Ubulumko obuhle

Uthotho, indlela enye okanye enye, ikhona kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi bethu, kwaye yonke indawo inempawu zayo. Zeziphi na? Makhe sibone! Ukuhleka kunempahla eninzi: iyakususa uxinzelelo, inyuse imfutho, inceda ukugcina ulungele, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu - idibanisa! Ihlaya eliphumelelayo liya kuhlala libonisa ingqalelo "kumlobi" wayo, liya kuvuyisa umnqweno wokulifunda ngokuthe ngqo. Oku kusebenza nakwiintando zothando, ukuxhamla ngokuhlekisayo kubakhuthaza kuphela, kubonakalisa zabo iinkalo ezintsha. Ngoko ufuna ukuhleka - ukuhleka, sidenge, uhleke! Yongeza umntu othandayo.

Mhle kakhulu!
Izazinzulu kunye neengqondo zengqondo zifunda uhlobo lokuhleka, zihlala zinesithakazelo kumbuzo othi "Ukuhleka kweentlungu kukuchaphazela njani ubudlelwane bothando?" Kubonakala ngathi impendulo iyabonakala: ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuhleka, iimvakalelo ezidibeneyo zikusondeza kumlingane wakho. Uyaziqhayisa, ungabi ukwesaba ukubonakala unengcikivo, ngoko ke, uthembela, omnye komnye, uvule ngakumbi.
Kodwa kukho enye impendulo kulo mbuzo. Inzululwazi ezimbini zaseMelika zenze loo mvavanyo. Bacela amadoda namabhinqa angama-200 ukuba bajonge iifoto zabantu besini esahlukileyo kwaye bakhethe abo bayeza kuhamba nabo ngomhla.
Iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo: "abanini" bezinye iifoto zashiya izimvo ezihlekisayo phantsi kwazo, zonke ezinye iisayineli ezingathathi hlangothi. Ngenxa yoko, phantse bonke abafazi abathatha inxaxheba ekufuneni babefuna ukuhamba nomhla kunye namadoda azinikezela ngokukrakra, ngelixa ukukhetha kwamadoda akuxhomekeke kwindlela yokuhleka kwamantombazana esithombeni. Isiphetho sisilula: bobabini nabasetyhini bayayiqonda indlela yokuhlambalaza kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini, kodwa abafazi bayakuxabisa ukukwazi ukuhleka, kwaye amadoda - ukukwazi ukuhlaziya ihlaya.
Ekubeni, ngenxa yenzululwazi, ngoku kuyacaca ukuba unokugqibezela njani umhlobo wakho ukuba uphelele: ukuhleka, ukuhleka nokuhleka amahlaya akhe kwakhona, ukuphakamisa umva wakhe. Iimpapasho "Undenze ukuba ndihleke!" Kwaye "Kubuqili!" - isikhali sakho semfihla kunye neengubo zangaphantsi ezitshatileyo okanye igama elithi "Peking Duck". Ngaloo nto, nangona unesidima esichukumisayo, usasazi amahlaya, ungazami ukuphuma ngaphandle kweqabane lakho. Kuyavuma, kukho ezinye iindawo apho ungakhanyisa khona: kunye nabahlobo, emsebenzini.

Ngoko, kunye nenyaniso yokuba amahlaya omthandayo "yonke indawo sinayo indlela", sazilungisa. Kodwa ingaba njani, ukuba ukhetho lwakho olukhethiweyo, masithi, kunjalo, akusoloko uphumelele, nangona ungaboni kakuhle? Yaye ukuyibeka ngokucacileyo, uyayiphalaza ngeengqungquthela zeengqungquthela kunye neencdotes, intshebe apho uKarabas-Barabas uya kuba nekratshi! Ewe, ziindaba ezimbini: zilungile kwaye zimbi. Into entle kukuba ubungqina obungengowesizalo, luyakwazi ukunyanzelwa. Kwaye into embi kukuba uya kufuneka ugonywe. Ngoko, makhe siqale, kuphela ukuqala ndingathanda ukwenza iimbumba ezimbini. Okokuqala, umele wazi ukuba kunoma yimuphi umntu onokuthiwa ngu-unfunny ufana into efanayo nomthandi obi. Ngoko ke, ukunika isithandwa sakho isiluleko, sitshatyalalise, okanye siphumelele, siphephe ngokungapheliyo.
Okwesibini, kungakhathaliseki ukuba waphumelela njani, ungenzi imibono kwiqabane kunye nabangaphandle. Kule meko, mhlawumbi kuninzi ukuhleka, kodwa kulungile ukumemeza ngokuzithoba.

