Mhlawumbi, ngamnye wethu ubuncinane wabuza omnye umbuzo: kutheni sifuna inkolo, kutheni iqhubeka emphakathini? Kukho ukutolika ezininzi: nokucacisa okungaqondakaliyo; kwaye abantu baqonde kangcono into eyenzekayo kwili hlabathi elinzima; kunye nokunciphisa ukwesaba okuhlukeneyo ... Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba esinye sezizathu ezibalulekileyo zengqondo kukuba inkolo ayivumeli abantu ukuba baphelelwe ithemba, balahlekelwe ukholo, baphathe ubomi ngokungafuniyo. Ukuphazamiseka kukubonakalisa ukunganakwa kwesi sipho esixabisekileyo, ndithetha ubomi. Sinikelwa ubomi-akusiyo isizathu sokuba sivuyiswe? Ewe, ukuba yonke into yayilula! Ukusuka ebusweni bethu, bekungeze kube mncumo. Inyaniso yokuba ubomi ngokwawo sizathu esihle sokonwaba, khumbula yonke imihla, ngezinye iixesha ngeenyanga. Ezi zibonakaliso eziphezulu, ezikhoyo. Ngaba ucinga ukuba ukuxeka okudumeleyo kwabantu baseSoviet kunye nabangabonakaliyo abafana nabasemazweni aseNtshona bafana neengqondo zengqondo okanye i-sociocultural norm? Kunoko inkcubeko yentlalo. Mhlawumbi uqaphele ukuba kungekudala, siye sahlakulela ukuzitywina, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, ingxaki engabonakaliyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuxelisa imimiselo yenkcubeko, ukukhawuleza ukungafihlakeleyo kunye nokungaqhelekanga. Wonke umntu ukhumbula ukufudumala okukhulu kweli hlobo. NgoJulayi, ndandibukela iindaba kwiTV kwaye ndamangaliswa: umfazi uxelele intatheli ukuba ububi bentsapho yakhe bunyamezela ukushisa, ukuba umntwana, umntu ophethwe yi-asthmatic, uyagxotha, uxinzelelo luye luseke ... Ngaloo nto uyancwina, mxolela, evule . Kwaye kwacaca ukuba wayedlala umlomo wakhe phambi kwekhamera ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yokuba wayefundile: kwakudingeka ukuba amomotheka. Oku kuphakamileyo namhlanje. Ukukhathazeka okudabukisayo kukuba thina, abantu baseSoviet, sifuna ukujonga njengabantu basemzini, abahlali behlala bexhomekeka kunye nale meko. Kwaye ngendlela efanayo silahlekelwa yendalo, njengokuba xa sizama ukuthetha ngokuphumelela kwemifuno yethu kwimimitha engamakhulu ayisithandathu eekhilomitha ezili-1,4 infield kunye nenkulumo ebalulekileyo kakhulu.
Ndiyayiqonda njani ukuba i-overlap - njengento epheleleyo yokungawunaki umgaqo wokufihla isimo sabo esibi somoya, ngoko silandela ngokungaqhelekanga? Kulungile. Yiza ngelamula kwiqela - uphawu lokungabikho kwengqondo kwezengqondo. Kwaye ukuxelela ngokumomotheka okwenzakalayo malunga nento ebalulekileyo, ingxaki - yinkcubeko yokukhubazeka. Kuzo zombini iimeko, ukuziphatha ngokuzikhethela. Kubonisa ukuba umntu akanakunceda ekulawuleni isimo sakhe sengqondo. Asikho isidingo sokumisa ingcamango yakho ukucinga umfanekiso ovela ebomini kwixesha elikhoyo: iibhotile ezizaliswe zizidumbu ezikhukhulayo, iziganeko ezingapheliyo, iintlanganiso ... Sinokulawula njani isimo sethu sengqondo kule miqathango? Ewe, ke ewe, siphila kwingcinezelo engapheliyo yenkqubo. Ngoko, indlela yokufunda ukunandipha ubomi kumntu ongazibandakanyi kwindlela yokomoya, kodwa ngelo xesha "akahambi ngesisu", kodwa unomdla kwizinto ezenzeka kuye kwaye kutheni? Indlela yokuba ngumntu oqhelekileyo oqhelekileyo ofuna ukuba nomoya ohle? Enyanisweni, kulo mbandela, iingcali zengqondo zanamhlanje zithatha isikhundla sokuba ngabafundisi belizwe okanye abaqeqeshi bokuziphatha: bafundisa abantu kwi-psychotechnics indlela yokuzilawula ngayo, bethi: "Thatha umoya, ubambe umoya, ubalekele ezilishumi, uthi:" Ndilile, konke kulungile "... okanye bacebisa ukuba ndizenzele umyalelo:" Ndiyazi into endiyenzayo. Ndiyenaye imeko. " Amasu afanayo afana nalawo asetshenziselwa ukutshintshwa. Okanye: bazinikezela ukuba bazenzele njengombonisi, njengokungathi ucinga ngolu hlobo ukusuka phezulu, kwimbono yeentaka. Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda, kodwa kaninzi, uya kuvuma, ezi mabhunga zibonakala zikhohlakele kwaye ziqala.
