Wonke umntu ufuna ukuvela njengomntu onobumba obuninzi, ngoko ke, ohlakaniphileyo, onobuqili, onokuthenjwa, owona mfuneko kakhulu kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, enhle kakhulu. Ibhinqa elimnika ithuba elinjalo ayikwazi ukubonisa ingqalelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abayithandi into oyiyo, kodwa ngubani na ongasemva kwakho. Yenza oko ukuze kulandele kuwe ubonakala ngathi unkulunkulu. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngeendlela ezili-10 ezifanelekileyo zokuphumelela intliziyo yomntu.
- Indoda kufuneka iphulaphule kakuhle, mhlawumbi ngaphandle kokuphazamisa. Kungcono ukulandela inkambo yenkcazelo kwaye, kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo, ukugubha, ukugubungela nokugubungela, ukugcina inqaku elichaphazelekayo ebusweni. Ukudibanisa kwingxoxo kwaye ubonise ukuhlakanipha kwakho akufanelekanga, ngoku umsebenzi wethu kukukwenza ukuze akwazi ukuthetha nawe. Kwaye kufuneka ixubushe kakhulu. Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uziphatha njenge-Chinese idiot, kwaye nangakumbi oko, akufanelekile ukucinga ngokucinga ngaphesheya. Iimbali ezinobulumko ezinokuthi ziza kunceda imbangela, kodwa ungasuswa. Sekunjalo, nokuba yintoni abasitshele yona, abayithandi abafazi abahlakaniphile.
- Khumbula, ngeli nqanaba ohlakaniphileyo nguye. Ungalibali ukumxelela malunga nayo rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. I-Flattery ingaba nzima njengokuba kunokwenzeka, ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bayakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo kwiindawo zabo ezizodwa. Into eyodwa - makungabikho ukuncoma kwakho kwindlela ethile ehambelana nencoko. Ukuba akayena mhle kakhulu, musa ukucula iingoma zokubukeka kwayo-mhlawumbi uqikelele ngokucacileyo le parameters kwaye akakholelwa yintente. Ndikucebisa ukuba ugxininise iimpawu zakhe zomntu, ingqondo kunye nesibindi. Njengomthetho, akukho mntu uya kuzikhanyela ukukholelwa ngamazwi akho athi kwimicimbi yobuninzi uyadlula bonke abazalwana bakhe.
- Mcele ukuba akuncede, kuba ungobuqili, unesibindi, kwaye awukwazi ukukhuseleka kwaye akunakulungele ukulungelelanisa ubunzima bomi. Amadoda athile anqwenela ukunceda nokuziva iimvakalelo zabasetyhini abangenakunceda. Musa nje ukumcela ukuba atyumbe iibhedi ezimbalwa okanye ahambe kwikhabhinethi enkulu, umthwalo ongenakuwukholisa. Khetha into ekhuselekileyo, ngokukhethekileyo oko akwenzayo. Mhlawumbi unobungcali bekhompyutheni okanye umsebenzisi ophakathi kweminyaka? Ewe, makakuncede ufake i-Photoshop kwaye mhlawumbi uze unike izifundo ezimbalwa. Akukho nto isondeleyo kunye nexesha elichithwe ixesha lokudlala.
- Ngoko zizenzele izinto zokuzilibazisa njengaye. Uthanda i poker? Ndiza kufuneka ndifunde, kwaye kungcono nokuba umcele ukuba akufundise. Ukuqokelela imali? Omkhulu, uye wahlala ephupha ukuba ngumntu onokubala. Funda iincwadi ngesihloko, ubuze imibuzo embalwa, kodwa ingabalulekanga kakhulu, khetha into engathathi hlangothi ukuze ikwazi ukutshintsha i-erudition. Kulungile, ukuba umdlalo wakho oqhelekileyo uya kubakho kwixesha lokubambisana. Inketho efanelekileyo kukuzingela ubutyebi. Kuyinto enothando kakhulu ukuhamba kwendalo ekukhangekeni kwezinto zangaphambili. Unokwenza umdlalo ofana naye, uye ekamelweni elifanayo. Into eyona nto ayengayithandi ukuloba kweqhwa - kungekhona ishishini labasetyhini ...
