Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule umbuzo: "Indlela yokunxibelelana namadoda kwi-intanethi", makhe sijonge amadoda angamaqhina ngokwawo. Sahlula "i-Internet guys" kwiindidi kwaye sidibanisa ngamnye wabo.
1. "Iibhokisi zeengxoxo"
La madoda aqhele ukuthetha kuphela kunye nekhompyutha esebenzayo. Abaphindi umgomo njengentlanganiso yangempela kunye nawe. Banomdla wokunxibelelana njengaloo ndlela, ukubonisa ulwalamano olulula, kodwa akukho nto. Ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bafazi abatshatileyo okanye i-romantic romantics. Ngamanye amaxesha, phakathi kwabo unokudibana nomnxibelelwano othakazelisayo, unxibelelwano olunokuthi lukhule lube ngumhlobo. Ngoko ke, ukuba uninzi lwexesha elikhululekile kwaye akukho mnqweno wokumhlangabeza ngokwenene, ngoko olu hlobo lwanxibelelwano lufanelekile kuwe.
2. "Ngqongqo"
Eli candelo liquka amadoda awaziyo afunayo kunye neenjongo zabo zichazwe ngokucacileyo kwimilayezo yazo. Abanye bafuna umfazi, inkosikazi yesibini, intombazana yesithathu ekuhambeni ngokubambisana. Kodwa iinjongo zabo azikho ibinzana elingenanto. Bavame ukukhawuleza ukudibana nobomi bokwenene. Emva koko, bayangxama ukusebenzisa ixesha labo elixabisekileyo kwi-candidate. Bangabantu, kwaye, njengoko siyazi, bathanda ngamehlo abo.
3. "Abantu abanothando"
Kunqabile kakhulu, kodwa kusekho njalo. Laba bafana abaluleka kubungqina bentombazana, iimvakalelo zabo namava. Baya kukucebisa ngokunyanisekileyo, uncedo, nakwiimeko ezinzima, inkxaso. Bangabhala inkondlo okanye iprose ezinikezelwe kuwe. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba ahambe.
4. "Uxhalabele"
Uhlobo oluqhelekileyo nolunqwenelekayo lwamadoda kwintetho ye-Intanethi. Ukunxibelelana nawe, bakumela ngokunyanisekileyo, ingcikizo yokulingana, njl njl. Bahlala bethetha ngesini kunye nokubonakaliswa kwayo. Ungabi namahloni kumazwi abo, usebenzisa inhlamba. Ngokuqhelekileyo lawa madoda anesigxina sezinto ezinzima okanye amadoda anganelisekanga ebomini obusondeleyo.
Kwaye ke, makhe sijonge kwiintlobo zokunxibelelana nabafana nge-Intanethi. Kulula kakhulu kunokoqobo. Emva koko, awukwazi ukubonisa iifoto zakho zangempela, ukuba unentloni yokubonakala kwakho. Okanye mhlawumbi ufuna ukugqithwa ngokugqithiseleyo, ngoko unokubeka umhla ozahlukileyo wokuzalwa. Kwaye ngokubanzi, into enokuyenza apho ufuna. Ngoko ngobomi bokwenene akuyi kusebenza.
Awubhekanga kumntu ebusweni. Oku kukuvumela ukuba uzive ukhululekile, uzizithemba. Awusabi ukuthetha into engalunganga, kuba isicatshulwa sakho sinokulungiswa ngaphambi kokuyithumela. Awuyikwesaba kwaye ungesabi ukubheka ubuwula, akanakukubona!
Unokukhetha ukuba ngubani othetha naye, kwaye ungubani na. Mhlawumbi umntu sele esele akukhathaze, okanye uyaphikelela, imilomo. Ngoko uyayisusa kwiluhlu lwabahlobo bakho kwaye yile nto. Akukho bani ukunika umyalelo.
Ngalo nxibelelo, unokwazi ukubonisa nayiphi na ingcinga. Ngokukodwa abo oza kuhlala uhlala kunye nawe uhlala naye. Unokuxoxa ngezihloko eziqhelekileyo kunye nezihloko zobuqu. Sitshele ngeminqweno yakho kunye nokwesaba. Kwaye konke oku kuya kuncitshiswa kuphela kubonxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo.