Ndiyavuma! Emva kwakho konke, kufuneka sifakwe kwiimeko, kwaye singabikho nto.
Inkohlakalo iyabonakala! Emva koko, ukuhamba ngeenqwelo moya kuhlala kuphazamisekile, nangenxa yabo abangakaze babandezeleka. Kwaye abaphathi baphoxekile ukuba bancumo - ngokunyanisekileyo, ngokungekho nkohliso, banyanzelekile ukuba badlulise imvakalelo emihle, ukuzithemba ukuba yonke into iya kuyenza. Ngaphandle koko umgangatho wabo wobuchule uphantsi kombuzo omkhulu. Uyabona, kwiimeko ezinemibala - nokuba ngaba yinkampani, indiza endizeni, ukutyelela kwinqaba yamandulo okanye ingxubusho ecudisayo - kubalulekile ngathi ukuba sizive luhlobo oluthile lokubambisana kwabantu. Kuyafana nokusebenza kwimeko yeofisi. Ngaphandle kwimizi yezoshishino zanamhlanje zihlaziywa kwinqanaba leenkwenkwezi ezintlanu, i-air conditioners isebenza ngokuzenzekelayo, iifowuni zikhawuleza, izitshini ezizenzekelayo zinika i-espresso enhle kakhulu-kodwa akukho nto ingabikho ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokuphazamiseka. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukukhumbula: ukuba awunalo ubuchule bokusebenza kwengqondo, ungazami ukwenza ngathi unako ukwenza oku kuleso simo. Ndiyakwazi ukudweba umzobo wokudilika. Yinto enye yokuhlalisa phantsi kwamanzi amitha amathathu, kwaye enye enye - kwimashumi amathathu. Ukuxininisa, njengobungakanani bamanzi, awuyi kuluhluza, ungadluli. Ukuba awukwazi ukulawula imeko (ubunzulu, amandla esiphepho, ukuphakama komtsalane), ngoko ke, ukuba ucinge yonke into, uhlala unako ukugqiba ukuba unaman mingaphi onako ukukwazi ukuwugcoba kule meko. Kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi, kwimbono yam, ukuqonda ukuba kukho iimeko apho umntu akakwazi ukukwenza ngaphandle kwesiqhwithi kunye nokucwiliswa okunzulu. Akunakwenzeka, eneneni, ukholelwa ukuba unako ukuphumelela kwimpumelelo, umzekelo, kwinkalo yomthetho-mthetho, ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka kwingxabano evuthayo okanye ukuphepha kwiimeko ezinobungozi. Makhe sithathe igqwetha elifuna ukuphumelela. Ukuba uyaziphepha iziphepho, unokuphumelela njani? Ngoko kuya kuba ngamanzi angathathi ukuqokelela intlanzi ... Kakade ke, ngamanye amaxesha imeko ifuna ukuba sikhuphe, kwaye ize ifake ngokupheleleyo, ukuwamkelwa kwengqondo. Ndiza kunika umzekelo. Mhlawumbi ubonile ngaphezu kweyodwa elwandle, abahamba ngeefestile bahamba nge "banana". Ucinga ntoni? Esi sikhephe senza ukuguquka okubukhali, "ibhanana" iyancipha - wonke umntu usemanzini. Emva kokuba ndibone indlela inkqubela "umngane" enenkani enqumle ukuqhubeka ngokumelene nebhanana. Abanye babedlala, behla njengeengulube ezinamafutha, beqhaqhazela, kwaye indoda enzima yayibambelele, yazama ukubonisa into ethile kumntu. Ubani kunye nantoni na? Yiloo nto endiyithethayo: ukuba uyayiqonda ukuba unesimo apho kufuneka ungamkelekanga imimiselo yomdlalo - kwaye ufumane umphumo, akunakuqonda ukuba udide ngokubhekiselele kumanje, onamandla kunakho.
