Umgaqo wokuqala wokuqala wokujongana neemeko ezinzima kukukwazi nokucinga ukuba akukho ziingxaki kunye neemeko ezingekho phantsi. Yonke into incike kwiminqweno yethu yokulwa nokuphumelela. Ukuba ucinga ukuba le ngxaki ayifuni kuwe kwaye awukwazi ukuyisombulula, kuya kuba njalo. Ukuba unethemba, unokuphuma lula naziphi na iimeko. Khumbula: yintoni ekhanda lakho, ngoko ebomini bakho. Kufana neglasi-igcwele isiqingatha samanzi-ukuba umntu unesiqingatha sigcwele, kwaye omnye umntu unesiqingatha.
Ngokomthetho we-feng shui, kucingwa ukuba iingcamango zethu zenzeke, ukuba zingagqithwanga, oko ke kunjalo, ngoko ungalokothi usho igama elithi "ingxaki", faka igama lale ngenye, umzekelo "ukhathalela." Kuzwakala kulula, akunjalo? Umqeshwa uyeka ingxaki, kukho enye, inzuzo yabasebenzi kuyo yonke indawo. Utshitshiswe ngumfana - ungakhathazeki, uyenze, kwaye ukuba uyaphule - akukho mntu - akukho ngxaki .... kaku kakubi kuthi uthethiwe. Ngaphantsi cinga ngengxaki ngokwayo kwaye ucinge ngakumbi ngeendlela zesisombululo.
Zama ukuphazamisa ngandlela-thile. Hamba kwindawo ethile - thatha ixesha lakho, ujabule, uthetha nabahlobo bakho, kwaye emva kokuba zonke iinkxalabo zakho zibonakala ziyingxaki, kuba ngoncedo kunye nenkxaso yabahlobo, izalamane kunye nabahlobo kunokusombulula yonke into. Xoxa nabantu abaye badlulela kwiimeko ezifana neyakho okanye bathetha nabantu abakuzo zonke izinto ezintle kwaye uza kufumana umthwalo omkhulu weemvakalelo ezintle, eziza kukunceda ukhangele imeko yakho. Ekugqibeleni, thetha nomama wakho, udade wabo okanye umzalwana, oya kuhlala ecaleni lakho kwaye uya kukwazi ukukuxhasa ngokuziphatha.
Ungaze uzame ukuphepha okanye ukusinda ebunzima obuye kwavela - akunakuncedo, ungayigxina kwisigqibo, ngokukhawuleza uxazulule iingxaki. Xa unqabile kwaye ungafuni ukusixazulula iingxaki zakho, banokukufumanisa ngakumbi.
Funda ezinye iincwadi ezihlakaniphile ngokunyelisa abantu abaninzi. Ngaphantsi khangelani i-TV - akudingeki ukuba udwebe i-plasma, ngenxa yokuba imbi iphelele.
Yaye isiluleko sam sokugqibela: siphila kwaye ujabulele ubomi, yonke iminithi kunye nomzuzu. Akuyimfuneko kwizinto ezincinci ukujongisa ingxaki. Isithende sakhe saqhekeka - hamba iingubo ezingenasiphatho "ukulungisa izicathulo", i-selabatareika kwifowuni - kwiminyaka eyi-100 edlulileyo kwakungekho iifowuni nakubantu kwaye abantu be-dazhene bacinga ngayo. Yiphatha yonke into elula kwaye musa ukwenza i-zamarachivaytes kuzo zonke iindidi, abafanelanga ukunyamekela kwakho. Kwaye ukuba kwenzekile ukuba unenkinga - umhlangabeze ngekhanda eliziqhenyayo kwaye uya kuba nakho konke okusemandleni njengoko ufuna, kuba i-master of our life is!