Umtsalane wokudala.
Abaxoki abaninzi nabangenakulinganiswa nabo balala ngenxa yegama elibomvu. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bephefumula umphefumlo wenkampani, abavakalisi beendaba ezibangelisayo nabancinci. Bathetha amabali amangalisa, ofuna kakhulu ukukholelwa kuwo. Ukuphumelela kwamanga abo kukuba ininzi yethu ifuna ukukholelwa kummangaliso nakwiqonga, esiyifumanayo xa siphulaphule amabali abo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abaninzi bafanele babe sezinqabeni zobuxoki, ngoko kulula ukuqonda abantu abanjalo. Siyazi kakuhle ukuba kutheni sixoxe ngamathuba athile - nje ukuzisa imvuselelo kwingxoxo okanye ukutsala ingqalelo kwiinkampani entsha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, akunjalo nxamnye nokuqamba amanga, ngaphandle kokuba italente yomlandeli isetyenziselwa inzuzo.
Amanga okusindiswa.
Abantu bahlala bexoka kaninzi, becinga ukuba ukuxoka kuya kunceda umntu. Ukuphendula umbuzo othi kungani silala kwiimeko apho umntu osondeleyo egula kakhulu, ukuba umhlobo utshintsha umyeni wakhe, ukuba asiyithandi inwele entsha yomntu okanye imoto, akunzima. Asifuni ukulimaza kwakhona, sicinga ukuba umntu uya kuvuya xa engayifumani inyaniso. Enyanisweni, simenzele ukhetho kwizinto eziyinyani, kwaye sizithetha into engeyonyani. Ukukhohlisa okunjalo kudla ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa eqinisweni, ubuxoki buhlala buxoki, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi izaba Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu azi inyaniso ukuze athathe amanyathelo alaneleyo, nokuba ngaba yinto nje yokungenzi kakuhle.
Amanga enzuzo.
Abantu bahlala bexela ubuxoki, ngokusekelwe kwiinzuzo zabo. Abaninzi babhekana neemeko ezinjalo xa kwakulula ukulala, umzekelo, xa sasisemva kwexesha emsebenzini, xa salibala ngesithembiso sethu, xa sinobuqili ukuba senze into ethile. Kutheni silala kwiimeko ezinjalo? Ngenxa yokuba inyaniso ayiyi kuba yinzuzo kuthi. Kodwa inzuzo yokuxoka inokuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Abaqhekezayo bavame ukusebenzisa amaqhinga abo ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokunyanzela ukufezekisa injongo yabo, engahlali iphumelele. Ngokuqhelekileyo ifihlakele ukufumana inzuzo eyinkohlakalo eyenza ukuba abaxoki baxakeke kakhulu.
Ukulungiswa kwezakhiwo zabo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bafaka ingqinamba, kuba loo hlabathi kunye nobomi abahlala kuyo, abafanelanga. Omnye akanelisekanga ngomsebenzi wabo, umntu onemoto, umntu onobunye bomntu. Kukho nantoni na into engahambisani noko kulindeleke. Kodwa ukuba umntu wenza umgudu wokulungisa ubomi ngokubhekiselele kwiminqweno yabo, ke kukho abo banqwenela ukuxoka. Abantu abanjalo bakha kuphela ukukholelwa kovuyo, ngabo baxoxa ngezobuhle eziqhayisayo, ekujoliswe kuyo, malunga nempumelelo ephumelelayo yempumelelo, malunga neemoto ezibizayo kunye nobomi obungenakufikelela kuwo uninzi. Ngale ndlela kulula ukufumana ukuthandwa, kodwa yintoni eya kuba yintengo yayo kwaye yiziphi iingozi eziza kubonakaliswa ngexesha elibi kakhulu - kungekhona wonke umntu ocinga ngayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abathandi bafihla ubomi babo boqobo, ixesha elide lilandela igama elibi.
Naluphi na ubuxoki, akusoloko kumnandi. Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abayithandayo xa bemgxotha ngeempumlo, ngoko kutheni sixoka, xa siyazi ukuba kunokubuhlungu njani? Wonke umntu unesizathu sakhe kunye nezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba wonke umntu ubuncinane kanye kanye ebomini bakhe bhenela kulolu hlobo okanye olo hlobo lobuxoki kwaye injongo ingaba nayiphi na. Ngamanye amaxesha inkohlakalo ayifanelekanga ingqalelo, ngamanye amaxesha ukuxolelwa. Wonke umntu ukhetha ukuba ngubani, nini, kwaye kutheni ukuxoka kwaye ngubani oxolela ukuxoka. Kodwa ebomini, inyaniso isoloko ixabiseke kakhulu, nokuba yintoni enokuba nayo.