Ukuba iqabane lihlala lifunga. Kuphi na isizathu na, nokuba awupheki i-borscht okanye ingekho ihembe le-ironed. Kuphela nje ukuba lakho iqabane liphila ngendlela enjalo - ihlale inqabile, inqabile kwaye ifundise.
Olunye uhlobo - abathandi bokuthotywa. Oku kunokuthi kubangelwa ngabantu, xa ngokuziphatha kwabo kunye nesimo sabo sengqondo, utshabalalisa ukuzithemba komfazi kwaye ahlaziye isithunzi sakhe.
Umlingani wakho ebomini ngumqhaqha. Yaye ubomi bakho bentsapho imihla ngemihla uchungechunge olutsha lwe-Brazilian series, apho ukuthabatha kuqhutywe kwaye ngenxa yokukhweleka iimbasa.
Inketho yokugqibela - esinye isiqingatha sithanda "ukuhamba ngecala." Ukutsho ukuba lo mbonakalo wamadoda kuphela awunakwenzeka, abafazi bethu abathandekayo abasayi kuvuma isigxina esisinyanisekileyo sabantu ukuze bahlasele.
Naluphi na ulwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi yinkinga phakathi kwentsapho, ngaphakathi kwilungu ngalinye "leseli yoluntu".
Ucela njani ukuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi? Impendulo. Kodwa, kukho enye imeko, ukubuyela nokuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi mhlawumbi, ukuba kukho ubuncinane iimvakalelo kwaye kunomnqweno wokugcina intsapho.
Okokuqala, qonda ukuba yintoni na engalunganga nawe kuludlelwane. Yintoni onokuthanda ukuyitshintsha? Yintoni engalunganga kunye neqabane lakho? Kuphela isisombululo salombuzo kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngokucokisekileyo, ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokufanelekileyo ukuzakhela iimpendulo, ukuze iqabane lakho linesikhokelo sokwenza isenzo. Ngokwemvelo, umntu kufuneka alungiselele ukuba ukuziphatha kwakho kunye nesimo sengqondo akunakuhambelana nomlingane wakho.
Kunokwenzeka ukuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi xa ubonisa uthando nothando. Ungazami ukugqilaza iqabane kunye nokumthobela - kuya kuphazamisa ubuhlobo bakho kuphela. Zixhomekeke ekunxibelelaneni okulungileyo. Ukuba ufuna, oko kukuchaphazela ngentlonipho, kuqala kokubonisa konke.
Ukuba awuyena unyaka wokuqala kunye, ngokoqobo emphefumlweni womntu ngamnye, ulwandle olungathandabuzekiyo, izidandatheko, amabango aqokelele. Ngoko ke, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, ukuthembela kunye nokuhlonelana kuya kunceda ukudala umoya apho umtshato ngamnye uya kuziva ekhululekile. Xa ulwalamano, xa ubona okulungileyo, misela umlingane wakho ngomsinga ofanayo. Emva koko, ngamnye wenu, uya kukwazi ukuqonda iimpazamo zakhe kwaye afune indlela yokuphuma kwimeko, ngaphandle kokuba abe nomsindo ngakumbi.
Unokuzama umdlalo oyingqayizivele - ukutshintshana isimo sengqondo esihle. Oko kukuthi, emva kokugqiba ukuba ngamnye unelisekanga kwaye ungathanda ukuthini kumlingane. Yiba ne-barter. Unika kwaye ulwamkele okufunwayo ngokubuyisela. Ngokomzekelo, ufuna ukuba iqabane lakho lidibana nawe emva komsebenzi, kwaye ufuna yonke imini, ngaphambi kokulala, unethuba lokumamela. Emva koko, akukho nto kulula kunokuba uzame ukuva nokuqonda umhlobo wakho.
Musa ukwesaba ukuba ube ngumbuso. Ulwalamano lwentsapho - eli yinkqubo echitha ixesha elide, efuna ukuba abatshatileyo bakwazi ukusebenza ngokupheleleyo. Xoxa kwaye ujonge izisombululo kwimicimbi enjengokuzilibazisa ngokuzibandakanya, ukuzihlaziya, ukuhlahlo-mali, ukusasazwa kwemisebenzi yasekhaya, ubudlelwane bakho bezesondo, ukubonakaliswa kobubele. Yenza isicwangciso soshishino lwakho sekhaya, esiza kubandakanya uluhlu olupheleleyo lweminqweno, lakho kunye nomlingane wakho.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, kukho enye impendulo kumbuzo owakukhathazayo: njani ukuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi? Fumana ixesha apho bobabini uya kukhululeka ekusebenzeni ixesha, ubomi bentsapho kunye nabantwana. Nika eli xesha omnye komnye. Khumbula ixesha elidlulileyo xa ujabule kwaye amafu ayengabutheleli kwiintloko zakho.