Ngaba ufuna ukufumana indoda enhle kakhulu esikolweni?

Ukuze uzive esikolweni elona lifanelekileyo kwaye lidume kakhulu, kuyimfuneko ukufumana indoda enhle kunazo zonke esikolweni. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba abantu abathandekayo banake ingqalelo kuphela kumantombazana ahloniphekileyo. Kwaye ukuba unomfana omncinane, kuya kwenza abanye bahloniphe, kuba baya kuqonda ubuninzi obunakho.

Kakade ke, umntu onqwenelekayo akanakwenzeka ukuba athathe ingqalelo kwintombazana engabonakaliyo. Kwezinye iifilimu, imimangaliso enjalo iyenzeka, kodwa ungathembeli kweso sihlandlo. Yenza ngokwakho, kholelwa kuwe kwaye yonke into iya kuvela.

Ngoko, ukuba ufuna ukufumana indoda enhle kakhulu esikolweni, kufuneka ube yintombazana enhle kakhulu.

Kule ndawo uza kunceda i-intanethi kunye nokuhambisa amaphephancwadi. Jonga ngokwakho kwisibuko uze uvume ngokunyanisekileyo zonke iingenelo kunye nokungonakali. Emva kokuba wenze oku, cinga ngendlela ozakufihla ngayo yonke into embi kwaye ugxininise kakuhle. Ziqhelise kunye neyona nyaniso ngoku ngokuthe tye kwaye ukhethe iimpahla ezikufanayo. Awunanto yokuthenga izinto ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, ngenxa yokuba ngoku ngoku ukuphakama kwemisebenzi ethembisayo. Qonda, into ephambili kukuba i-suit ihleli. Ngoko thabatha ixesha lokuzama, thabatha kunye nodade osekhulile, intombi okanye umama, ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyazi ngokwaneleyo malunga nefashoni kunye nesitayela. Zama ukuhlaziya i-wardrobe ukuze ibukeke kakuhle, kodwa ayikho into enhle. Sekunjalo, khumbula ukuba yonke into kufuneka ibe phakathi kwehlabathi. Ngendlela, wenzeni ukuba unyoko akafuni ukukunika imali. Unako ukuzama ukumxelela ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani okanye ukuthenga izinto, umzekelo, kwisandla sesibini. Ukuba uyazi ukuba uphendlo, unokufumana izinto ezizodwa ezibonakaliswe ngabantu abambalwa abantu abakwazi ukuziqhayisa. Enye inketho kukufumana imali eyongezelelweyo ngokwakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuthatha ixesha elide, kodwa izinto ozithengayo ngemali yakho ziza kugqithwa ngengqiqo nokuzihlonela. Kwakhona, kufuneka ufumane ukwakheka okufanelekileyo kunye nekhanda.

Zama kwiinketho ezahlukeneyo, cela imibono yabahlobo kunye neentombi, kwaye ke, khetha, okukhethayo.

Emva kokuba usebenze ngokwakho, qalisa isigaba esilandelayo. Ukuba sele uqhelene naloo mntu, ungayigqitha, kodwa ukuba akunjalo - ezi ngcebiso ziya kuza ngokufanelekileyo. Ngoko, ukuze ukholise umfana, kufuneka ube sisondele kuye. Ungasondela njani? Musa ukukhawuleza ukuba uqhelane nalo mfana, kuba iya kubonakala ingabonakalisi kwaye ibangele.

Kungcono ukumazi umntu ovela kwinkampani yakhe. Mhlawumbi uyazi ukuba ngabahlobo bakhe bani, yintoni abayenzayo kwaye bafuna ukuthatha kuphi. Ukongezelela, wonke umntu esikolweni uyazi zonke izinto, ngoko omnye umhlobo wakho okanye omaziyo kufuneka wazi kakuhle omnye wabahlobo bakhe. Ngoko ndicele ukuba ndikuthathe kule nkampani. Kwaye ke kufuneka nje uzame ukunxibelelana nabantu kwaye wenze impembelelo efanelekileyo. Into ephambili - ungesabi. Akukho mntu othanda ukungaqiniseki ngokwabo ngamantombazana. Kwaye ufuna ngokwenene ukuba aba bantu bakhulume ngawe kakuhle. Ngoko ke, ziphathe ngokuzinzile kwaye ngokwemvelo, ungathuli, kodwa phulaphulaphula. Ngoko uza kuba nolwazi oluninzi oluya kunceda kwikamva. Emva kokuba ukwanele ukuba ungene kwi nkampani, lixesha lokuba uqhelane nalo mfana osempilweni akho.