Inzuzo enkulu yalolu hlobo lonxibelelwano kukuba unokwakha ubuhlobo bakho ngokukhawuleza. Ukuqinisekiswa ngokuthe ngcembe isinyathelo ngasinye, ukucinga ngeengxelo zabo, ukuphendula imibuzo. Xa ebomini bokwenene ngokuqhelekileyo akukho xesha elaneleyo lokucinga ngamagama akho.
Kodwa kukho ukuphazamiseka kokuthandana kolu hlobo.
1. "Ikati kwiSaka"
Ungakwazi ukunxibelelana nomntu oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala, omhle, onokuphefumula, ofumana imali efanelekileyo. Kwaye kuvela ukuba ungumntu okhukhumelekileyo kwaye onobuncwane bezityalo, onokuzithemba kakhulu. Okanye umntu ongcolayo onokuzithokozisa onokukugcoba kwaye ujabule ngento yokuba uholwa ngamanga akhe kunye neengcamango zakhe.
2. "nje nje umkhonto"
Masibuyele kumfana onobuhle obabhala amagama amahle kuwe kwaye uncoko olunzulu. Unxibelelwano ixesha elide, uyithande kakhulu, kwaye ngoku yisikhathi sokutshintshana kwezithombe. Okokuqala wakuthumela iifoto zakhe, wajonga waza wanyuka. Emva koko uthumele imifanekiso yakho. Uyabaxabisa kwaye wonke umntu uyavuya. Kwasekuseni, ukuvula ikhomputha, uloyiko ukuqonda ukuba unentsholongwane. Ngaphezu koko, unokusebenzisa iifoto zakho ukudala i-akhawunti engamanga, njl.
3. "Abaceli"
Unxibelelana nomfana nge-Intanethi ixesha elide. Ulungile kakhulu, wenza ubungane naye, unemixholo emininzi yokuthetha. Ucinga ukuba utsho yonke into ngaye, malunga nobomi bakhe. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza, uxelela ukuba uyagula kakhulu. Kwaye akanakho iireyure eziliwaka kuphela ukusebenza. Njengoko uyenze ukwenza kule meko, ngowakho. Kodwa lo "umtshato," okwenene.
Unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo kunye nabafana nge-intanethi lunokukunceda ufumane umphefumlo wakho umlingane, qha ga mshelana nabantu, kodwa kungabangela ukungabikho okubi. Omnye akufanele akhohlwe ukuba ukuthetha kunye nabafana ebomini bokwenene kunomdla ngakumbi kunokuba usebenzisa i-intanethi, usebenzisa ikhompyutha. Nazi iimvakalelo kunye namava okuphila, ezininzi iindlela zokuthandana kunye neziphumo zayo. Unokukuqonda ngokukhawuleza uhlobo luni lomntu. Kodwa unokuzitshisa, okuqinisekileyo, okubuhlungu kakhulu. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, xa uye esikolweni, wawa waza wathengisa ngamadolo. Kodwa ufunde ukuhamba, nanko kuyafana. Into ephambili ayiyikiyo kwaye ayifuni ukuxinezeleka kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezingaphumeleli. Emva koko, abafana, bobabini kwi-intanethi kunye nobomi bokwenene babi kwaye bathetha, kodwa unokufunda ukuyiqonda kunye nolwalamano olukhawulezileyo kwaye lungcono. Kodwa ke, fumana umphefumlo wakho umlingane, ngubani oza kuhlala nawe kunye nesandla sokubamba, okanye akwazi ukumbumbana nokubanga, qhubeka ezandleni zakho. Unxibelelwano olunjani olungenakukunika.
Yenza ngokwakho. Indlela yokunxibelelana namadoda kwi-intanethi ifike kuwe, wonke umntu unenyaniso yakhe. Ukuqwalasela konke esikuxelele ngako, uya kukwazi ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo kuyo nayiphi na "uhlobo" lwamadoda angqinileyo. Zama nje ukukhetha indlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana. Emva koko, ukunxibelelana nabafana ngekhompyutheni yindlela enhle yokwenza abantu ababaziyo kakuhle, kodwa kwakhona ngumgibe omkhulu, indebe yokudumala. Kodwa ude uzame, akunjalo, akunjalo?