Iimpawu eziphathekayo zichaphazela njani ukwazi ukunandipha ubomi? Kungekudala, ngoku ngoku udibana namanqaku malunga nokuvulwa "kwenjabulo yomzimba" - bathi, ukuba umama okanye utata unomnye, ke umntwana unikezwa ukubukeka kwexesha elibukhali kwihlabathi. Ziziphi iingqondo zengqondo zicinga ngale nto? Kungekudala ndibukele inkqubo yecala ye-TV yaseRussia umbonisi u-Alexander Gordon ngokuphathelele ukukhonkxa abantu. Indwendwe yeprogram, uVladimir Zhirinovsky, wamemezela umnqweno wakhe wokuba neefoni eziningana-njengamandla kunye novuyo njengoko enjalo. Esinye isithethi, ososayensi-biologist, wayephikisa ukuba ama-clones kaZhirinovsky ayengayi kuba nomdla. Ndandimangalisile: kubonakala ngathi ukuba i-clone ibonakale ngathi "umthombo" njengamaconsi amabini amanzi! Kakade, isayenisi ilungile. Emva koko, i-phenotype, oko kukuthi, iipropati ezifumanekayo ebomini, kwaye kungekhona i-genotype, inquma uhlobo lomlingiswa. Ngoko akukho isethi yemfuza inokuchaza ukuba ukwazi ukuvuya kwaye uhlale unesimo esihle. Akukho mfuziselo yezofuzo ekwazi ukugqiba: uyazi, mzalwana, unayo yonke imfuneko yokuba ube ngumntu onamileyo!
Ngaba abantu abaninzi banemfuneko enjalo? Ewe, zonke ngaphandle kwezinye iindidi ze-psychopath. Iimononcwadi zincwadi zibhalwa malunga nendlela yokufuna nokufumana uxolo, indlela yokufunda ukuzonwabisa ngayo yonke imzuzu, indlela yokwenza oku kuluhlu olufikelelekayo lwangaphakathi nangaphandle, ukuba 'ukhule' njani kuwe ukuxinezeleka kwengqondo kunye nokuqonda ukuba imimoya emibi ayenzekanga - ayikho impahla efanelekileyo. Kungokwemvelo ukuba umntu avuyiswe, nokuba kwimeko enzima, ukuzonwabisa ubomi, ukufuna ukuzonwabisa. Bathi akukho ilanga elincinane - eso sizathu. Nceda unike iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokujamelana nale meko. Ngokuphathelele ilanga - inyaniso. Ngenxa yokudabuka kancinci, akusiyo rhoqo, ngendlela, ekulwe nayo ukulwa, ingakumbi ukuba lo mhlaba ovelisayo uhambelana noPushkin "ubuhlungu bam bubuhlungu." Ukuba usenqwenela ukulahla ukudabuka, ukunganeliseki, ndiyakuncomela ukuzihlola okulula, kodwa ngokuzimeleyo. Zibuze: ngaba imeko yam idibene nesimo sam sengqondo kwabanye abantu? Okanye ngesimo sengqondo sabanye abantu kum? Kwaye mhlawumbi iimeko ezizezona zizathu zento yonke? Okanye impilo? Okanye ngaba ukudabuka kungenangqiqo? Njengomthetho, impendulo ifumaneka ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye kuyacaca ukuba wenzeni, njani ukususa imbangela yokudabuka. Nangona kunjalo, ungayesabi imeko yakho - nangona umntu ulungele kakhulu ukubhukuda, nantoni na ngexesha lokudada ixesha elide ufuna ukulala emhlane wakhe aze aphumle, agubungele amaza. Mhlawumbi ubuhlungu obubuhlungu obuye buguqa phezu kwakho kukubiza komzimba ukuba "ulale," ukubheka esibhakabhakeni uphumule?