Nika ingqalelo ukuba ubani obhekiselele kwiintlanzi zakhe: amadoda, amabhinqa, konke kanye? Inyaniso kukuba ukuzonwabisa okuhlekisayo kwabaphulaphuli abahlukeneyo kunokungafani: ukuba abanye bayamangalisa, abanye bahlekisa. Zama ngandlela-thile ukuthetha ngale nto kunye nomthandayo. Makhe angazami ukwenza wonke umntu ahlekise, akunakwenzeka njalo ukuba ngumculi ohlaselayo. Kodwa ukubamba ingqalelo abantu ababini okanye abathathu, uyakwazi.
Kuqondwa ukuba umntu onobuqili uhlala efundiswa kakuhle. Ngako oko, mphose ngezinye iinkcukacha ezithandwayo zabalobi abathandwayo kunye nokulungelelanisa imibono yentsapho ye-cinema yombhali. Ngokuqinisekileyo, i-anecdotes ilungile ngendlela yokuba ingafundwa kuyo nayiphi na incwadi yokuzonwabisa okanye ifumaneka kwi-intanethi. Kodwa oku, kunye nokunciphisa kwabo: akusiyo into yokuba abaphulaphuli baye bakuva ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngaphezu koko, bevela kumbalisi onetalente. Ngoko ke, akufanele ulandele indlela yokuncincila: kungcono ukwenza abantu bahlekise "ngamabali avela ebomini". Ngokukodwa ukuba ezi ndaba zenzeka kumlandeli. Ukuba amabali amnandi kunye neqabane lakho akenzekanga, unako ukuhlobisa iimbini ezihlekisayo.

Ukuqala ngokuchithwa kwimbali. Bathi uMarie Antoinette wayeyika kakhulu ukulahlekelwa ngumyeni wakhe obukhosini, uLouis. Simele sivume ukuba ukwesaba kwakhe kwakungenasisiseko: ngokwemigangatho yaloo minyaka, ukumkanikazi wayesele ephakathi kweminyaka ephakathi (i-alas, okanye nge-facelift, okanye nangenxa yekhrimu efanelekileyo ye-wrinkles ngoko asizange sikuve), kwaye enkundleni kwakukho abantu abaninzi abancinci. Kwaye ke, ukuze ahlaziywe, waqala ukuguqula umalusikazi. Ndimele ndithi uLouis uhleka kakhulu, ekhangeleka ukuba akuphi na ukuqala kokutsha "umalusi" ehamba ngegadi zegulana kunye nabasebenzi ababiweyo, beqhuba umhlambi weegusha ezimnandi. Kodwa umphumo waphumelela: ULouis waphinde waya kumtyelela egumbini lokulala.
Ibali elihle malunga ne-greats yeli hlabathi liqinisekisa kuphela ukuba abantu abalala ngesondo abadini ukubonakalisa ukuhleka: ukuhleka kunomphumo onomdla kumadoda. Umdlalo wakho wokudlala uza kuvuselela ubomi bakho besondo. Thatha okungenani umdlalo wendima. Vumelana nokuvela phambi komntu othandekayo kwisitulo esikhethekileyo, uthi, umongikazi ovula ngaphezu kweefihla, kufuneka ube nomdlalo wokuhlekisa. Kwaye intanda yakho, ngokukodwa xa uya kumbeka "uxilongwe", kwaye "uphathe".

Nangona kunjalo, amahlaya amahlaya , kodwa ukudibanisa isondo kunye nokuhleka kuyimfuneko "ngokuhlakanipha". Umgca phakathi kokuhleka kokuhleka kunye nokuhleka usulu kuphengulula. Yaye mhlawumbi uyazi ngokwenene ukuba ubuhlungu kangakanani, kukho amadoda, xa amahlaya ehambelana nomxholo othi "ngaphantsi kwebhanti". Ngako oko, "lilinganisa amaxesha alishumi, nqunywe kanye", xa ufuna ukuhleka usulu malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe embhedeni, mnike umdlalo wesidlaliso okanye ubeke isipho kwivenkile yesondo.