Indlela yokuziphatha kwintlalo engaqhelekanga?

Ngethuba lethu, kukho amaxesha amaninzi eenkampani ezintsha. Yaye ngubani, ukuba akayintombazana ehloniphekileyo, uxhalabele malunga nobudlelwane obuzayo? Ukuba unesangqa sabangamaziyo kwaye ufuna ukwenza ukuvakalisa kakuhle, kwaye uze usondele kubantu, kufuneka ufunde ezinye iziphakamiso. Into ekhunjulwayo ukuba ukhumbule ukuba uyintombazana kwaye kufuneka uhlale uhloniphekile.


Jonga ngokwakho nabanye abantu

Okokuqala, kufuneka wenze umzamo wokuvavanya ngokufanelekileyo ukuziphatha kwakho. Kucetyiswa ukwenza oku nangaphambi komzuzu xa uqaphela ukuba into ephosakeleyo kwaye lixesha lokutshintsha. Ukuba kukho olunye uluntu olutsha olukubonayo kwendima enjalo, ngoko ke isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo singathiwa "yinto engcono". Ewe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yinto eyikrakrayo, engathandekiyo, njl., Kufuneka ujonge wena ngaphandle kwaye uqonde ukuba zeziphi iziphene zakho ezibalulekileyo, ngokuvumela ukunyaniseka, ukuzingca kunye nokuzithemba. Emva koko uqonde utshintsho: yintoni enokulungiswa ngokukhawuleza-yenza okokuqala: faka imbonakalo yakho ngokufanelekileyo, ufunde uhlobo oluthile lokuphuhlisa uncwadi, uzalise isigama kunye namazwi afanelekileyo njalo njalo. Kwaye oko ungayazi okwangoku, unokusishiya eceleni. Kodwa ungayikhohlwa malunga nalo kwaye uzame ubuncinane ukufihla ukungaphumeleli kwakho, ukuba ungeqinekanga kwinto ethile, musa ukuqala ingxoxo eya kukukhokelela kule ndawo. Ngokomzekelo, awukwazi ukuhlaziya kwaye awukwazi ukuhleka, kodwa ke wagqiba kwelokuba - akufanelekanga!

Phatha abantu ngendlela ofuna ukuba bakuphathe ngayo

Into yesibini yile ntetho engentla. Hlakulela ngokwakho isimo sengqondo kunye nengqiqo kwabanye abantu. Ngaphandle kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo, uya kuhlala uhlala kwiimeko ezibi kakhulu kwaye zonke iingxaki zakho ziya kudibanisa nale ngongoma. Into ephambili kukuba ufunde ukuhlonipha izimvo zabanye ukwenzela ukuba abantu bahloniphe izimvo zakho.

Gcina uluntu luziva lukhululekile - lukhululekile. Nangona ufike kunye nomhlobo omnye okanye ababini, kwaye belahlekile kwixesha elibalulekileyo kwaye abazi ukuba baziphathe njani, baxhamle imeko kwaye babonise konke ubuchule bakho. Into eyona nto ilula kwaye ikhululekile ekukhululeni. Thanda inxibelelwano kwaye iya kukuthanda.

Kuba intombazana ibhetele ukuqhelana nesini esahlukileyo ngokuthetha ngokucokisekileyo. Unxibelelwano ngalunye lunikwe italente yokunxibelelana, kufuneka nje ukuphuhlisa umda onyanzelekileyo kwaye onke amadoda kwinkampani yakho entsha. Ngoko, funda iincwadi ezimbalwa zeencwadi kwaye uxoxe ngezihloko eziya kufutshane nababini ngesini. Into ephambili kukuba abo bathetha nabo abangazange bafunde uncwadi olukhethekileyo banokuxhasa isihloko. Zive ukuba ziphi na amaqhosha ofuna ukucinezela ngexesha.

Yazi lakho iqabane

Xa ufika kwinkampani entsha, ngoko kuba bafazi uya kuba "ngxabano" ngokuzenzekelayo, kunye namadoda, amaxhoba afunwayo. Ngoko, ukususela kumzuzu wokuqala kufuneka uxelele ukuba ungubani, kodwa uzola ngokuthula. Njalo uyazi ukuphulaphula umnxibelelwano wakho kwaye ukuba kukho imfuno, bonisa uvelwano okanye ngokungafaniyo.

Iingcali zamakhosikazi

Ngaphantsi kweengcamango ze-female gizmosmozhno ziqwalasela izinto ezimbalwa eziza kukukwenza unkulunkulukazi wasukuhlwa kunye neyona nto ihamba phambili kumntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo.

Umgaqo wokuqala "Ukubonakalisa"

Ngaphambi kokuya kwinkampani entsha, qiniseka ukuba ulungiselelwe ngokwengqondo kule nto. Jonga ukujonga. Zama ukucinga ukuba unento efanelekileyo kubo bantu. Ufanele uzive ungenakuncipha, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba wena kunye nabo kulula kwaye kulula, bobabini ekunxibelelaneni nakwikamelo elinye. Cinga ukuba unolwazi kubahlali abatsha kwaye baphatha isicatshulwa. Yibone ngeso lengqondo ukuba ufumene umhlobo okanye umntu onomdla kwimibono.

