Ulibala ngokuzingca
Indoda ikhululekile kakhulu ukuba iphile xa inkosikazi yayo ithatha imisebenzi yomgcini wendlu. Uhlambulula ngokuzenzekelayo indlu, uhlutha amasokisi kunye nezinye izinto, uzilungiselele kwaye uhlambulule izitya, kukukwenza ukuba uhlaziye, kwaye kwakhona kwaye ebhedeni akayekanga ukumangaliswa. Njengoko bathetha, ukudweba kweoli. Umyeni uletha imali endlwini, ukubonelela intsapho, kwaye ... ngokuqhelekileyo imisebenzi yakhe yokubambisana iyancipha kulo. Ukuzingca ngendlela ecocekileyo! Kwaye kufuneka ulwe nayo yonke indlela. Ukuba awuzange ulawule ukulahla impawu embi ngaphambi kokuba intanda ethandwayo ikhulelwe, ke yithuba lokuyenza ngoku ngoku. Emva koko, kwaziwa ukuba ngexesha lokulindela komntwana lowo wesifazane uvalela ngakumbi. Ngoko kutheni ungazikhumbuli iintsuku zokuqala zokuthandana kwaye ungabi yinto enamandla kunye neengqiqo xa uvakalelwa kwaye ukuzingca kudlula igunya? Ixesha lokumbonisa indawo yakho, okanye kunoko, ukuyeka indawo yakho ebomini bakho. Ngunaphakade!
Isondo siyaqhubeka
Kuyinto engaqhelekanga, kodwa nakwekhulu lama-21, abanye abantu bayaqiniseka ukuba ngokuqala kokukhulelwa kwintlalo yesini, unokubeka umnqamlezo. Oku akunjalo. Ngaphezu koko, isondo sinokuthi kwaye kufuneka senziwe kuze kube yilapho kuzalwa. Ewe, kuya kufuneka siqaphele, kuba kungekhona zonke izikhundla kunye neendawo apho isibini esisetyenzisiweyo sisamkelekile. Kwaye ukuba ngaphambili kwintsebenziswano esondeleyo ithowuni isetyenziswe ngumntu, ngoku, lixesha lokuphulaphula iimfuno zomfazi. Ndikholelwe, ngamanye amaxesha intloko yam iyenzakalisa ngokwenene ... Ngokuqinisekileyo, uzibheka njengendoda yelinen yelinen (kungekhona kwindlela yokuchonga, kodwa kwisondlo). Kodwa kuya kuba ngcono ukukhusela ukuzithemba kwakho ngokufunda iincwadi ezikhethekileyo ukuze ucinge oko kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka, kwaye, ngokuchasene noko, kukuvuyela ixesha elinomdla ngokukhulelwa. Uyakumangalisa indlela ininzi ngayo inkundla yokulinga. Kwenzeka ke ke, ukuba ikamva lomama liyeka ukukholisa. Kule nto iya kuphathwa ngokuqonda, kodwa kungcono ukuthetha ngokuvulekileyo. Inokwenzeka ukuba uya kukwazi ukufumana ukulungelelanisa. Emva koko, iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo azikwenzeka!
School of Cooking
Ngaba uhlala uva kumadoda amazwi athi: "Umfazi wam uphekeza kakhulu!" Baziqhenya ngokuzikhethela, ukuzithemba kunye nokunyaniseka kwabo bafazi babo abanalo abanekhono ekhitshini. Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye neentlobo zeentlobo zamabhinqa, imimangaliso iyenzeka: i-salted yayo ingabonakala ingaqinisekanga, i-sweet-unsweetened. Musa ukwenza amabango kwangoko. Ekugqibeleni, ityuwa ihlala isetekisi, i-pepper kwi-pepper, ishukela kwisitya seshukela. Mane nje ungeze ngokuzenzekelayo ukulahleka ukula. Kwaye kungcono, "linda" kwisitofu ngokwalo. Akuyona into yokuba amadoda abonwa njengabapheki abakhulu. Khangela ngubani ohlala kwindawo ye-chef kwiindawo ezininzi zokutyela. Madoda! Ngoko jonga kwiiprogram zokucoca, ufunde iincwadi zokupheka, ubeke i-apron yakho kunye-phambili, kwiindawo eziziwayo ezingabonakaliyo zobugcisa. Okokuqala, iinzame zakho kunye namava uya kuxabiswa ngumlingane. Okwesibini, ngamava amatsha kunye ne-adventure. Okwesithathu, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kufumana italente yekhratshi kwaye ukususela ngoku awuyi kuvumela umfazi ukuba apheke ikhilomitha. Kwaye kukho, uyabona, uya kuqala ukuqhuba ukutshintshwa kokutya okanye ukushicilela incwadi yakho yokupheka. Emva koko uya kumbulela umfazi wakho ngokukunika ithuba lokungathi ubaba nje, kodwa nokufumanisa iitalente ezintsha. Ngendlela, konke kuyafana nakweminye imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ngubani owaziyo, kodwa ngokukhawuleza, unqwenela ukusula uthuli uze uhlambe phantsi, kodwa awukwazi malunga naloo nto ngenxa yokuba uye wasebenzisa uninzi kumama wakho, kwaye ngoku umfazi wakho.
Uyakuthanda
Abanye abafazi ngamanye amaxesha bacinga ukuba ngokukhulelwa balahlekelwa ngumtsalane wabo. Oku akunjalo! Ngokuqinisekileyo, ama-moms esizayo ahlakazeka kunamantombazana kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo, abangenakulinganisa kwaye bengaphenduli kwizinto okanye ezinye izinto. Kulungile! Ukukhulelwa kuthatha iinyanga ezilisithoba kuphela, kwaye ukungabikho kwengqondo akuveli kwimimiselo yokuqala yokukhulelwa. Ngokuphathelele utshintsho lwangaphandle, ziyabonakala kubantu abangaqhelana nantoni nawe, kodwa kungekhona kuwe, obona njalo ngosuku. Kwaye nokuba ngaba utshintsho lubonakala, okanye kunoko, ebusweni, oku oku kunokwethutyana. Musa ukumthanda isiqingatha sakho ngenxa yokuba i-pimple yakho iyavela ebunzini lakhe okanye ngenxa yokuba ibukeka idiniwe namhlanje? Ngoko kholisa loo ntokazi, ngale ndlela, akukho nto inzima. Konke oku sele udlulile, xa unomdla ngokunyamekela umfazi wesikhathi esizayo.