- Mnike inkonzo encinci kodwa enomdla. Mhlawumbi uqokelela izitampu, kodwa ngaba unesibini esinqabileyo? Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuyiswa ngesipho kwaye umeme ukuba sidle ukuze sidumise. Ukuba usebenza kunye, unokukuxhasa ngokuziphatha ngokuphathelele kwiprojekthi elandelayo, okanye uncede uncinci emsebenzini. Kuphela akukho mzekelo kufuneka senze lo msebenzi kuye - umsebenzi wethu kuphela ukuba ube khona ngexesha elifanelekileyo kwaye unike inkxaso.
- Ngamanye amaxesha indlela eya entliziyweni yendoda ilala ngaphakathi esiswini. Zama ukufumanisa oko kutya kwakhe okuthandayo kwaye umphekele. Awunayo ukubonisa ingqalelo yakho ngokucacileyo, unokupheka bonke oogxa okanye abahlobo, ukuba uchitha ixesha kwikomiti elinye, ulandelele ukuba akahlali ehlanjululwe waza wabona indlela ocolileyo opheka ngayo. Ngokukhethekileyo, ukuba umntu ovela kubahlobo bakho uya kubonga ngokukhululekileyo iitalente zakho zokutya.
- Ihlala isebenza ngendlela ebizwa ngokuba "isihlwele sabalandeli." Owesifazane ohlakaniphile uyazi indlela yokuzungezezela abalandeli abangabonakaliyo okanye ubuncinane ukudala ukuxeliswa kwesi sihlwele. Iifowuni ezimbalwa ezivela kumadoda ahlukeneyo ebusweni bakhe, iibhola kunye neembalwa ezimbalwa esihlokweni, zihlaselwa ngabantu abaqhelekileyo-kwaye ngoku unalo udumo lomfazi ofunwayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukukhangela ngamanye amehlo kwaye mhlawumbi uya kujoyina ukuzingela - emva kwayo yonke into, awuzange ubenze uqiniseke ukuba uyona mhle. Ukusebenzisa le ndlela, into ephambili kukuba i-moderation - ngaphandle koko umntu anganqikaza kwimikhosi yakhe okanye nje ukwesaba ukulahleka kwisihlwele.
- Ekulweni njengemfazwe: ngaphambi kokuya ekuhlaselweni kwintshaba, kufuneka uhlolwe. Ngamanye amagama, ukufumanisa uhlobo luni lwabafazi abathandayo? Mhlawumbi uthanda uhlobo oluthile lukaMarilyn Monroe, kwaye unomude, unqabileyo? Kodwa oku akuyona ingxaki - khawubale nje ngee jeans uze ufake iingubo zesetyhini. Ukutshintsha umfanekiso kuya kumnceda kwaye uyamnika ithuba lokukubona ngaphesheya. Yiba njalo, ungumzekelo wokuhle nobuhle. Indoda ayiyi kushiya ngaphandle kokuqwalasela umfazi osebenzayo.
- Musa ukuba "yintombi yakho," nangona uye wazizana iminyaka emininzi. Ibhinqa kufuneka libe yimfihlakalo, maye uhambe kunye nefable of mystery. Oku kunzima ukufezekisa ukuba ngaba ungumhlobo omude, kodwa unako. Ubaleke kuyo, nangona indlela yokuziphatha iphukile. Ngaba uhlale ulungele ukuya naye kwibhar kwaye unobhiya? Sitshintsha indlela yokuziphatha - kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuqonda ukuba ufutshane nawe. Emva koko, kwintlanganiso elandelayo, unxibe ingubo egqwesileyo, kwaye endaweni yendawo yokusela ibhiya, uye kwindawo yokudlela epholileyo ukuze uchithe kusihlwa ngeglasi yewayini. Utshintsho olunjalo luya kumkholisa.
- Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ithemba kwaye uncome. Amadoda athande abesifazana abanelisekile ngobomi. Loo mfazi ungowona othembekileyo emva, uya kuhlala exhasa kwaye ancedise ukuba abe ngumntu wangempela.
Ngoku uyazi iindlela ezili-10 zokuphumelela intliziyo yomntu. Nantoni na oyenzayo ukuthabatha indoda, khumbula ukuba into ephambili kukuba uhlale ungumfazi wokwenene, kwaye ngoko umntu oyinyani uya kuba kufuphi nawe.