Umthetho wenombolo 2: "Ziba ngokwemvelo"

Ulunge kwaye wangena, kwaye ngoku ungena ngaphakathi. Nantso-ubona abantu abatsha: abahlobo abatsha nabahlobo! Awudingi ukucinga malunga ngubani owakubonayo okanye owamthandayo, kodwa ngubani ongenalo. Khumbulani, bacinga nokuba ngaba uyayithanda okanye ayikho.Khumbula ukuba kufuneka uhlale uqobo kwaye ungazami ukukholisa umntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka u bonise "ngubani umnini" ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala , kodwa akudingekile ukuba ube mnandi ngokungafanelekileyo - oku kuza kuphawula abaninzi. Ukuba umntu uva ubuchule bakho, ngoko unako ukuyisebenzisa ngoku ngenzuzo yakho.

No. 3 "Khangela into entle kuwo wonke umntu"

Xa ungena, ungaqala ukubheka abantu kunye nokuziphatha kwabo ngokulula. Akukho imfuneko ukuba ugxininise ngokukhawuleza kwiimpazamo zabantu, ngokuchaseneyo, jonga kwiingenelo. Ukuba ubona isithunzi, ngoko unako ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunye nalo mntu.

№4 «Kwi-positive»

Yiyiphi ibhanti le ngcebiso ayizange ibonakale, kufuneka uyilalele, kuba ibamba indima ebalulekileyo. Yonke into, njengawe, yinto yezinto ezintle kunye nokunxibelelana okulungileyo, kwaye zonke izinto ezimbi ziyanqatshwa.

№5 «Ukubaluleka ngoncedo lwamandla kunye nolwazi»

Mamela ngenyameko. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthetha ngawe kwaye ngokubanzi uthi into ethile, phulaphula, abantu bayabanjwa: ngamagama abasebenzisayo, oko bathethayo, oko bathethayo, uluphi uhlobo lwentetho, yintoni intetho, isetyenziselwa intetho njalo njalo.

Xa ukuthetha ngokubhetele kunokuba udibaniselwano wakho kwizinto eziphazamisayo aziphazamisi, ngakumbi ukuba wena unokukwazi ukumelana nantoni na. Uya kukuxabisa kwaye xa kunokwenzeka. Zizimelele kwaye zijongene kwaye uya kuphumelela.

Ingxoxo ixhaswa ngokufanelekileyo kungaphenduli iimpendulo ezininzi. Vumela intetho yakho iguqulwe, kodwa kungekhona iyure ezintathu. Kuya kuba nzima ukusebenzisa iimpendulo enye-syllable.

Ukuba intombazana ingabonakali intloni kwaye ibonisa inomdla kwabanye, yile nto yinto efanelekileyo yokuziphatha.

Kukho imeko xa yonke into ihamba kakuhle, kwaye incoko iya kuma. Musa ukucaphukisa, kusoloko kunokwenzeka ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kwimeko, okanye kunesihloko esitsha kwingxoxo. Ukuba kwinkqubo yoqhagamshelwano sele usukwazi ukufumana umhlaba oqhelekileyo, ubunzima abuyi kuvela.

Ukuba kukho impikiswano, hlalani. Musa ukusilela kwiimvakalelo, phulaphula ingqondo yakho. Ukuzimela kukukhawulezi lakho kwikhampani kunoma yiphi inkampani engaqhelekanga.

Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba wenze ukuvakalelwa?

  1. Ngaphambili, inyanga ukufunda ii-classic zaseRussia ngokusemandleni.
  2. Jonga iindaba, qaphela zonke iziganeko, wazi ngeendaba zezemidlalo ubuncinane ubuncinci: ibhola, i-volleyball, ibhokisi, ukubhukuda nabanye.
  3. Qonda ukuloba, ukuzingela, iimoto. Akukho mfuneko yokuba yi-Ass, kodwa ngokubanzi kuyimfuneko.
  4. Ukulandelela umkhwa wokuziphatha, ngoko unento yokuthetha ngayo namanye amantombazana.
  5. Ngethuba lokuqala kukulungele ukugqoka akusikho into evuselelayo kwaye iziphatha ngokufanelekileyo.
  6. Yazi imigaqo yokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kuluntu. Ngokomzekelo, uye waya kwindawo yokudlala, kwaye indawo ezininzi sele zihlala kwaye kufuneka udlule ngabantu abaninzi ukuze ufike kwindawo yakho. Kule meko, jongana nokuhlala, ukuze ungabalimazi kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ungacasuli.

Umgaqo ophambili kuwo onke amaqabane amasha ukuvuleka, ukuzithiba, ukuqonda nokuzixabisa.