Uninzi lwabantu abadibeneyo ebomini bhinqa banokuhlulwa "ngowabo" "abakho". Udidi lokuqala luya kulapho esiziva sishushu, nangona le ndoda ithe yalala neqondo lokushisa, idla i-crunches kunye ne-littering kwi-carpet ecocekileyo, idakiwe okanye ilwa. Kwiyiphi na le meko, indoda ivakalisa uvakalelo, inomdla, imfesane, umnqweno wokuthobela nokuzisola. "Akunabo abo" - ngokuqhelekileyo abangaziwayo, ukuvumba kwawo, ukuziphatha kuyacaphukisa, xa umfazi esondelene nomntu, akanalo isifiso sesondo, akukho mvakalelo.
Kodwa, ukwahlula okubalulekileyo kwamadoda kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo, kusekelwe kwiplanga lamakhadi. Andiyi kubhala ixesha elide nge "sixhenxe", "sixes" kunye namanye amakhadi angenayo imifanekiso. Ungakwazi ukudibana nabo ngokukhawuleza kwisitrato kwisitora kunye nenkunkuma yebhiya, kwiinkampani zabahlobo abafanayo kufuphi nomnyango, kwisitimela samanxweme, kwimarike, kwiindawo zokutya ezincinci nokunye. Amadoda anjalo ayenayo "ingundoqo" ngaphakathi, abanalo injongo ebomini, abahlali, bengabantwana, abanomdla kwaye bengenalo umdla kubo. Ubomi babo bubucayi kwaye bubuhlungu, ubusuku babo buzele ibhola kunye nebhotile yobhiya. Ngomntu onjalo uya kuhlalisa phantsi komgangatho wobomi bentlalo kwaye uguquke ube yintsapho yasekhaya. Amadoda - "Amathandathu" awanako ukuva iimvakalelo ezinzulu, ubudlelwane obuhle, ukuzaliswa kunye nezipho. Amahlaya abo ahlambulukanga, ahlala phantsi kwaye anikezelwa yesikhululo sendawo yangasese. Musa ukuyithanda? Ngoko, sidlula kule nqanaba. Abasetyhini baye bamisela uhlobo lwamadoda, ngokusekelwe ekuqwalaselweni kwabo rhoqo.
Ezi zilandelayo zi-jacks. Oku, njengomthetho, omncinane kwiminyaka okanye emphefumlweni wabameli bezesondo ezinamandla. Baye bahamba, batshintsha imisebenzi, abafazi, abahlobo, izinto zokuzilibazisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo akuyiyo inkosana, kwaye ekuziphatheni kwakhe, akukho, kwaye uhlobo oluthile lokujongana nalo luya kuphuma ngaphandle kwesi sivakalisi, kungabonakali. Kubonakala kunjalo, kodwa into ephosakeleyo. IiJacks - kungeyona nto eyona nto ikhethileyo, ukuba ikhefu elilula. Ingcinga efanelekileyo yokutshintshela incwadana emfutshane kwiholide, kodwa akufanelekanga ukulinda nayiphi na into ekhethekileyo. Ziyafana kakhulu ne-ayisikrimu - zidliwe kwaye zilibalekile. UJack akayi kukuthwala ezandleni zakho, enkundleni enhle, uhlabelele ii-serenades phantsi kwefestile, kodwa ukuba uyamthanda ngokwenene, uya kwenza umgudu wokukukhohlisa. Kodwa, ukuba umgomo awuzukufezekiswa ixesha elide, ngoko ngokukhawuleza uthatha umhlalaphantsi. AmaJack awakuthandi abahlakaniphile kakhulu, abasetyhini abasemagqabini.
Amadoda - ookumkani awanqabile, kodwa uhlobo olunomdla kakhulu. Ebonakalayo, akunakwenzeka ukucacisa uKumkani, unokujonga ngathi nantoni na. Into ebalulekileyo yobomi bendoda enjalo ubomi bakhe obunomdla nobutyebi. Amandla akhe angaphakathi aheha abantu abaninzi, ufumana kwiimeko ezingavamile. Ungumntu opheleleyo owazi kakuhle into ayifunayo ebomini. Ngenxa yesibindi sakhe sangaphakathi, ubuqili, ubulumko kunye nokuhlekisa, unemali, udibaniso kunye nolwazi kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bomntu. Indoda-ukumkani unomdla kakhulu, unokufunda okuninzi, ubone indawo enomdla, tyelela imibutho yabucala. Le ndlela yokuphila ixabise iincwadi ezininzi kunye nemisebenzi. Emva kwithuba elithile, uya kubona ukuba waqala ukuziphathela njengoKumkanikazi. Kodwa yintoni enye enye into enokwenene ibhinqa lifanele liziphathe ngayo? Amakhosi amakhosi athambekele ekuziqheleni, azinandaba nezinto zekhaya. Ibhinqa elisondeleyo kumlingane onjalo, uyayeka ukuba "yi-mundane", ncokola nentombi yakhe entsha, ubonise iinkwenkwezi zezoshishino. Ixabiso lexabiso litshintsho, lizisa phambili umxholo wangaphakathi. Abasetyhini baye bamisela uhlobo lomntu olungele kuyo yonke into.
Ixhoba elibalulekileyo yowesifazane liya kuba ngumntu-i-ace. Ukuze ufumane ummeli wesini esomeleleyo kwiinqanki zabo, kuya kufuneka uzame nzima. Ukuthandana naye ngumfanekiso we-aerobatics, kodwa ufanelekile. Ngoko, iAce yangempela ibonakala njani? Uxhaswe kakuhle, uqikelele ngokungaqhelekanga, uyityebi, unemilinganiselo emihle, ishishini elibi. Njengomthetho, banabani beenkampani ezinkulu, abashishini bezopolitiko. Umntu - i-ace kuyo yonke into iyona nto ibhetele, yokuqala. Kunzima ukudibana nomntu onjalo, kuba emva komntu onqabileyo kufuneka abe ngumfazi omkhulu.