engumntu. Ngoko ke, oogxa bakho abayi kumela wena, kodwa kuye. Musa ukubonisana kwaye ungadlulisi umphefumlo, ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kuqonda.

Khetha ngokufanelekileyo izizathu zonxibelelwano kunye nezihloko zengxoxo. Ukuxubusha kwiingqungquthela zabantu, incoko kufuneka inomdla kubo bonke abakhona.

Ungazami ukuba ngabahlobo bakaMama. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwinqanaba labasetyhini labeka ingxaki kummelwane. Umyeni kunye nabantwana akufanele balambile, indlu isoloko ipholile kwaye ishushu. Kodwa ekhaya! Kumsebenzi, ngoko unakekele oogxa abafanelekanga. Unomama okanye abafazi babo, kuba ababazisi nabo eofisini.

Ukuhleka kobubi bendalo akufanele kubekho nhlobo. Ukuzikhusela ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukukhathala kwiimemo ezidlala kumabhayisikobho okanye kumhla. Njengomgaqo, oku kuphelela njalo kungekho. Kulo lathiso lwakho amahlaya angamaqabunga aya kubhabha, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukugxothwa emsebenzini kuya kulandela.

Isitala seengubo kufuneka sihlale sisomashishini. Izambatho ezihlambulukileyo, imihlobiso eninzi iphuma endlwini. Abathandekayo abasebenzelayo abazange bahlawule ingqalelo kwizinto ezinjalo. Kuyafaneleka ukuba nesitayela somsebenzi kwiingubo. Kwaye kwimpahla yakho yomsebenzi kufuneka ibe yimigangatho yesigqoko sesigqabi samadoda: ibhatyi, ibhulukhwe, umtya. Umkhonto akufanele ube mfutshane. Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yamadoda egqoke kwiimpahla zoshishino, uya kujonga kakhulu.

Xa siza kusebenza kwinkampani yamadoda, kufuneka sibonise ngokucacileyo zonke iimeko ezinokwenzeka. Kodwa ukuba uthe wagqiba kwelokuba usebenze ngokubambisana namadoda, ngoko soloko usenokuba ngumntu onyanisekileyo, onyanisekileyo nendalo. Ngoko unokwakha umsebenzi ngaphandle kwemigudu, kwaye ubudlelwane kunye nabalingani bobudoda buya kuba nobungane.

Abasetyhini abangamkeliyo okanye abaziqondi le meko baya kulahleka. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ufunde kwangaphambi kwengqondo yengqesho kwinkampani yamadoda.