Khumbula: awukwazi ukubonisa ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uphupha imihla yonke yokuba naye. Ukuba uyayiqonda le nto, uya kukuphatha kakubi. Ngoko ke, ziphathe ngokuzinzileyo kwaye mhlawumbi ncitshiswe. Kodwa musa ukuphula intonga.

Ndicinga ukuba xa uthetha nabahlobo bakhe, ufunde okuninzi ngezinto ezithandayo kunye neminqweno yakhe. Ngoko ke, zama, njengokuba yingozi, ukuthetha ngento enokumtsalisa kunye nomdla wakho. Ukudlala naye, kodwa yenza ngokucophelela, phantse ngokungenakuqonda. Umfana kufuneka afumane ingcamango, njengokungathi ufuna ukukunqoba, kwaye uwela phantsi kwesipelo sakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyahluke, kodwa akukho mntu ufuna ukukwazi malunga nalo. Idibaniso enkulu inokuba yinto yokuba abahlobo bakhe bayazazi kuwe. Emva koko baya kukuthetha okuninzi ngawe, kwaye uya kucinga malunga nelokuba uyayifuna intombazana enjalo. Ungalindelanga ukuba lo mfana uya kuphakamisa ukuba udibana nangoko emva kwentlanganiso yokuqala. Abafana, ngokuqhelekileyo, izilwanyana ezingapheliyo, ngoko mnike ixesha kodwa ungazivumeli uzikhohlwe ngawe.

Ukuze ugcine unomdla, zama ukunyamekela unobtrusively iso lakhe. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlale phantsi kweklasini kwaye ubone ukuphuma esikolweni. Kodwa, amaxesha ambalwa ngemini, unakho, ngokusemandleni, ukhubeka kuye kwikorridi, ukumomotheka nokutshintshana amabinzana ambalwa. Ukuba uqhubeka nencoko-kuthetha. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, ukuze ungaphumuli, kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza, ubhekisele kwezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Kakade, oku kunzima, kodwa umfana kufuneka aqonde ukuba ufuna, okokuqala, kungekhona kuwe. Kufuneka uqaphele indlela ekuphatha ngayo. Ngoko ke, ekwakhe apho kufuneka ukuba ngumntu oza kukuxelela yonke into kwaye akayi kumvumela ukuba ahambe.

Fumana umhlobo onjalo. Zama ukusondela kumntu kunomhlobo wakho ozithandayo. Kule meko, uya kukwazi ukufunda yonke into yokuqala kwaye ulungele ukuziphatha kwakho xa kuyimfuneko. Ngaloo mizuzu xa uhamba kunye nomfana kwelinye inkampani, zama ukuhlala uqaphela into ayithandayo ngento enomdla kuyo. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuthetha naye ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kuye. Ngoko ke, nangona ungeyonto okanye uyinqandwa into ethile, kuya kufuneka ufunde ezi ncwadi, uphulaphule umculo uze uvume ukuba kulungile. Amathandana abathandana xa amantombazana abelana ngombono wazo.

Kodwa ke, khumbula ukuba lo ngumntu ohle kakhulu esikolweni. Amantombazana amaninzi afuna ukuba naye. Ungavumeli abakhuphiswano bambone. Zama ukukhusela umfana kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuthetha nabanye amantombazana. Kufuneka aqonde ukuba akukho mntu ulungile kunani. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuqala ukudibana nawe, kwaye uya kuba yintombi eyaziwayo kakhulu kwaye uyonwabile kakhulu esikolweni. Njengoko uyakubona, ukuze ufumane umfana omhle kakhulu esikolweni - kufuneka uzame ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa kuyafaneleka!